posted January 22, 2014 10:10 AM            

Whenever I open my mouth for an example in any open forum, people seem to just forget what I said, or they repeat sorta the same things, just in a way that is more clearly expressed… that is the feeling I get.

But others just seem interesting no matter what they say, and everyone is easily focusing on them and wanting to hear more about them.
I think I notice this so much because no one ever do this with me. I don't know what it is about my chart or personality but it's NOT interesting I believe.

I have no special sagittarius, gemini or pluto placement/aspect/signs in my natal chart, and I suspect that these signs are involved…scorpio too maybe?

What I don't get is that I have a pisces moon in 10th house, which should sound pretty interesting astrologically or what?
But no one seems to notice my words anywhere.
I know I sound angry, but I'm not, this is just how it is and has always been.
The rest of my chart is pretty boring, I'm a virgo with 3 planets in 6th house and 3 planets in 4th house, and capricorn dominant. It's very boring and dry, and my chart is filled up with oppositions and squares. I thought this would make a person more complex, but I'm actually kinda superficial, mostly because of my libra mercury and many mutable placements.

posted January 22, 2014 10:20 AM            

It might be a Pluto thing.Some of my sisters have Pluto prominent in their charts and always get attention.Their never without someone to talk to.

posted January 22, 2014 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I feel ya.I have a lot of Gemini but chart ruler Saturn in opposition to those planets.

It might be a Pluto thing.Some of my sisters have Pluto prominent in their charts and always get attention.

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posted January 22, 2014 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
That's hilarious.My Gemini Sun,Moon,Venus,and Mercury are in the 5th!And I have a Scorpio MC.

Saturn/Cap seems to just overrule everything.That's how it feels anyway.

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posted January 22, 2014 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
I know, we need to consider aspects, houses, but generally speaking, I find Sag, Aqua and Libra influenced people the most interesting.

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posted January 22, 2014 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
why libra?

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I just love the way they communicate, usually without interrupting, and therefore I have all patience in the World for them. Also, they can be argumentative, opinionated, yet they listen to your opinion.

It's my experience anyway. Every Libra I have met, could keep up the conversation, had a large variety of interests, and that's why I think they are interesting.

posted January 22, 2014 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
When a Sag/Aqua speaks, you just want to listen. Maybe because you know you'll learn something from them.

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Absolutely!

People with a combo of these are some of the most interesting and bright people!

See, you can be clever and educated, but boring as hell haha People with Sag/Aqua/Libra placements tend to be very engaging, interesting and bright.

posted January 22, 2014 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
Absolutely!

People with a combo of these are some of the most interesting and bright people!

See, you can be clever and educated, but boring as hell haha People with Sag/Aqua/Libra placements tend to be very engaging, interesting and bright.

I have a Virgo Mercury/Venus/Asc. Thankfully, Sag Moon and Leo Sun/Mars save me from being a total company flop

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What about pisces people? I think they often have this mysterious charm that wants you to know more and often you like them very much… or maybe it's just my synastry with them because I'm a virgo with pisces moon, so there is often chemistry between me and pisces people:P

posted January 22, 2014 04:19 PM            

Water and earth are much more receptive and introverted. They just don't have the same kind of drive to participate in the social game so everything stops after one or two posts.

posted January 23, 2014 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Actually both Pisces and Virgo can be kinda boring. Air and Fire have a lot of warmth and enthusiasm. Not so much air but when fire's around, air catches their enthusiasm so they all feed off each other and that's where you see this energy, among these highly social signs.

Water and earth are much more receptive and introverted. They just don't have the same kind of drive to participate in the social game so everything stops after one or two posts.

If you notice, Aries suns always know exactly what to say to get everything started.

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Isn't this the same as to say that there is potentially a good synastry between water and earth and that is the "same" good synastry as with fire and air?
I have seen social groups containing of water and earth signs, and it was pretty energetic like if it was a group with fire and air signs… maybe a different energy, but still active and funny… capricorns can be really light-headed too, often they are the glue in social groups, if you notice!

posted January 24, 2014 04:57 PM            

I've seen people with several things in Leo, Libra (not just one like me lol) or Gemini get attention without trying. People really flock to them and seek them out. Sag is often well-liked too.

But I'm sorry you're feeling so bad about this. I know the feeling.

posted January 25, 2014 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:

But I'm sorry you're feeling so bad about this. I know the feeling.

Any progressions/transits coming up for you that may give you some luck socially?

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posted January 26, 2014 09:53 PM            

i am a cancer mooner, venus, mercury and pluto in scorp...can i say i LOVE pisces mooners???

posted January 26, 2014 09:56 PM            

Not even joking. It's like 80% of the threads I join, die within an hour. It can be the most blasé comment, too. Boom - dead. I've no idea why!

posted January 26, 2014 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Isn't this the same as to say that there is potentially a good synastry between water and earth and that is the "same" good synastry as with fire and air?
I have seen social groups containing of water and earth signs, and it was pretty energetic like if it was a group with fire and air signs… maybe a different energy, but still active and funny… capricorns can be really light-headed too, often they are the glue in social groups, if you notice!

Even though I know that virgo and pisces is "boring" it provokes me to hear you say just like that… I know many VERY interesting virgos and pisces… and this thread is not about which signs are the most social and enthusiastic, I think you have misunderstood it.
And I don't think being enthusiastic and energetic equals "exiting" either…. what you say is a bit overrated

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posted January 27, 2014 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I am not typing this to provoke you. I am just going by my own experience as a Virgo sun and with fellow earth and water signs. It's just the receptive nature of these elements. They are thought to be quieter and more reflective than fire and air. They are listeners and are happier being silent and less engaged.
I have had lots of experience socializing with Taurus and Libra because a really close friend has sun in Taurus and her brother and sister both have Libra suns. The Libras always have more social events and her brother was in a band so he was always surrounded by oodles of friends and acquaintances even though she wanted to be as popular, the Libra brother always had that edge and she never managed to woo people the same way. Some people have that knack while some do not, I have noticed, because it's not like the Taurus sun didn't try. Once we sat together in a club with this one guy who went away to work at a magazine after graduating college and she talked to him non stop but I don't think he was interested at all.
It just goes with being an air sign, I have concluded. Sometimes, it seems like they are popular without even trying.
I knew this one Pisces sun who could have been as popular as the Libras but she chose to be quiet and didn't really like people that much. It's differences in personality and drive, I've noticed.
I get the impression air and fire signs can get bored with earth and water. That's not saying earth and water are bored with each other.
However I do know of two women with Virgo suns and Venus in Libra who do well socially. One is a cousin of the Taurus sun and she has always been popular with people. If a Virgo sun has Venus in Libra, they can be a bit warmer and outgoing, a little less quiet and awkward from what I have seen. It can be a lovely combination. When Venus is in Libra, it bestows a Midas touch socially.

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I appreciates your observations, but I have noticed a very different pattern… maybe fire and air are more sociable, but that's not the same as being interesting…
I have one double cap female friend, and she is extremely popular among her 3 libra friends… she got sag mercury and aqua venus, but still the capricorn is dominant!

A virgo guy from my high school was extremely popular among everyone really, and his friends was aqua and aries..he had a sag moon and libra venus I think. Maybe that made him a bit more exiting (besides the fact that he was hot!) he was born only 3 days before me, but I have scorpio venus and pisces moon…