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posted January 17, 2014 11:17 AM            

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First off - are you comfortable with the squares in your chart?

Secondly, let's say you have Sun square Neptune, but you're a Virgo or Aries, or something NOT Piscean and watery. Do you get along with Pisces easier anyway?

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posted January 17, 2014 11:50 AM            

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I don't think my squares do me ANY good AT ALL!

Let's see….Moon sq Lilith and Pluto…and semi sq Mars..

Sun sq Pluto and Lilith and semi sq Mars…

Venus sq Uranus

Asc sq Neptune

Nope, there ain't nothing good with these!

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posted January 17, 2014 11:53 AM            

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What about just the squares between planets - no asteroids. And not just planets but do you have one or more of the top 5 that squares a generational planet? Do you think people who DO have this would relate to that sign more?

For example I have Sun, Mercury, Venus square Saturn and although Capricorn squares my Aries placements I still like them and we have a lot of similarities. But your reply makes me think maybe it wouldn't work if you only had ONE square like your Venus square Uranus (instead of Sun, Mercury and Venus squaring Uranus)

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posted January 17, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Soft aspects are for lazy people :

I want my squares.

Why on earth would someone bother to incarnate if they didn't want to grow? Hard aspects give you the challenges that (hopefully) help you to develop and understand things deeply, especially squares.The more you understand through experience that is hard won, the more potential there is to connect with your higher self and disconnect with your ego. People with tough charts are serious about growth. It is a gamble, because if you fail to rise to your challenges, you can fall very hard... But on the other hand the rewards can be great if you learn well.

Soft aspects often do nothing but stroke your vanity because you think you are better than other people when you are naturally talented in certain areas. This is, of course, just an illusion the ego uses to keep you separate from the whole.

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posted January 17, 2014 12:43 PM            

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posted January 17, 2014 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
Soft aspects are for lazy people :

I want my squares.

Why on earth would someone bother to incarnate if they didn't want to grow? Hard aspects give you the challenges that (hopefully) help you to develop and understand things deeply, especially squares.The more you understand through experience that is hard won, the more potential there is to connect with your higher self and disconnect with your ego. People with tough charts are serious about growth. It is a gamble, because if you fail to rise to your challenges, you can fall very hard... But on the other hand the rewards can be great if you learn well.

Soft aspects often do nothing but stroke your vanity because you think you are better than other people when you are naturally talented in certain areas. This is, of course, just an illusion the ego uses to keep you separate from the whole.

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So you consider people with squares more geared towards spiritual growth than those with softer aspects? Although I understand your point- this sounds like your ego in overdrive to be completely honest.

People with softer aspects can still experience synastry squares. Harsh transits etc. To name just a few examples....

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posted January 17, 2014 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
First off - are you comfortable with the squares in your chart?

Secondly, let's say you have Sun square Neptune, but you're a Virgo or Aries, or something NOT Piscean and watery. Do you get along with Pisces easier anyway?

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Funny you asked about it.

Because I was thinking about how different I am from other people that I frequent (family and relatives) and I used to feel so awkward and out of place while growing up because I always used to feel so different yet couldn't put my finger on HOW different I was. Sorry for the rambling. I have uranus sq sun,saturn,venus,and asc. Mars sq neptune. NN sq sun,merc,saturn,venus.Moon sq pluto. I wouldn't say i get along with my squares. I think they ''force'' me to always re-evaluating and re-assessing myself, my reactions to specific events, for instance.They have their pros and cons.My uranus squares help me a lot to think on my feet.But Saturn sq Uranus can be a real ***** at times so can be Sun sq Uranus.Moon sq pluto is tough but it gives me so much endurance and insight.mars sq neptune makes me live in slow motion at times, I almost feel like am a character living in my head. I don't know exactly how it helps me yet if any. NN squares are something that am working towards understanding them better but with less internal struggles.

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posted January 17, 2014 03:16 PM            

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On my phone. If you have NN squares, does that mean other people 27th your NN sign qualities challenge your identity or who you think you are?

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posted January 17, 2014 04:21 PM            

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I have Aries-Capricorn squares ( & Sun trine Saturn) and I like Capricorn energy a lot.

I don't get along very well with Cancers though (even though I have Sun square Moon in my chart). We always end up having issues.. usually about their sooky la la.. "woe is me" behaviour.

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posted January 17, 2014 08:12 PM            

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I have lots of squares in my chart...I can't say they help me reconcile with that energy any, though.

For instance, my Sun is square both Neptune and Saturn. I get along pretty well with Pisces types, but I'd be willing to bet that that's more due to my Venus in Pisces than because my Sun squares Neptune.

Unfortunately, I can't really say the same for Capricorn types. I don't have any ill will toward them, but we're never going to be best buddies, either. (Although, I find a lot of men with strong Capricorn to be really attractive....hahahaha)

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posted January 18, 2014 02:02 AM            

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Yes, I believe I tend to get along pretty well with Sagittarius and Gemini.
"Get along better" - opposed to? My Trine signs? Sextile signs? Quincunx signs? Opposite sign?

Well I wouldn't say that I get along better with Gemini and Sagittarius vs. all other signs on average, just that I tend to get along with them pretty well.

As for my natal squares, I only have two with my Sun; Moon in Gemini and Juno in Sagittarius, lol.

As for the rest of my sqaures, we're talking about "our signs" meaning Sun sign, right? So no need to state them because it may end up with the planets squaring all of the signs. I do have a good amount of squares, though.

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posted January 18, 2014 11:46 AM            

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the way i see it is squares in people's charts are sometimes indications of those who go through hell at a young age, who deal with depression, addiction, bullying, etc. etc. and then come out of it all stronger - at an earlier age. I don't mean people with charts full of conjunctions and trines don't have problems but i feel like they have an easier time in youth than those with squares and their problems tend to hit later on in life. this is just my opinion though.

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posted January 18, 2014 12:56 PM            

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I love my squares. Life without challenges is not enjoyable.

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posted January 18, 2014 01:25 PM            

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Honestly I NEED my squares. Everything else in my chart is very inclined towards being steamrolled over by everyone. My chart is probably a quintessential "Victim's Chart" without them!

Four planets in Libra
Mars in Cancer
Venus square Neptune
Aquarius rising for humanitarianism in the extreme; South Node in 12th, in Aqua - same thing.
Sun trine Neptune
Moon sextile Neptune
Asteroids like "Bambi" and "Prey" make some eerie placments in my chart; Orcus (has to do with the Underworld) is on my North Node.

Frankly if I didn't have all squares to my Mars from the outer planets, I would probably, quite literally, be eaten alive by this world and the people in it. I think God gave me such a badly afflicted Mars as like the equivalent of arming a soldier with a gun to protect himself in a warzone.

So I'm grateful for the few squares I do have.

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posted January 20, 2014 04:27 AM            

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Well. I think I get along better with people that have a strong fixed sign vibe. And I don't know if it's just me but i feel like fixed sign people either do greater terribly with other fixed sign people. I'm an aqua sun and I get along great with taureans and scorpions. Not so much Leo's I don't know why.

I don't know if it's because I like the square aspect or becaus I like fixed sign people.

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posted January 20, 2014 05:46 AM            

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I feel ok with my squares.

Hmm let's see for example: moon squares venus/neptune/saturn/uranus/asc. Idk I get along ok with libra/taurus/pisces/cap/aqua, on a social level, like I don't get annoyed at the stuff they do or say - pretty ok.

I get close n personal with a few aries (sun square), cap and libras. With the aries, hmm two aries I've gotten "close" to both have big aries stellium. Libras, well the ones I like all have virgo venus and/or mercury.

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posted January 20, 2014 07:53 AM            

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I have:
Sun square mars
Sun and moon square Saturn
Mars and Saturn square Uranus

I get along with well with Caps and Aquas! However I also have a sun stellium in the 11th and Cap rules my DSC.

I am not a fan of my sun and moon square Saturn
I do agree with the ideas that sun square Saturn gives a difficult/challenging early life which makes for tremendous soul growth. I am working on accepting that and overcoming it. I agree with the above: who wants to come into this world without soul growth? My moon square Saturn is really wide so I don't feel that as much..actually I've been told my moon is unaspected so some may not even count the wide square.

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posted January 20, 2014 10:06 AM            

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It woks the other way around for me. I have moon square venus and I dislike Arian energy. I had aries friends when I was younger but ppl who are too Arian bother me. My sun square pluto and pluto is in 7th so I automatically attract scorpio.

My sister has sun square uranus, neptune and jupiter. She is not getting along with me the Aqua at all. It's more like a hit or miss.

Her moon square pluto and it seems she doesn't like scorpios

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posted January 20, 2014 11:38 AM            

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Hmmm let's see, Uranus, Neptune, and mars square ascendant. No thank you, causes chaos.

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posted January 22, 2014 07:42 AM            

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I have some squares in my natal chart,mostly with chiron and MC,and a square between sun in 12th house and saturn. So,yeah,it's pretty much a big deal!! I don't like them at all,i mean,with a moon square MC,you will have tons of problems balancing your emotional needs and your environment or work. They have made me overwhelmed and such. Not easy at all. On the contrary,this tension can make you try to improve yourself an make breakthroughs.That's why famous people have many squares.

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posted January 22, 2014 08:06 AM            

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I have scorp Uranus square leo Saturn by 2 degrees....it's not appreciated at all!
I can understand the benefit of squares but in fixed signs? Ugh!
Neither will give an inch to try to find a compromise...my chart is hard enough with a Virgo Moon in 12th unaspected and pretty much an unaspected Gemini Mars, I admit I don't have many squares on my natal just the one...but it's Saturn and Uranus in fixed signs....that's the ultimate battle of wills!

My Neptune is square my Juno by 2 degrees....and I'm no, I'm not delusional about relationships and marriage, there is not any rose colored glasses for me to look through....relationships are hard and constant work, that's why I'm single! : )
I think they are especially hard with this square because my Neptune doesn't give my Juno any love!
But...Valentine and Eros on my IC do, they make a 1-2 degree trine to Juno! I guess that makes up for it...a little!

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posted January 22, 2014 10:39 AM            

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I don't get along with any sign that makes huge squares to my Gemini stellium. It is hard when you are very strongly a certain sign and people square that sign. It feels like sandpaper. It cannot be helped but I can feel it in people.

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