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Topic: What makes the big cat purr?
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fortheloveofjaz
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posted January 22, 2014 12:36 AM
  
Any ladies have experience with Leo men?Is it common for them to blow hot and cold? One day he's outgoing and party hard and then the next, he's anti-social and grouchy. AND dramatic! Lots of yelling and door slamming. He's very suspicious and possessive as well. Our first date, he asked was I seeing any other men. I said no. He just stares at me and says "Are you lying to me?" Like wth?! I've read Leo men are affectionate/emotional lovers but are they always this difficult? He has a Leo Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter. Aquarius Moon. Virgo Mars. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted January 22, 2014 12:39 AM
His Leo planets squaring his Moon?IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 22, 2014 12:51 AM
Ugh...I just want to say vocal chords? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted January 22, 2014 02:47 PM
The love of my life is a Leo with Gemini moon and Venus, Mercury and Mars in Virgo and the biggest thing that gets him purring is loving him! I'm an extremely affectionate person and being that way with him drives him crazy. We care a lot for each other and love each other on very deep levels. He's never gotten hot or cold with me and if he ever does I plan on talking it all out of him. If there ever are any issues or problems we make them top priority and talk through them. With all of the Virgo he has he can't help letting old things bother him and I find that reassuring him that none of that matters calms him. He knows at this point that nothing else matters to me and that he's apart of me now. He's very loving and reassuring, and always compliments me when I least expect it. He's a very deep thinker and gives all of himself to me and to our relationship. It's all or nothing for Leo's and if they even get a whiff of any half assness from their partner it's a done deal for them. They're very committed and devoted to their partners and are huge on mirroring. You treat them like gold, I promise you'll get that and so much more in return. I'd say the key to making the kitty purr is love and devotion! Give them all of you and he's yours forever  IP: Logged |
Melodie
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posted January 22, 2014 03:32 PM
I agree about showing love and devotion. But don't smother him. I just have to trust that he will come around when he's ready.Back and head scratches make my chubby kitty purr. Seriously though, he'll just put his head on my lap with this cheeky grin and when I give in, his face will be like :3. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted January 22, 2014 03:45 PM
Some Leo's like to be smothered. They like to know that they are your number 1! My honey loves his head and back rubbed too. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 22, 2014 04:30 PM
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lalalinda
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posted January 23, 2014 02:10 AM
Hello fortheloveofjaz! Welcome to LL  ------------------
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fireopal09
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posted January 25, 2014 12:30 AM
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Originally posted by fortheloveofjaz:
Any ladies have experience with Leo men?Is it common for them to blow hot and cold? One day he's outgoing and party hard and then the next, he's anti-social and grouchy. AND dramatic! Lots of yelling and door slamming. He's very suspicious and possessive as well. Our first date, he asked was I seeing any other men. I said no. He just stares at me and says "Are you lying to me?" Like wth?! I've read Leo men are affectionate/emotional lovers but are they always this difficult? He has a Leo Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter. Aquarius Moon. Virgo Mars.
Sweetheart, your guy sounds like manipulative POS. He makes you feel bad. He is a malformed Leo. Get away from him. You deserve better. I PROMISE YOU.
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mcmlxix
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posted January 25, 2014 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'd say the key to making the kitty purr is love and devotion! Give them all of you and he's yours forever
I can only speak about having the Leo Venus, and I'll agree. Give me affection, love, devotion...even adoration, and I'll be all yours. On the down side, I'll be somewhat demanding (or at least expressive) about having this need fulfilled. On the up side, it's not selfish, and I'll return it all back. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted January 25, 2014 12:35 PM
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Originally posted by fireopal09:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by fortheloveofjaz:
[b]Any ladies have experience with Leo men?Is it common for them to blow hot and cold? One day he's outgoing and party hard and then the next, he's anti-social and grouchy. AND dramatic! Lots of yelling and door slamming. He's very suspicious and possessive as well. Our first date, he asked was I seeing any other men. I said no. He just stares at me and says "Are you lying to me?" Like wth?! I've read Leo men are affectionate/emotional lovers but are they always this difficult? He has a Leo Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter. Aquarius Moon. Virgo Mars.
Sweetheart, your guy sounds like manipulative POS. He makes you feel bad. He is a malformed Leo. Get away from him. You deserve better. I PROMISE YOU.
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What she said. Plus, you're dealing with some mondo Pluto there somewhere. Sunny Leo is not typified this way. Likely some angry Lunar afflictions, too. Whatever it is, repeat after me: it is not my job to fix him. I deserve love. :hugs: Best of luck in any case.
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fortheloveofjaz
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posted January 27, 2014 08:38 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
What she said. Plus, you're dealing with some mondo Pluto there somewhere. Sunny Leo is not typified this way. Likely some angry Lunar afflictions, too. Whatever it is, repeat after me: it is not my job to fix him. I deserve love. :hugs: Best of luck in any case.
He has a Scorpio Rising, 1st House Pluto in Scorpio, Pluto square Mercury and Jupiter.... ;(
He was so calm and shy, I was totally shocked when blow up on me.
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lifefullofwords
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posted January 27, 2014 09:01 PM
Well, I'm not a guy but I do have my Moon, Mercury, and Venus in Leo. And my Moon and Mercury square Pluto so I'm a dark Leo like him, although I have my sunny moods. I definitely like a lot of attention and devotion, it's really not even possible to smother me. But I also have a Cancer Sun. If his Moon is in Aquarius he probably likes a bit more freedom. That may be why he's blowing hot and cold. My moods fluctuate quite a bit but I'm either into someone or not, there's no going back and forth. If I have even the slightest suspicion that someone's not into me I lose all interest. That's why I don't have a problem with unrequited love interests, because I never develop them. Perhaps he's sensing or imagining a loss of interest and that's what's triggering his behavior. I'm possessive but I'm definitely not jealous. I wouldn't date someone I didn't trust so I would never have any reason to be suspicious. But I'm betting his jealousy stems from insecurity (it usually does, unless the situation warrants it) and in my opinion that is a very unappealing quality that will cause many issues. Honestly, based on your post he kind of sounds like a jerk so maybe you should just move on. IP: Logged |
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