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Topic: Best and worst synastry: Your personal experiences?
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Anisa
Newflake Posts: 24
From: United States
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 07, 2014 02:42 PM
  
What were your best and worst relationships? I know squares are bad, but I had pluto/mars, venus/mars sqaures and I loved/hated it at the same time. The sexual energy was beyond fiery. And there was always obsessiveness involved, and especially jealousy. It started out very quick, passionate, the chemistry was great but it ended very badly and now after almost 2 years I'm still clinging smh lol. IP: Logged |
Anisa
Newflake Posts: 24
From: United States
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 07, 2014 08:09 PM
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 683
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 07, 2014 08:37 PM
Which were you? Pluto/Mars/Venus? IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 573
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2014 08:41 PM
This is about relationships generally - I find Mercury square Mercury, Moon square Moon and Mars in negative aspect to Saturn or Mercury difficult.IP: Logged |
Anisa
Newflake Posts: 24
From: United States
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 07, 2014 08:46 PM
I was Pluto, him Mars
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Which were you? Pluto/Mars/Venus?
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 683
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 08, 2014 12:56 PM
I've heard some people talk well of Mars/Pluto square.
It probably depends on what else you have though. Things to balance that energy. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 683
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 08, 2014 01:01 PM
Oh but worst for me was a bunch of their planets around my IC squaring my Pluto. Trines to my mars/mercury though.
Their Mars square my sun was another.
Not just the worst but that was downright insanity. Best? Lots of stuff around my Asc, Mars, mercury, and Pluto. A few double whammy aspects. A few squares, an opposition. But lots of Trines and conjunctions. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3309
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Registered: May 2012
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posted January 08, 2014 04:45 PM
Absolute Best:  
Absolute Worst:
 
Pretty Horrible:
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Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3309
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Registered: May 2012
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posted January 08, 2014 04:47 PM
I don't have the correct AC for the middle guy.
The first one is in Scorpio - but I don't know the exact degree.
The last one is Gemini but again - the degree is kind of iffy. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 720
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 08, 2014 09:56 PM
With my boyfriend, it's been the best relationship for me so far, here is our chart (I'm the virgo outside, he is the libra guy)
 I have never loved anyone so much before, I don't even care if it's mutual or not, I will always love this man!  He has helped me with some really important emotional things, and he is always there for me I also appreciate that he seems so stable and is a very relaxed, funny and interesting personality… I really hope we can stay together through many, many years even though we got a synastry with many squares
I love that we both have sun-venus, sun-mercury, moon-venus, sun-moon and venus-mars aspect together!
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jjj
Knowflake Posts: 249
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 09, 2014 03:32 AM
Next to Neptune... nice to hear that. I like your Chiron-Venus trine. You see you are both Cancer AC. How does it feel in the relationship? I have a theory that AC compatibility compensates other hard aspects somehow... And how is a Cancer AC man?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8187
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 04:12 AM
It's hard for me to say best or worst you know?
Most relationships in my life I consider important are special to me.
I've never been in an abusive relationship or anything..
I will say most intense vs more amicable.  Major love in life... I mean it's quite tragic from my perspective because there are constant obstacles that life throws at us ..
which keeps us apart. it's to the point where I have to sacrifice everything for this person.. I'm not prepared to do that unfortunately and I don't think love is all about that.. I think love CAN be amicable. I'm just scared that I will never have another love like this in my life...
I will always cherish this person but has been a source of much sorrow so..... Yeah it's not amazing.  No fuss.. this person seems to have their **** together.. It's almost toooo stable..
Idk how I will adjust to stability LMFAO. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 365
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 06:15 AM
Is this only romantic wise? In the romantic department I only have/had oone relationship, which is with my husband.But in relationships in a general sense, I guess that the best placements in synastry I have had are Moon/Venus/Mercury in compatible elements/signs, specially if they are also in Aries as I have Aries Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus. There's a friend with whom I have felt chemistry that has Aries Venus/Moon, Gemini Mercury.
The worst aspects I have spotted would be hard aspects from dear Saturn. Squares, conjunctions, oppositions... Saturn square my Saturn/IC from my mom, Saturn square my Aries stellium from my dad, Saturn square/oppose Jupiter/Mars from my husband lolol...  Also, lack of Moon/Moon compatibility makes people not understanding of each other's emotional needs and vulnerability. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 720
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by jjj:
Next to Neptune... nice to hear that. I like your Chiron-Venus trine. You see you are both Cancer AC. How does it feel in the relationship? I have a theory that AC compatibility compensates other hard aspects somehow... And how is a Cancer AC man?
thanks!! I'm so happy I met this guy  I'm not 100% sure he is cancer ascendant cause I don't know his TOB, but I'm sure that he was born at late evening and he is definitely not fire or air ascendant cause he is really shy and not the greatest small-talker either.. but he is unbelievable adoring and charming so he compensates for being shy! IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 464
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 08:18 PM
What percentages were used for all of these charts? IP: Logged |
SerpeantKing
Knowflake Posts: 99
From: Virginia Beach
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 10, 2014 04:29 AM
Sun in her 7th house is destiny to be together.
Mars in her 8th house gives her, her sexual desires.Her Mars in your 1st house. Ya know she wants ya. Saturn conjunct her sun or vise versa. A feeling of responsibility to be with her, kindred spirits. Sun Conjuncting her Moon or vise versa-things unfold gracefully. Probably one of the most powerful aspects of attraction is your Mars conjunct her Venus. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 3494
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2014 06:13 PM
Hello Anisa! Welcome to LL  ------------------
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