posted January 23, 2014 11:02 PM            

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posted January 24, 2014 12:25 AM            

Personally, my moon is Cancer, that's Cardinal and Water, very emotional. Same Quality in any synastry aspect is most challenging, especially Cardinal. I would prefer compatibility in Moons because life experience has brought me my most lasting relationships with same moon sign, in fact.

Look at the house placements, too. If either of you have 12H or 6H it might be a little more difficult individually, which would put added stress on the partnership, especially with a square.

Again, any single aspect does not determine how a relationship works. If you really understand the emotional needs of you and your partner, so that you honor your own needs and respect your partner's needs you can express this aspect in a positive and stimulating way.

posted January 24, 2014 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
you mean to say all it takes is MUTABLE RESPECT.

but seriously yes, that's what it is.

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posted January 24, 2014 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Paul McCartney and his first wife had this aspect and they supposedly had a great relationship.

I once had this aspect with a crush. We had great aspects (like sun conjunct moon, etc.) but this aspect really freaked me out. I am an "all around" cancer since I am a sun cancer, venus cancer and a cancer asc and so my moon is really important for me. Someone squaring my moon with his moon did not bring the best out of me

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posted January 24, 2014 01:47 PM            

That is a great personal testimony!

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posted January 24, 2014 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
I've been married for 13 years. My cap moon squares my husbands aries moon (1). He is a cancer rising so his moon is his chart ruler. We fought a whole lot in the early stages of our marriage. His moon conjuncts his natal MC, so there is some affinity between my moon and his. Like capricorn, my husband is hard working, entrepreneurial, and makes a lot of money, but he's mostly an impulsive aries who's even better at spending everything on his every whim. My saturn is also opposite his moon. So as you can imagine, I can be very restricting sometimes to a point where even I'm telling myself to chill out. We have a much better relationship now that we're older. In fact, we may even have a relationship others would envy, but it takes a lot, and it took a lot to get to this point. I don't think our marriage will be until death does us part unless one of us kills the other! We may be seem happier now because I'm just indifferent about our lives together. I can agree with the others who've said it can work with mutual love and respect. We have respect and brother/sisterly love. Man, I even sound negative and restricting talking about us.

Like AriesLilith said, understanding can be achieved, and that's where we're at. We both have grown to recognize and understand the value of our different approaches, why we feel and behave the way we do, and we make adjustments accordingly. The adjustments are constant though, and breaking up before you even reach this point may be likely.

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Don't you think that there could possibly be other aspects that help the relationship along?

I know that, for instance, I shared a square Moon aspect with a room-mate years ago.

I was not keen in moving in with him and thought that we'd actually kill each other.

He has his Moon in Aries squaring my Moon in Cancer(exact). We were never romantic but it would get into these really intense fights.

He also has his Mars conjunct my Jupiter and his Venus conjunct my Mars.

He says that I lived with him the longest and ,to be honest, I don't know how I did it. I found him super irritating and wouldn't do it again.

posted January 25, 2014 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Enneline:
[b]Paul McCartney and his first wife had this aspect and they supposedly had a great relationship.

I once had this aspect with a crush. We had great aspects (like sun conjunct moon, etc.) but this aspect really freaked me out. I am an "all around" cancer since I am a sun cancer, venus cancer and a cancer asc and so my moon is really important for me. Someone squaring my moon with his moon did not bring the best out of me

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My moon: 29°10' Aries
His moon: 27°55' Capricorn

posted January 29, 2014 06:53 PM            

People will tell you that it can potentially work if you are both willing to put in the effort, but I believe that if you have to work that hard to be with someone then being in that relationship needs to be questioned. Why try to shove a square peg into a triangular hole? In the end even if you succeed you're only going to end up with one messed up peg.

Besides which I have yet to see ONE example where both people in a relationship are willing to put in equal effort anyway.

posted January 29, 2014 07:15 PM            

We have a loose square and so far it's just been lots of love and lots of laughter. (Libra and Gemini) Any issues that pop up are resolved quickly and peacefully. Often we're on the same page anyway. (composite Virgo sun helping out maybe? Looking at things logically? Plus quite a few composite to natal conjunctions)

posted January 29, 2014 07:37 PM            

im a cancer my partners a taurus sun

i have a virgo rising
my partner has libra

my mars cancer hers is gemini
my venus gemini hers is taurus

we seem to love each other very very much and understand each other
emotionaly and verbally.