posted January 22, 2014 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
I am a female with mars in aries but i'll try to give my input, theres definitely more to consider than mars as ive known a number of people with mars in aries will approach romantic interests differently.

I have sun in cancer and with mars in aries I tend to be a little assertive but very defensive with guys that I am interested in. It's very hard for me to make the first move since I am a cancer, I want to protect myself, but at the same time, my mars in aries wont quit, so this usually leads to me being hostile or aggressive with my love interest in an attempt to get their attention without telling them I like them, which doesnt always work out well Lol. I think a term that best compares to this is "tsundere"

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posted January 22, 2014 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
I am a female with mars in aries but i'll try to give my input, theres definitely more to consider than mars as ive known a number of people with mars in aries will approach romantic interests differently.

I have sun in cancer and with mars in aries I tend to be a little assertive but very defensive with guys that I am interested in. It's very hard for me to make the first move since I am a cancer, I want to protect myself, but at the same time, my mars in aries wont quit, so this usually leads to me being hostile or aggressive with my love interest in an attempt to get their attention without telling them I like them, which doesnt always work out well Lol. I think a term that best compares to this is "tsundere"

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posted January 22, 2014 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Alishia@:
That is really cute though I have mars in libra so I'm very passive aggressive

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Hahah I'm glad you think so. Though a lot of guys I crush on seem to think im being complicated or immature, I guess because that behavior makes it hard for them to tell if I like them or if I hate them, or just have some sort of weird issues, sometimes I wish I could just explain myself "I'M JUST BEING WEIRD BECAUSE I LIKE YOUU!"

posted January 22, 2014 10:29 PM            

This is pretty much me LOL.
I guess I do have a few likable traits in that I'm fun to party with.
my mars is "afflicted" by neptune.
I do want to please the person that I love, and I'll transform into whatever is desirable.
Hopefully this will make up for my less than amicable personality.
Mars is like our ego expression but neptune does sort of makes it soggy.
In my longest relationship I was more submissive and nurturing, especially when it came to sex it made sense because they had Mars-moon in cancer and Venus in Aries.
A lot of way I'm not sure what my sexual preference is..
being assertive or submissive? Idk both?

posted January 22, 2014 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Hahah I'm glad you think so. Though a lot of guys I crush on seem to think im being complicated or immature, I guess because that behavior makes it hard for them to tell if I like them or if I hate them, or just have some sort of weird issues, sometimes I wish I could just explain myself "I'M JUST BEING WEIRD BECAUSE I LIKE YOUU!"

I get so mad when people are being passive aggressive with me, cause I can tell they are mad but they wont tell me they are mad at me so we cant talk it out or do anything about it and I either have to endure their passive aggressiveness indefinitely or I end up blowing up on them about it and looking like the bad guy u___u

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posted January 22, 2014 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I have mars in Aries I think generally people find me assertive esp since my sun moon and venus are are in masculine signs and in the first house.
basically I lack tact.

This is pretty much me LOL.
I guess I do have a few likable traits in that I'm fun to party with.
my mars is "afflicted" by neptune.
I do want to please the person that I love, and I'll transform into whatever is desirable.
Hopefully this will make up for my less than amicable personality.
Mars is like our ego expression but neptune does sort of makes it soggy.
In my longest relationship I was more submissive and nurturing, especially when it came to sex it made sense because they had Mars-moon in cancer and Venus in Aries.
A lot of way I'm not sure what my sexual preference is..
being assertive or submissive? Idk both?

I mean as long as I feel empowered and in control of my sexuality I don't care how I express it. I can't deal with someone objectifying me.

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posted January 22, 2014 11:40 PM            

I sometimes rub people the wrong way but it works out because I don't actually need them too much. I don't plan to, I actually enjoy being nice and helpful but like I said, sometimes my desires clash with theirs and then an Aries Mars has to do what an Aries Mars has to do: win.

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posted January 24, 2014 12:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
They are very competitive and don't like to lose.

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posted January 24, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I have an Aries Mars, but afflicted by Saturn and Pluto. It also squares the Asc. Personality wise I am not one you can push around and I am not a push-over either. But you better not stand between me and my desires, not gonna end pretty. I have some tact, lol, but I prefer bluntness every time it won't get me into too much trouble. Sexually I tend more towards dominance but I like to experiment also. I sometimes make the first move, more often in the last couple of years. I am Aries Sun and 90% of my chart is in masculine signs, though I consider myself an introvert. I proposed to my fiancee.

I sometimes rub people the wrong way but it works out because I don't actually need them too much. I don't plan to, I actually enjoy being nice and helpful but like I said, sometimes my desires clash with theirs and then an Aries Mars has to do what an Aries Mars has to do: win.

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posted January 24, 2014 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I don't mind if I lose a fair fight but most of the time I don't really lose unless it's at a game with points and rules. lol.

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posted January 24, 2014 03:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Alishia@:
Woooow super!!!!!! what is your moon sign ? Lol

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I am a Sag Mooner . It trines my Aries Mars so I am more thoughtful and sensitive than your regular Aries Mars. I prefer it like that.

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posted January 24, 2014 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I am a Sag Mooner . It trines my Aries Mars so I am more thoughtful and sensitive than your regular Aries Mars. I prefer it like that.

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