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Odette
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posted January 19, 2014 11:27 PM
  
 "I am therefore I am." Do you feel like one of the most important things to you is that the other person acknowledges your individuality - your likes/dislikes, who you are, what you want etc.? And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalise and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
For example - people who would treat you a certain way because you're a man or a woman.. and they assume all men and women are the same... or people who would treat you a certain way based on nationality, if they assume everyone of that nationality has certain characteristics etc.
Would you break-up with someone for this reason? Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness.. Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality? IP: Logged |
jstarry
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posted January 20, 2014 12:28 AM
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12muddy
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posted January 20, 2014 12:38 AM
can other aries placements answer too ? lolIP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 20, 2014 02:25 AM
OMG - this is a spectacular thread Odette. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 20, 2014 02:45 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Do you feel like one of the most important things to you is that the other person acknowledges your individuality - your likes/dislikes, who you are, what you want etc.? And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalise and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
Would you break-up with someone for this reason? Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality?
Lady...I keep telling you we think too much alike - it's f*cking scary. I absolutely have to be acknowledged as an Individual. I hate being stereotyped & I cannot stand idiotic assumptions about who you "think" I am without taking the time to actually figure me out! That's a GIANT pet peeve for me. I'm candid, honest, authentic about who I am - flaws & all. And I *expect* the same from my partner. If he cannot offer that - the boot he gets and his a$$ is out the door. As for placements in my own chart that best support my Aries Individuality...well. -Sun trine Uranus
-Saturn sextile ASC
-Pluto in the 1st
-Moon trine Jupiter
-Mars in the 3rd ^^The combination of all the above gives me a very strong WILL to be true to myself, to be principled & broad-minded, unafraid of growth, and fearless in communicating ALL this to the world. Leo/Sag suns I'm generally okay with. I can take 'em or leave 'em - pretty neutral mostly. Sag Moons however, do tend to *attempt* to box me in sometimes and they fail miserably LOL. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 20, 2014 02:49 AM
Aries are the zodiac's sparklers!IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted January 20, 2014 06:57 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
"I am therefore I am." (1) Do you feel like one of the most important things to you is that the other person acknowledges your individuality - your likes/dislikes, who you are, what you want etc.? (2)And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalise and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
For example - people who would treat you a certain way because you're a man or a woman.. and they assume all men and women are the same... or people who would treat you a certain way based on nationality, if they assume everyone of that nationality has certain characteristics etc.
Would you break-up with someone for this reason? (3)Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness.. Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality?
(1) Yes.
(2) Yes, definitely.
(3) Taurus, Sagittarius and Aquarius(I might add Aquarius mooners) the most.
Leo, they rarely show up in my life.
and oh, definitely we are the sparklers!
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Kerosene
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posted January 20, 2014 10:18 AM
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And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalize and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
Yes I hate that...I maybe i don't want to be grouped and labeled. Frankly I hate groups and organizations, I avoided them in college I think they are too cliquey and they separate people and it's always about the group and not yourself
(Mars in the 11?) LOL
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For example - people who would treat you a certain way because you're a man or a woman.. and they assume all men and women are the same... or people who would treat you a certain way based on nationality, if they assume everyone of that nationality has certain characteristics etc.
YES.. I hate when people generalize genders. I usually treat everyone equally. I'm not always gentle with women or more agressive with men. quote:
Would you break-up with someone for this reason?
Yeah I've avoid people who do this. quote:
Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness..
Aries lol, Pisces, Aqua. quote:
Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality?
Well I have not noticed the latter.
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AriesLilith
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posted January 20, 2014 07:08 PM
Yesh, to be my partner is to acknowledge me as your most special one, acknowledge my individuality and uniqueness. Doing the opposite is horrible for me. Well BML sits right on my Aries stellium too so this is emphasized. 
(thought I still prefer equal partnership, Libra Juno her lol)As for signs that I get along with, probably Libras, Sags and Leos, as well as Gems and Aquas. I don't really need their constant validation, but I feel that they are easier to get along with, as they are pretty direct and not too passive, with their own individuality as well. I'm not passive myself, so it's better with people who are also not as passive. Also, since they are on a similar wavelength, it makes it easier for our individualities to get along. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 20, 2014 07:19 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
and oh, definitely we are the sparklers!
Haha, that's so cute! Perfect!IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 20, 2014 07:46 PM
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Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness..
Clearly, I read this question incorrectly. The signs in particular that I get along w/ most as comrades/friends are: Aries
Libra
Cancer
Gemini
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AriesKat
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posted January 22, 2014 09:24 PM
Most supportive is a virgo i know and my cancer mom. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted January 23, 2014 05:34 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
(1) Yes.
(2) Yes, definitely.
(3) Taurus, Sagittarius and Aquarius(I might add Aquarius mooners) the most.
Leo, they rarely show up in my life. and oh, definitely we are the sparklers!
LMAO! I'll have to save the link to that.
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teasel
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posted January 23, 2014 05:38 AM
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Do you feel like one of the most important things to you is that the other person acknowledges your individuality - your likes/dislikes, who you are, what you want etc.?
Yes! Very much so - although it's nice to be considered a part of a group, by the group. quote:
And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalise and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
For example - people who would treat you a certain way because you're a man or a woman.. and they assume all men and women are the same... or people who would treat you a certain way based on nationality, if they assume everyone of that nationality has certain characteristics etc.
Would you break-up with someone for this reason?
I probably would. quote:
Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness..
I'm not sure - it all depends on the person. Sorry, I can't help there. I don't always do well with Capricorn - that depends on the person, too. Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality? IP: Logged |
Kibriana
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posted February 14, 2014 05:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
[b]"I am therefore I am." Do you feel like one of the most important things to you is that the other person acknowledges your individuality - your likes/dislikes, who you are, what you want etc.? And would you say one of your biggest put-offs and pet peeves are people who generalise and treat you as though you are part of a group - as opposed to an individual?
For example - people who would treat you a certain way because you're a man or a woman.. and they assume all men and women are the same... or people who would treat you a certain way based on nationality, if they assume everyone of that nationality has certain characteristics etc.
Would you break-up with someone for this reason? Third question - Which signs/placements do you feel are most supportive of your individuality? - Think of people who support and reinforce your personal brand of uniqueness.. Are people with other fire sign placements in Leo/Sagittarius - generally supportive or dismissive of your individuality? [/B]
1. Yes, and yes, and yes. I've got my likes and my dislikes and I don't want to be seen as a part of a group. I don't have a "gang", a group of friends and I don't even want to belong to a church, political party,organization or anything of the kind.
2. When it comes to breaking up with a person who would want to classify me, I don't know.
I've never been in that kind of situation, so I really wouldn't know.
3. Hm, probably Leos. Yeah, definitely Leos, they normally don't want to change me and make me their puppet, which is nice. Unlike some other signs, such a Virgo that I used to know. Or Cancers, god, they always seem to have something to say when it comes to my behaviour. Cancers are probably the least supportive of them all. When it comes to Sags, I don't know any of them personally, they are extremely rare in my life and I mostly meet them as students, and that's hardly a type of relationship where I could see if they appreciated my individuality. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by Kibriana:
3. Hm, probably Leos. Yeah, definitely Leos, they normally don't want to change me and make me their puppet, which is nice.
See it's different for me. I usually bump heads with Leos, it's a battle. And I'm not sure why! It's like...I really like them in a way & we do seem to have a mutual respect for one another. But they *do* try to make you (and everyone else) their puppet many times. Leo wants to run the show & be the boss. And Aries is just not having it. IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted February 14, 2014 08:53 PM
leos, we butt heads but they never ask me to change...and theres a certain understanding amongst hotheads lol.
aquas definitely and even some scorpios. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 09:08 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
theres a certain understanding amongst hotheads lol.
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summerlite
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posted February 14, 2014 09:38 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
leos, we butt heads but they never ask me to change...and theres a certain understanding amongst hotheads lol.
aquas definitely and even some scorpios.
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teasel
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posted May 03, 2022 06:30 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
and oh, definitely we are the sparklers!
Just bumping for this. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted May 03, 2022 07:48 AM
Nice bump!Back when this forum was hot shyt. 🔥🔥 IP: Logged |
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