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From: Mercury
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posted January 12, 2014 03:14 AM            

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Do you truly understand how the two go together? If two people are in love with each other there is an exchange of self. In love it takes two. Personalities transmutate. You try and become that person to balance the differences between you unless of course you have the same astrological signature. General love is accommodating differences. How does that play out astrologically. What shows this? How does a Saturnian exchange his signature for Venusian. Same for a Mercurian with a Neptunian. When you are truly in love a part of your psyche changes especially around the s.o . Is this a rare thing that is really an expression of synastry? I always figured synastry is the outcome of the relationship but what about the love in its self. Perhaps sun-moon-Venus is less about how you behave in relationships but really how love must behave to keep you? I suppose the most rewarding love is when your signatures crash and you must evolve to accommodate. This contradicts love planets in signs because clearly regardless of the sign most humans are willing to do that for the person they love. I guess the question how long? So.... Can you tell I've been with Pisces for way too long?

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From: Saturn
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posted January 12, 2014 03:40 AM            

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I don't know if I'm answering your post, but it's just something that I've been thinking for some time myself.

I don't think you should try to be the other person to balance out the differences. I think you should love the person enough to accept those differences, and if those differences are too large or bring pain to you, the other person should love you enough to want to modify them or fine tune them so that they are on a more receptive wavelength to you.I personally think that someone who is invested in 'modifying' themselves because they care about me is to me the greatest proof of love that anyone can give me.You would be more in a frame of mind to return the favour. But very often in a relationship there is likely to have one person who loves more and one who will love less, one that will give more that that they are receiving in return. I'm not sure that astrology can explain love tbh. We can talk about affinity of planets,and top notch synastry and composites. I know couples who were advised not to get married by astrologers that are still going strong till date after almost 20 years of marriage.

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From: Aries fantasy land ^_^
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posted January 12, 2014 02:20 PM            

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I think it depends on each couple and each person. Kero, you and the Pisces are mutable Suns so it would naturally feel like you're influencing each other a great deal, becoming the other. Charts high on mutable energy have it easier in this regard and ofc it helps to have some positive Neptune/Moon-Venus +/- Jup energy in synastry for this kind of exchange. But like Jess pointed out, not everyone wants this sort of fusion in a relationship. Anyways, we are more than just our tropical charts, so I think we have plenty of resources of outgrow them, if we want to, and meet the other half way.

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posted January 12, 2014 02:46 PM            

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posted January 12, 2014 04:55 PM            

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It depends on the person. We all have different views on love. What love means, what it is, what is the right expression of it. For me. I would do anything. I would change I would drop everything else in my life for love. I would die for the person. But only if it's meant to be. So that's where it's complicated. How do I know it's meant to be.

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posted January 12, 2014 05:06 PM            

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