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Topic: Aries man
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Scorp25
Newflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 06, 2014 12:39 PM
  
Hi I would love some advice, I have been in a relationship with an aries man for 5 months I am a Scorpio woman. We get along great and never argue, he has met my friends and family but I have not met any of his. I have fallen for this guy but am unsure of his feelings for me, we see each other regularly and he constantly texts me through out the day. I have been hurt in past relationships and I am scared of getting hurt again. I would love to figure out this man IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Scorp25:
Hi I would love some advice, I have been in a relationship with an aries man for 5 months I am a Scorpio woman. We get along great and never argue, he has met my friends and family but I have not met any of his.
I don't like that he hasn't introduced you to any of his loved ones. Yet he's met all of yours. Have you asked him about that? If so, what did he say? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8099
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 12:57 PM
Im sure he's not interested in that.
You introduced him to your loved ones and he was probably just being polite..
Personally I don't like introducing my parents to people I'm ******* ..
Maybe his friends are ******** lol.I believe a relationships are just between two people.
Family and friends are not part of the package.
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vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:25 PM
The good thing about being with an Aries man is that you will always know where you stand and how he feels about you. He will always make SURE you know.If you still doubting your position, then just give him enough space.IP: Logged |
Scorp25
Newflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 06, 2014 01:35 PM
He has said I will meet his family but he has never said when. He has told his friends about me I'm not sure his family know about me IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:38 PM
Why would you care though? Just enjoy being with him. I think you view this as a sign of commitment or great interest in you. Whichever, there are still many other ways that these two qualities can be expressed.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8099
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:38 PM
so what are you worried about exactly?IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Family and friends are not part of the package.
If I can reach you, I would kiss you. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:41 PM
I'm with an aries and I'm an aries myself. One thing I know for sure, we don't like things to be rushed or forced in relationships. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:41 PM
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Originally posted by Scorp25:
He has said I will meet his family but he has never said when. He has told his friends about me I'm not sure his family know about me
F*ck what he said. It's about action. Flat out tell him what's on your mind. He's an Aries so he should be able to take that! Take the load off yourself girl! lol There's nothing worse than constantly worrying yourself to death about these kinds of things. If he doesn't bite, then he's just not that into you. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:49 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
F*ck what he said. It's about action. Flat out tell him what's on your mind. He's an Aries so he should be able to take that! Take the load off yourself girl! lol There's nothing worse than constantly worrying yourself to death about these kinds of things. If he doesn't bite, then he's just not that into you.
But I really don't understand how that is a sign of deep interest? Two people can be in a secret relationship and still madly in love.
Unless she's thinking about marriage or having a normal traditional relationship, which is really not one of Aries' interests. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
But I really don't understand how that is a sign of deep interest? Two people can be in a secret relationship and still madly in love.
Unless she's thinking about marriage or having a normal traditional relationship, which is really not one of Aries' interests.
I believe that's what she wants though - a traditional relationship. She is a Scorpio afterall. If I've introduced you to all my loved ones, I'd be confused about why I haven't met any of yours. Now, if you explain to me that you aren't very close w/ your family and you rarely see them yourself...I'll totally understand then. Otherwise, "secret love" to her probably = not into me the way I'm into him. IP: Logged |
Scorp25
Newflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 06, 2014 01:57 PM
Lovely aries you are right I am very guarded around him because of the secrecy. I want a man to be proud to be seen with me. I don't like feeling I'm being kept a secrect.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by Scorp25:
Lovely aries you are right I am very guarded around him because of the secrecy. I want a man to be proud to be seen with me. I don't like feeling I'm being kept a secrect.
I understand. What's going on in his chart? What's his Moon, Mars & Venus? IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 595
From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted January 06, 2014 02:12 PM
fortunately, it probably isnt that complicated of a reason. you might just not like his friends LOL and hes looking out for you. have you guys talked about it? ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
have you guys talked about it?
That's what she needs to do. To calm her nerves lol. IP: Logged |
Astrochologist
Knowflake Posts: 86
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I understand. What's going on in his chart? What's his Moon, Mars & Venus?
Sounds like an action and reaction is preventing from true bonding from happening. Aries is pretty quick to jump into an Rship if they have Venus in Aries. If Venus in Taurus , or Aquarius a bit longer. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8099
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:24 PM
quote:
Originally posted by vickymadness:
I'm with an aries and I'm an aries myself
STAHPPPPPPP. You Aries can't keep to yourselves so unfair. :c IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8099
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:28 PM
It makes sense a Scorpio wants to know everything about a person including their inner life.Idk I kinda like the intial distance, I don't even care what you do for living.. your background etc.
Kinda makes it more exciting that I get to find out on my own.
I guess my Gemini Moon-Venus just is interested in mentality connecting with someone with out all the social conventions. Pure raw intimacy
So much for superficiality.... IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
So much for superficiality....
So you hate all things Deep? LOL. IP: Logged |
Scorp25
Newflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 06, 2014 02:44 PM
Thank you for your replys I'm not sure of his moon and Venus his dob is 28/03/1972. We haven't really discussed it much as I don't want to push him.IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:44 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
STAHPPPPPPP.You Aries can't keep to yourselves so unfair. :c
#Jealousy. I don't blame you though. I can't help being so exalted; sparks fly as I walk, and the phone is melting as I'm typing thi.. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1552
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by Scorp25:
Thank you for your replys I'm not sure of his moon and Venus his dob is 28/03/1972. We haven't really discussed it much as I don't want to push him.
Venus in Taurus and moon in Virgo. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8099
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 02:54 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So you hate all things Deep? LOL.
I don't see how any of that is deep.
We all have our inner worlds and I think that is sacred.
I respect people who want their privacy. Plus I have no desire to get married so I don't see how any of that really concerns me.
Your social class, friends and family lol..
Btw marriage is an extremely superficial social invention. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2014 03:05 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I don't see how any of that is deep.
We all have our inner worlds and I think that is sacred.
I respect people who want their privacy.Plus I have no desire to get married so I don't see how any of that really concerns me.
Your social class, friends and family lol..
Btw marriage is an extremely superficial social invention.
No. I'm not talking about family at all. Just in general. I was asking you if everything needed to be light & superficial.
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