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Topic: How to deal with pluto squares?
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coteau Knowflake Posts: 39 From: neptune Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 03:09 PM
I have 6 of them and I feel they're damaging me. how do I turn the pluto energy into a positive one?IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10352 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 03:11 PM
some of them are a little too wide? Moon and mercury is kinda pushing it. Do you feel all of them?IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 1753 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 03:12 PM
What is it that you feel and don't like?IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1355 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 03:16 PM
I don't know those are the most difficult squares of all I believe…it's just about learning from your mistakes
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coteau Knowflake Posts: 39 From: neptune Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 03:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: some of them are a little too wide? Moon and mercury is kinda pushing it. Do you feel all of them?
I feel mercury but maybe that's because of all my Aquarius. With the moon well, not sure. quote: Originally posted by charlie: What is it that you feel and don't like?
I power struggle with people, and I ruin friendships, and I become obsessive over every little thing and create dramas in my head.
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SDragon Moderator Posts: 279 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 09, 2014 04:32 PM
I would suggest meditation. Your Aquarius will help you with that along with the fact that you have Pluto in both Scorpio and the Eighth house which are it's natural rulers. Because you have a lot of houses in the 12th, a lot of your behavior is subconsciously motivated and you will need to try and create an objective understanding of yourself before you can truly learn to control Pluto. Awareness that you have self-destructive tendencies is a positive step as it means you fully have it within your capacity to affect change, now you need to accept responsibility for every aspect that Pluto touches, Mercury (your thought processes), Moon (your emotional nature), Sun (your ego and self-image), Venus (your attachments and desires), etc... Learn to apologize when you know you're in the wrong but don't wallow in self-pity or self-loathing because of things that happen. You will and can learn from them and in the doing, will become the positive Pluto energy that you can't seem to identify with right now. But without insight into the cause, there will be no change - so beware of just trying to address the symptoms. IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor unregistered
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posted January 09, 2014 07:30 PM
You'll attract violent people to you, whether emotionally-violent, physically, psychological, so expect that. But usually people with those heavy aspects have a lot of other stuff going on in their chart so that they can protect themselves as need be.IP: Logged |
summerlite unregistered
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posted January 09, 2014 07:41 PM
so much Aquarius. yeah get into meditation, exercise. Also try charity work.IP: Logged |
coteau Knowflake Posts: 39 From: neptune Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 11, 2014 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by SDragon: I would suggest meditation. Your Aquarius will help you with that along with the fact that you have Pluto in both Scorpio and the Eighth house which are it's natural rulers. Because you have a lot of houses in the 12th, a lot of your behavior is subconsciously motivated and you will need to try and create an objective understanding of yourself before you can truly learn to control Pluto. Awareness that you have self-destructive tendencies is a positive step as it means you fully have it within your capacity to affect change, now you need to accept responsibility for every aspect that Pluto touches, Mercury (your thought processes), Moon (your emotional nature), Sun (your ego and self-image), Venus (your attachments and desires), etc... Learn to apologize when you know you're in the wrong but don't wallow in self-pity or self-loathing because of things that happen. You will and can learn from them and in the doing, will become the positive Pluto energy that you can't seem to identify with right now. But without insight into the cause, there will be no change - so beware of just trying to address the symptoms.
I do self loath actually.Thank you so much. quote: Originally posted by summerlite: so much Aquarius. yeah get into meditation, exercise. Also try charity work.
I'l definetly give meditation a try.
quote: Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor: You'll attract violent people to you, whether emotionally-violent, physically, psychological, so expect that. But usually people with those heavy aspects have a lot of other stuff going on in their chart so that they can protect themselves as need be.
That's interesting.Could you explain why? IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 298 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 11, 2014 04:11 PM
*hugs* i have squares and oppositions with pluto too. its been at the center of all the dramatic events that have occured in my life so far...it can be kinda scary. its done some real doozys in the past (especially transiting pluto). i feel my natal pluto helps/has helped me out alot in the past. i actually dont think i would still be here if i didnt have so much pluto in my chart (i have sun in the 8th house as well). so that combined with my leo sun and cap asc i think helps with my stiff upper lip quote: Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor: You'll attract violent people to you, whether emotionally-violent, physically, psychological, so expect that. But usually people with those heavy aspects have a lot of other stuff going on in their chart so that they can protect themselves as need be.
ah thats reassuring haha i knew i wasnt imagining things lol i tend to attract bully types. its most frustrating because i am just being myself. i feel they resent me for...i think i seem *free* to them. i noticed they are quite conservative and set in their ways and well they just dont like people like me lol the only people who have accepted me in the past are ones who have loads of confidence in themselves and use their energy to build up others. pluto gives me troubles but i feel it gives me power too. i kinda like my pluto energy stand up for yourself in any difficult situation and always say sorry when you are in the wrong IP: Logged |