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Topic: people that are really annoying to be around in certain situations
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 02:21 AM
I'm curious...example Person 1: They just woke up (has not even made it to the coffee pot/kurig sp?),just got home from work, school, or other. And they just need too chill out and unwind for a bit. Person 2: Approaches person 1, and basically asking them what they are up to today?, when are they going to do this?, when are we going to do this? etc. or just talk person 1's ear off. Person 1: is not currently on person 2's enthusiasm level, just wants to chill...person 2 is currently making them become very agitated. So agitated that they may snap and say something like "Get out of my face!" "Don't talk to me right now" "stop talking to me!" "I DON'T CARE!" "Go away!" "I told you not to talk to me when I first wake up!" Has anyone been in a scenario like this? Do you relate more to person 1 or 2 more? What sign do you think person 1 and 2 is? IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 411 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 02:36 AM
Venus-Uranus, Venus-mars, mars-mars, mercury-mars. I think I'm right. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 07, 2014 02:37 AM
I know exactly who! Me when I first get up and my mother. I am a Virgo with a Libra stellium, she is a Leo with Virgo stellium. My mom always demanded stuff and my mood is really bad when I just wake up. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 7288 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 03:41 AM
^ lmao, story of my life. Scorpio vs. Leo.
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jupitersgirl Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 07, 2014 04:41 AM
Haha person 1 is me, 2 is my mom. We are both sags, we both have venus in cap, mars in aqua. I have cancer ascendant, she has scorpio ascendant. However I have venus conj. jupiter, mercury conj. neptune and moon in pisces. She has mercury in cap, venus opp. uranus square saturn. She's a lot more practical than I am. She never sits. I'm all about chilling out.IP: Logged |
chargeomentum Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 07:03 AM
2nd person is sagg, 1st person prolly virgo.IP: Logged |
incognito Knowflake Posts: 114 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 09:12 AM
lol I can relate to person 1. I had to put a DND sign outside my door just so that she would stop bugging me. THen she took a pic of it and posted it on FB. wtf?I take a long time to wake up and do stuff. I just woke up, was on my way to the bathroom, and she stopped me at the door wanting to ask me to do something for her. I exploded and bit her head off. She was an aries with moon conjunct mercury so basically similar to a gem on the inside. Flighty and gossipy. our synastry was baaad Im a libra with cap moon and lots of pluto IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8261 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 07, 2014 09:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: ^ lmao, story of my life. Scorpio vs. Leo.
Or Leo vs 12th house Aquarius sun. Lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8261 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 07, 2014 09:39 AM
I'm definitely the first person. I get extremely agitated if someone talks to me when I'm in the 12th house escapist zone. When I have had a stressful/hard day at work, a bad day in general, or I have been around a bunch of people I need to recharge with alone time. My alone time is usually spent on the back deck in the evenings when weather permits. When I'm out on the deck that is your cue to leave me alone because I'm not in a social mood. When I go into that mode I literally think about nothing, it's blissful. I suspect this is because my aqua placements and Gemini mars make me mentally exhausted. It's nice to slow my brain down every now and then.IP: Logged |
PlutoFish Knowflake Posts: 1873 From: Sumeria Registered: Sep 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 09:44 AM
Person 1 = Mutable Person 2 = CardinalThe scenario needs some understanding. (Serpentarius) ! ------------------ 13 Sign astrologer ☾ ♐ IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 10:24 AM
haha!!! I really enjoy reading everyone's replies! I knew I wasn't the only one that goes through this. I notice it's often a mom daughter relationship. So I wondered if it was just that and nothing to do with astrology. But then my guy's mom likes her alone time. And likes to just chill like me in the morning. She told me with her ex husband, he was a chatter box in the morning, he is a Gemini. And she would get very agitated by this. She is a Cancer. When she dated this one guy, and had plans with him on day she worked, she would still go home to unwind before going over there. I guess when her kids where little, her kids would ask "is mom mad at us?" and someone had to explain to them that she just needs to unwind after work. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 10:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by incognito: lol I can relate to person 1. I had to put a DND sign outside my door just so that she would stop bugging me. THen she took a pic of it and posted it on FB. wtf?
Ha!ha! nice! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 07, 2014 10:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: haha!!! I really enjoy reading everyone's replies! I knew I wasn't the only one that goes through this. I notice it's often a mom daughter relationship. So I wondered if it was just that and nothing to do with astrology. But then my guy's mom likes her alone time. And likes to just chill like me in the morning. She told me with her ex husband, he was a chatter box in the morning, he is a Gemini. And she would get very agitated by this. She is a Cancer. When she dated this one guy, and had plans with him on day she worked, she would still go home to unwind before going over there. I guess when her kids where little, her kids would ask "is mom mad at us?" and someone had to explain to them that she just needs to unwind after work.
Some people can wake up and be really extremely cheerful and coherent. Everyone remarks that I am worst when they wake me up. My friend used to call on the phone and wake me up from a blissful sleep. The difference was so pronounced, she could always tell just by the way I said hello so she would hang up in my ear without saying a word. She told me I sounded so miserable to be awake she felt horrible guilt just hearing my voice after waking me up she couldn't even talk so she would hang up. Basically she thought I should just stay asleep most the time haha.
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 11:15 AM
but yep I'm person 1 my mom is person 2.I got agitated last night cause I got home home around 8:30ishpm. Just wanted to do chores, get ready for tomorrow and unwind. I think she might of gave me a head ache. haha I'll check my synastry with mom. Some synastry I notice w/ Venus, Uranus, Mars and Mercury is: Mercury(Me) Trine Venus(Mom) Venus Opposition Pluto Mars Opposition Sun Uranus conjunct Moon ASC sextile Mercury Neptune Trine Venus Neptune Trine Mars Pluto Square Uranus (woh this might explain my mom wanting to do the opposite of what I ask at times, and then me sometimes using it to my advantage using reverse psychology. haha I wonder if my sister has this aspect with mom too) IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 11:35 AM
haha a lot of people who slept over my house would say something is up with my mom. It's not just me and my sister. A friend I had in high school, she would sleep on the couch downstairs cause I have a twin bed. In the morning if she moved on the couch a little, and my mom noticed, she would talk my friend's ear off. My friend that lived in the basement for two years told me. "Your mom is just too happy in the mornings" and when I lived away for 6 months, my friend told me on a Saturday morning when she was trying to sleep in, she would hear my mom talking to the cat like "Bobby!!...Bobby!...BOB!-Sterrrr!! You are RobbieMcBobby!" Haha yeah my mom has Sun, Mercury and Uranus in Leo and I have Moon and Pluto in Scorpio. And what do you know...my mom's 12th house is empty. I have Mercury in Taurus house 12 My mom's Mercury is super amped up being in Leo in HOUSE 3! haha IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2634 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 07, 2014 11:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Stawr: [b]haha!!! I really enjoy reading everyone's replies! I knew I wasn't the only one that goes through this. I notice it's often a mom daughter relationship. So I wondered if it was just that and nothing to do with astrology. But then my guy's mom likes her alone time. And likes to just chill like me in the morning. She told me with her ex husband, he was a chatter box in the morning, he is a Gemini. And she would get very agitated by this. She is a Cancer. When she dated this one guy, and had plans with him on day she worked, she would still go home to unwind before going over there. I guess when her kids where little, her kids would ask "is mom mad at us?" and someone had to explain to them that she just needs to unwind after work.
Some people can wake up and be really extremely cheerful and coherent. Everyone remarks that I am worst when they wake me up. My friend used to call on the phone and wake me up from a blissful sleep. The difference was so pronounced, she could always tell just by the way I said hello so she would hang up in my ear without saying a word. She told me I sounded so miserable to be awake she felt horrible guilt just hearing my voice after waking me up she couldn't even talk so she would hang up. Basically she thought I should just stay asleep most the time haha.[/B][/QUOTE]that's nice that your friend can take a hint, some people can't! LOL IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 07, 2014 11:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: that's nice that your friend can take a hint, some people can't! LOL
I always tried to reassure her that it was nbd. I felt kinda bad about her worrying like that. I would tell her, just give me a few minutes to wake up, you don't have to hang up the phone. IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 531 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 05:21 PM
Person 1 would be someone who values his/her space to chill. For Moons, i think it would Gemini, Aquarius, Scorpio, Capricorn, maybe Cancer.Person 2 are either talkers or people who can't take cues from person 1/can't wait to share everything with the world. Talkers: Gemini Sun/Merc, Libra Sun/Merc, Can't wait to share: Aries, Leos IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 84 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 01:37 PM
Omg. My sag sun sag moon sag mercury leo rising ex was like this. It was so terrible haha. I am an aqua sun cancer moon virgo rising. I really need my me time.I would come home from work at odd hours and he would still be freaking awake ready to talk about the most useless things, ask questions about every inane thing you could think of and he demanded attention and that he be listened to! Watching a movie or show with him was the worst because he would talk through the whole thing. He rarely said anything of value. He told me the same story so many time. UGH!!! IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8185 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 01:39 PM
None of those things really annoy me..I really dislike when someone starts smoking next to me with out asking me if its okay. When they start randomly texting in the middle of a conversation. Take over the entire bed leaving you hanging on the side... IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 191 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoFish: Person 1 = Mutable Person 2 = Cardinal
Me & my mom too. I'm mutable, she's cardinal.
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