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Topic: What in my chart is attracting guys who get SO intense, SO quickly, and then want to
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lvASTRO
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posted January 13, 2014 05:13 PM
  
I've been lurking on this forum for about a year now and finally decided to take the plunge and join. I want to learn all I can, and I read so many insightful posts here daily.I'm having a bit of a problem at the moment. First off, here are my chart details:
 Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Pisces 9.49
Moon Leo 2.09
Mercury Aquarius 14.12.
Venus Aries 22.56.
Mars Capricorn 4.34
Jupiter Aries 28.17
Saturn Capricorn 1.09
Uranus Capricorn 0.30
Neptune Capricorn 9.43
Pluto Scorpio 12.31R
Lilith Leo 21.37
Asc node Pisces 23.14 Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant Libra 18.14
II Scorpio 16.09
III Sagittarius 17.14
IV Capricorn 20.25
V Aquarius 23.11
VI Pisces 22.53
VII Aries 18.14
VIII Taurus 16.09
IX Gemini 17.14
Midheaven Cancer 20.25
XI Leo 23.11
XII Virgo 22.53 And aspects: Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Sextile Neptune 0.06 234
Sun Trine Pluto 2.42 109
Moon Square Jupiter 3.52 -50
Mercury Square Pluto 1.41 -97
Mercury Trine Ascendant 4.02 40
Venus Conjunction Jupiter 5.21 156
Venus Trine Uranus 7.34 4
Venus Opposition Ascendant 4.42 -47
Venus Square Midheaven 2.31 -28
Mars Trine Jupiter 6.17 31
Mars Conjunction Saturn 3.25 154
Mars Conjunction Uranus 4.04 278
Mars Conjunction Neptune 5.09 202
Jupiter Trine Saturn 2.51 87
Jupiter Trine Uranus 2.13 58
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 0.39 393
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 8.34 51
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 9.13 16
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2.48 27
Pluto Trine Midheaven 7.54 0
1840 -222 1618 Firstly, I am a gay male (that can change things in astrology a bit, I believe). I just ended my three year relationship with my Sun Sag, Moon Cancer, Rising Leo, Mercury Sagittarius, Venus Scorpio, Mars Pisces partner. I know my Venus in Aries gets a bad rap, but I'm actually very faithful and devoted, and my Mars in Capricorn really steadies and grounds my Aries energies. Ultimately, my partner's inability to be frank and tell the truth, as well as his insecurities (which led him to horrible decisions), killed any trust I had in him, and when I can't trust, I can't love. I'm pretty confident, but he ended up bringing out insecurities in myself, and I just can't function happily in a relationship as such. I know I contributed my own problems and vices, but nevertheless... Devoted until the end. I'm at a point now where I'm starting to meet guys, socialize--not necessarily to date or commit (too soon), but just to have fun and develop casual relationships (not necessarily trying to hook-up, but if it happens, it happens). I would love to just make some awesome friends, too. However, it seems like the majority of guys are throwing themselves at me. Some text me multiple times in a row, others say things like, "I can't wait to call you my boyfriend," others "miss me" after hanging out twice, etc., and it's a bit disconcerting. And if I sleep with a guy--it's fatal. It seems like they fall for me. I've even made it clear I'm not looking for, nor do I want anything. What in my chart could be attracting guys of this disposition and mindset? Even with my ex-partner, two exes before, and casual relationships, guys have usually tried to rush me into things (which thankfully my Mars Cappy placement somewhat controlled, as I'm stubborn, but my Libra Rising's need to be diplomatic made me budge a little in certain instances); they were always the first to say "love," which never made me run away for fear of intensity. (I appreciate intensity, but have to feel it.) I never said it back to appease, and it sometimes took weeks/months for me to reciprocate, or I'd say, "I could really eventually care for you, too," or something as such. (My first boyfriend said it after two weeks and I said, "Thank you...?" Yikes.) I'm super respectful with everyone's feelings and would just appreciate any insight into the matter. Sometimes it's hard to realize what is happening when you're in the middle of a situation, and I am hoping to break this pattern so I don't have to keep having difficult conversations where I feel like I'm hurting a guy (makes me so squeamish and uncomfortable, :-\ ). Now at the first signs of this clingy-ness, I kind of don't even want to give a guy a chance. Thank you for any insight. I'm trying to read up as much as I can. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted January 13, 2014 08:00 PM
Check ur transits.IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted January 13, 2014 09:18 PM
You should post your chart. Reading this list of planets and aspects is difficult and tedious.Also I suspect your thread is going to be moved to the personal reading section. ------------------
http://www.lightofthestars.com Every Chart has a Gift IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 13, 2014 11:33 PM
All that earth is going to attract people who need someone to ground them....another way to say it is they need someone to stabilize their extreme's but they won't appreciate your grounding, they will try to drag you into their intensity!
If they had the capability to appreciate stability they would be finding a way to become stable within themselves instead of trying to get you to be their stability!
Just my opinion from being around ppl who do the same type thing to me! Just say, "NO!" Tell them they need to get you to want them, not feel pressured into something!IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 13, 2014 11:40 PM
Plus your IC is cap.....you have a stabilizing feeling at your core, like your always going to be someone who is strong enough to take care of everyone, it sux always being the adult!
I have IC cap@11, AC is libra@8.55 and my Venus is libra@19.02...on your AC, your moon is on my Saturn and my moon is 4-5 from being on your South Node(south node shows your past lives).....do I know you from somewhere? Lol (maybe I should explain that, my moon aspecting your south node means we might have met in another life) Again, lol!Something about the angles(AC/IC/DC/MC) being in cardinal signs (libra/cap/aries/cancer) makes us come off as very solid, dependable and trust worthy but still approachable and open enough to be flexible.
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lvASTRO
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posted January 13, 2014 11:42 PM
That was very insightful, Gabby. Thank you!And you're right; I feel like I attract a lot of individuals with balance issues--in my past relationships this tended to upset my balance and create discord between us. First love was overly dependent (and I need my independence to feel healthy!), while second love was highly dependent on alcohol, gambling, and other "addictive" behaviors. My ex-partner is really having a tough time because he says he's so hurt and crushed that I've decided to leave him (he was very much co-dependent to a sense, as in couldn't do stuff alone, very jealous, almost smothering), but I keep telling myself there was a reason I needed to leave and there were repeated patterns/dishonesty that were deal breakers for me. It's so true, though. I always have this insane gut feeling telling me to stand my ground, and when I don't, I'm right, and I regret it. IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted January 13, 2014 11:57 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
All that earth is going to attract people who need someone to ground them....another way to say it is they need someone to stabilize their extreme's but they won't appreciate your grounding, they will try to drag you into their intensity!
If they had the capability to appreciate stability they would be finding a way to become stable within themselves instead of trying to get you to be their stability!
Just my opinion from being around ppl who do the same type thing to me! Just say, "NO!" Tell them they need to get you to want them, not feel pressured into something!
Earth-heavy people always think they're the most lucid person in the room and everyone else is clueless and needs their "guidance". Practicality is something every person has, they just express it in different ways dependent on the elements in their chart (ie an air-heavy person reasons their way through things from a rational perspective, so on and so forth), so no, earth signs have no monopoly on that. I'm not even sure that's what earth signs are really about, because earth emphasis has to do with the PHYSICAL and tangible world (money, finances, THINGS), not how centered and practical someone is MENTALLY, but that's a debate for another time.
As far as any claims about whether or not they enjoy drama you have to check the entire chart. Someone with Pluto conjunct a luminary is probably gonna have more of a taste for danger and drama (even if their luminaries or inner planets are in earth signs), than someone that doesn't. If you know someone with heavy earth emphasis that is surrounded by people that you personally feel pull them into drama (which is entirely your subjective opinion from the outside which is largely colored by personal bias, as is everyone's opinion), then it's probably a case of them getting something out of it that they enjoy, and like tends to attract like. This extends to your argument about pressure, also. No one stays and puts up with anything they don't get some kind of benefit or pleasure from. No one. The OP supports this with his talk of how quickly he backs out when someone shows heavy interest in him that he doesn't reciprocate. No man, no matter how passive YOU think he is, is going to do something he doesn't want to do. Ever. Besides, most of his inner planets and luminaries are in water and air signs anyway, only his Mars is in earth and his outers, hardly enough to categorize him as a largely earth-driven person. As far as what explains his tendencies, Mercury in Aquarius would make someone very independent-minded, and Venus in Aries is not going to be the clingy type either. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 14, 2014 12:33 AM
His question is what in his chart attracts people to him who get so intense so quickly?
The question wasn't about how he is in the relationship it's about what in his chart attracts these people to him....if you read his question? I was answering his question!
Plus anyone with a 4 planet Capricorn, an Earth stellium that is including Saturn and Mars adding to their Capricorn IC is going to have some strong stability(earth) in them!
I know this because my daughter has a cap stellium also and even though she has another aqua stellium in her 3rd house and a libra moon, she's as solid as they come! The other people I've met with so much
air signs are creative and really out there, which she is but you'd better bet she intends on using her ingenuous creativity to make some hard cold cash, there is nothing flighty about her!But really imoppedthefloor, why am I even saying anything to you to explain? I've never seen you being polite on this forum yet, so I wouldn't expect anything but a combative comment from you! You derail people's threads just to make a point that most the time isn't even correct!
If you want to talk about people who love making drama, wanting attention and enjoying getting in peoples faces for no real reason, that's you!
Personally I've started to avoid threads that you comment on because I know your going to go after someone instead of answering the question and trying to support the team effort to be there for each other!
It's not fun to read you calling people names and hurting their feelings!
The thread where someone called you an energy vampire....was dead on...your Transylvania conjunct your moon...it seems does equal being an emotional drain to others!
Your response to that person was the meanest thing I've ever read on this forum, it's a very sad day to see people treating others like that on here! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 14, 2014 01:48 AM
Sorry ivASTRO, I know your new to posting questions but most ppl on this forum are really polite and try to help when they give an answer, we try to be there for each other in a positive way!
I've been on this forum for years and never said or felt a reason to say an unkind word to anyone or had anyone say one to me, people are nice usually so it's never been necessary before!
I hope you still like us! 
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Gabby
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posted January 14, 2014 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
That was very insightful, Gabby. Thank you!And you're right; I feel like I attract a lot of individuals with balance issues--in my past relationships this tended to upset my balance and create discord between us. First love was overly dependent (and I need my independence to feel healthy!), while second love was highly dependent on alcohol, gambling, and other "addictive" behaviors. My ex-partner is really having a tough time because he says he's so hurt and crushed that I've decided to leave him (he was very much co-dependent to a sense, as in couldn't do stuff alone, very jealous, almost smothering), but I keep telling myself there was a reason I needed to leave and there were repeated patterns/dishonesty that were deal breakers for me. It's so true, though. I always have this insane gut feeling telling me to stand my ground, and when I don't, I'm right, and I regret it.
It gets easier with age but the best advice I can give is take a lot of time and really figure out what you need. Don't let others pick you or persuade you!
You must know, then seek out what you want and need or else your strength will be something that attracts people that don't have any of their own, and you'll get drug down with them!
For some reason we are so approachable and kind, libra rising, but then we have a strength that is attractive to the weak!
It's really a hard combo for us because we don't like to hurt peoples feelings but we really don't want to carry anyone either!
How do you tell people that you don't want them when they took your kindness to mean much more! It feels like your crushing them and it hurts to do that!
As a protection keep your mind focused on your goals, know exactly what your looking for in a person and don't settle!
If someone runs after you, they are not who you want....because we attract the wrong people for us!
We need people who can bring us up not drag us down....my favorite saying about people in my life is, "if they are not an asset to my life, then they are a liability!"
It may sound harsh but really everyone wants someone who is an asset!
Our downfall is we are to nice for our own good sometimes, we can't say no easily, it hurts to feel like someone is hurting and we caused it....but really it's them! We can't allow people into our lives who try to force a mile when all we wanted to give was an inch, we aren't good at saying no, so it's best to avoid the situations and people who refuse to respect us when we are being nice!
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LovelyAries86
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posted January 14, 2014 02:51 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Sorry ivASTRO, I know your new to posting questions but most ppl on this forum are really polite and try to help when they give an answer, we try to be there for each other in a positive way!
I've been on this forum for years and never said or felt a reason to say an unkind word to anyone or had anyone say one to me, people are nice usually so it's never been necessary before!
I hope you still like us!
^^This. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 14, 2014 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Ultimately, my partner's inability to be frank and tell the truth, as well as his insecurities (which led him to horrible decisions), killed any trust I had in him, and when I can't trust, I can't love.
I totally relate to this. If you cannot be completely honest it's a WRAP. Trust is a necessity -- I'll RUN from you if I sense that I cannot do so. I think our Cap Mars plays the biggest role in this. Also, w/ us having Mars in the 3rd...communication is KEY for us! Pluto in the 1st, too. This placement can sometimes attract intense people/situations to us. For better or for worse lol. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 14, 2014 03:34 AM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Pluto in the 1st, too. This placement can sometimes attract intense people/situations to us. For better or for worse lol.
Ty!!
That is so true!
My Pluto is on my AC by 2 degrees and I get the strangest people want to latch on and won't let go! Heaven forbid I don't catch on immediately and accidentally flirt or something, trying to fix that mistake becomes a huge ordeal!
Why is it never the awesome people doing this to us? Lol
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Leocassandra
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posted January 14, 2014 04:34 PM
Ruler of DSC conjunct Saturn and Uranus. 7th house cup in Aries with Venus and Jupiter in it (luck and increase)IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 14, 2014 04:43 PM
Welcome! This should be posted in Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 15, 2014 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I get the strangest people want to latch on and won't let go! Why is it never the awesome people doing this to us? Lol
I don't know!!! I'd love for the *right* man to latch onto me like this. But these weirdos...God leave us alone!!!  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 15, 2014 04:48 PM
I think it might just be your perception of things.
I have similar signs to you in my chart: Aries/Cap and Pisces.. and my Mars is in Cap conjunct Neptune (but not Saturn). I would much prefer for things to move very slowly and light-heartedly.
I don't like being pushed into things.
In comparison to me - basically every second person seems too intense and moves 'too quickly'... lol So I don't think the problem is that you are attracting guys who are very quick to the gun --- but rather than everyone in general moves quicker than you do.
Or at least that's my conclusion about myself and my own relationships lol IP: Logged |
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posted January 15, 2014 04:59 PM
PS. My perfect match is Scorpio Mars. They move at the pace I want them to move at. IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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posted January 16, 2014 09:03 AM
Gabby - I feel like your advice was spot on; I identify with it so much, I feel like you're speaking directly to me, knowing my life's story... Uncanny, especially the part about people wanting a mile from us when we are only able and willing to give an inch at a time. Your entire post resonates with me, and I hope it does eventually get easier, because it literally is overwhelming sometimes. I get so drained that I just want to curl up and be reclusive--not respond to texts, phone calls, etc. LovelyAries86 - Sometimes I wonder if there's not a sign on my back... Haha. And communication is number one to me, but I'm learning that it isn't always so easy with one who doesn't value it as much or has a different style. Lying is a different story altogether. Odette - Very insightful, and I never considered that maybe it's not everyone else's pace, but that it might just be that mine is the slowest of them all. AND YES, light-hearted is the perfect word. Sometimes I just want to keep things simple and jovial without all the hang-ups, labels, and rush of things. I've never encountered a Scorpio Mars, but they sound pretty good. :-D I think my Cappy Mars makes me move at snails pace, but I need someone who's okay not rushing things, I know I'm worth it, and once I know you are, I'll dive in if the water's fine. If it's meant to be, it'll still be meant to be a while down the road. Rushing things only spells disaster, in my opinion. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 16, 2014 12:47 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
LovelyAries86 - And communication is number one to me, but I'm learning that it isn't always so easy with one who doesn't value it as much or has a different style. Cappy Mars makes me move at snails pace, but I need someone who's okay not rushing things, I know I'm worth it, and once I know you are, I'll dive in if the water's fine. If it's meant to be, it'll still be meant to be a while down the road. Rushing things only spells disaster, in my opinion.
Completely relate to all the above. I'm not much into casual affairs. But I'm very slow to jump into relationships. I think rushing into love is utterly STUPID -- that's often how most people get their hearts broken. There are exceptions, but generally this is how it goes when you don't take your time. Not everyone is worthy of our heart. Not everyone is mentally or emotionally equipped to stimulate us the way we desire. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted January 16, 2014 02:58 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
I've been lurking on this forum for about a year now and finally decided to take the plunge and join. I want to learn all I can, and I read so many insightful posts here daily.I'm having a bit of a problem at the moment.
Firstly, I am a gay male (that can change things in astrology a bit, I believe). I just ended my three year relationship with my Sun Sag, Moon Cancer, Rising Leo, Mercury Pisces, Venus Scorpio, Mars Pisces partner. I know my Venus in Aries gets a bad rap, but I'm actually very faithful and devoted, and my Mars in Capricorn really steadies and grounds my Aries energies. Ultimately, my partner's inability to be frank and tell the truth, as well as his insecurities (which led him to horrible decisions), killed any trust I had in him, and when I can't trust, I can't love. I'm pretty confident, but he ended up bringing out insecurities in myself, and I just can't function happily in a relationship as such. I know I contributed my own problems and vices, but nevertheless... Devoted until the end. I'm at a point now where I'm starting to meet guys, socialize--not necessarily to date or commit (too soon), but just to have fun and develop casual relationships (not necessarily trying to hook-up, but if it happens, it happens). I would love to just make some awesome friends, too. However, it seems like the majority of guys are throwing themselves at me. Some text me multiple times in a row, others say things like, "I can't wait to call you my boyfriend," others "miss me" after hanging out twice, etc., and it's a bit disconcerting. And if I sleep with a guy--it's fatal. It seems like they fall for me. I've even made it clear I'm not looking for, nor do I want anything. What in my chart could be attracting guys of this disposition and mindset? Even with my ex-partner, two exes before, and casual relationships, guys have usually tried to rush me into things (which thankfully my Mars Cappy placement somewhat controlled, as I'm stubborn, but my Libra Rising's need to be diplomatic made me budge a little in certain instances); they were always the first to say "love," which never made me run away for fear of intensity. (I appreciate intensity, but have to feel it.) I never said it back to appease, and it sometimes took weeks/months for me to reciprocate, or I'd say, "I could really eventually care for you, too," or something as such. (My first boyfriend said it after two weeks and I said, "Thank you...?" Yikes.) I'm super respectful with everyone's feelings and would just appreciate any insight into the matter. Sometimes it's hard to realize what is happening when you're in the middle of a situation, and I am hoping to break this pattern so I don't have to keep having difficult conversations where I feel like I'm hurting a guy (makes me so squeamish and uncomfortable, :-\ ). Now at the first signs of this clingy-ness, I kind of don't even want to give a guy a chance. Thank you for any insight. I'm trying to read up as much as I can.
Hey there. I'm a Sag Sun, Moon in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio guy too!! But wait. Are you sure that your ex has Mercury in Pisces? That is astrologically not possible as Mercury and the Sun can never be in square aspect by sign. Ever. In any case. Venus and Jupiter are on the 7th house. That just jumped right at me. I know of someone personally who has the same problems with guys throwing themselves at her. She , however, has Venus and Saturn conjunct in the 7th. Venus in 7th is amplified by the conjunction with Jupiter making your planetary combination far more easy-going than hers. Venus in 7th is in its natural place here and can suggest a nature that is kind, friendly, lovable, diplomatic and agreeable. You can get on relatively well with anyone(but that is usually on the surface). Venus in 7th also adds charm and/or good looks to help you be better received(7th) by others. Jupiter in 7th makes one vivacious, goodhearted, generous, honest and idealistic. There is often a lovable , carefree quality about this person that makes them easily relate-able. Jupiter in 7th can also endow one with many suitors.
Both Venus and Jupiter suggest "plenty" and "more" and so, when placed in the 7th house/5th house/8th house etc , they tend to amplify the house benefits therein(barring Saturn doesn't interfere).
So, in your case 7th house Jupiter and Venus will endow you with many potential suitors who'll be vying for your attention. You must, however, be careful that you don't choose based on the fact that you are flattered by the persons advances(Venus tends to do just that). Make sure that, within your potential suitors, you have a partner who is intelligent, well-travelled and intellectually compatible with you. Venus aspecting Jupiter in 7th by conjunction usually suggests a love affair with a foreigner(but nothing is cast in stone). IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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posted January 16, 2014 08:53 PM
Good catch, AscTaurus.I think I was thinking of his Mars in Pisces and wrote it for Mercury, too. His Mars is, in fact, in Sagittarius. Interesting, you do have many of the same planetary positions in common! Your post makes sense, and I do see myself as easy-going, good-humored, approachable, pretty much everything you wrote--I get along with everyone right away (at least superficially), and usually don't have Problems with anyone, because I can usually tell who wouldn't be a platonic match and don't "let them in" anyways. And it feels like I have many suitors. These guys aren't ones who want platonic relationships, or even no strings attached. It feels like they are courting, or at least trying to. Thanks for the perspective. I'm going to read more into Venus and Jupiter sitting in the 7th. Very interesting! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 17, 2014 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I don't know!!! I'd love for the *right* man to latch onto me like this. But these weirdos...God leave us alone!!!
I know right! I just want to let them know straight up....I'm
not THAT great!!!! Well, maybe we are! Lol Plyn! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 17, 2014 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Gabby - I feel like your advice was spot on; I identify with it so much, I feel like you're speaking directly to me, knowing my life's story... Uncanny, especially the part about people wanting a mile from us when we are only able and willing to give an inch at a time. Your entire post resonates with me, and I hope it does eventually get easier, because it literally is overwhelming sometimes. I get so drained that I just want to curl up and be reclusive--not respond to texts, phone calls, etc.
I get to feeling exactly the same way! It's just overwhelming at times!
I get very reclusive and I'm hugely protective of my personal space and time! I'll shut off my phone because it's the only way to allow myself to recoup!
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posted January 17, 2014 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I'm not THAT great!!!! Well, maybe we are! Lol
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