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moonstruck87
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From: Indianapolis, IN
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posted January 14, 2014 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it typical for a Scorpio make to be defensive?
We've dated for a while & were texting 24/7 then he disappeared for a few days
I didn't message him except on Christmas to say merry Christmas & when he did come back around to texting I just asked if everything was ok & since then he's been different, defensive & gets angry if I bring up his disappearing acts
He accused me of being insecure, clingy & childish but it all felt so wrong and I was really just concerned & I care for him
Things really dereailed quickly

Is this typical? I'll be setting this one free... I've been called lots of things but never clingy and I don't appreciate being talked down to that way when I was just trying to communicate once he came back around...

Thoughts?

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4lifephrases
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From: London, United Kingdom
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posted January 14, 2014 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 4lifephrases     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio doesn't like sympathy. Do not be too concerned. Scorpio likes to have little bit of them too themselves. It make them secure otherwise they feel too vulnerable and as if they aren't being themselves. Be aloof and show interest but do not be too eager to know everything.

I think if you keep saying that " What is up with your disappearing act? " due to something which you might have read. Appreciate when you see him when. Ignore disappearing acts.

I wonder whether he trusts you ? I think if you can not get on now it is better to part ways.

Does he know that you are Cancer ( I have vague memory that you are cancer)....I wonder if you both are judging each other on astrology.

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IMoppedtheFloor
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posted January 14, 2014 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IMoppedtheFloor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio people act out like that. They'll try to half-kill you because you don't look them in the eye and silly things like that.

Honestly, just throw him back unless you like games and a certain amount of drama in your relationships - which I say with no judgment. Some people like that sort of thing and anything else is boring to them.

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Venusian Moon
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posted January 14, 2014 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like he rather be alone or has someone else. I think you should move on and date other people. Have fun and dont contact him anymore.

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moonstruck87
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From: Indianapolis, IN
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posted January 14, 2014 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm done. I don't play mind games & yes I am a cancer by my Aries moon needs communication... I also have moon in 3house lol
I have no problem giving space & I crave it myself but when we do reconnect I think it's good to talk and go over the last few days... So being caught off guard with that cruelty is just not for me
Thank you all for the feed back!!! Xo

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