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From: Your imagination
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posted January 24, 2014 04:02 PM            

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I honestly believe my Neptune/mars square ascendant -mars opposite Neptune is really unlucky, I attract the most hateful, ugly inside, intolerant and rude people, people who usually I do not know. They usually create an idea of who I am, usually a negative image and then act on it. I'm tired, because I am not who they think I am, yes I'm not the most attractive woman, but I don't have deformities. I have some health issues like I have a low appetite and it's hard to eat sometimes, but that does not mean I'm 'ugly' or a '***** '

I have mars trine Pluto and Pluto and mars trine mc, Neptune opposite mc. I hate people and society. Does anyone else get this nonsense from strangers? Especially men, it's usually the case.

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posted January 24, 2014 04:33 PM            

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I know what you mean. I have moon opposite Neptune and these people come out of nowhere and they are so incredibly rude, disrespectful or extremely selfish.
So unnecessary. I don't get it because in real life I am so quiet and extremely nice to people. I am a thousand times more polite than the average person.
It's just that when Neptune opposes the moon it brings these types into my life. It's a spiritual test, you see. Your spirit is put to the test. Will you let these people eat away at your beauty or will you forgive and forget, or at least take something ugly and turn it into something beautiful? You can be bitter or you can just let go and rely on a higher, unseen force. That's what I do. Believe in what you cannot see because it's there, all around, with Neptune. You have to work it with Neptune in harsh aspects. Oppositions, especially, because it's your environment. I have confronted this many, many times in my life, what is represented by the Neptune opposition. Be graceful.
Also it's like my nerves...I feel really weird and my anxiety levels can get so high I fear I will actually faint and I have done it before...which is one reason I am so evasive. Confrontations knock the wind out of my CNS, thoroughly. I always leave if I can, before a crescendo is reached. You can always just walk away from these people. Never feel bad about turning the other way.
Just remember, with Neptune in opposition, you either become like these dead souls or you have the opportunity to work your way into a higher level of conscience and spirit where nothing can touch you. There you are truly free. It's the highest highs or the lowest lows. I choose to go toward up rather than down and refine my spirit when confronting these people who are just dead souls to me.
Do not dwell on the negative. Think of all the valuable insight you can gain from different elements consisting in your life if you will think about why it is happening, not in a self pitying way, but in a way that will benefit your wisdom. Gain insight about human nature and awareness about yourself. Every confrontation is an opportunity, not an obstacle.

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posted January 24, 2014 04:33 PM            

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post a link to your chart x

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posted January 25, 2014 05:00 AM            

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I feel like I attract two kinds of people.

One. They gush over me. Tell me I am amazon and gorgeous etc when I know they're obviously just trying to butter me up and I know it's insincere.

Two. They try to put me down in some way. Either joke that I am ugly or try to find my flaws or how I don't live up to their idea of beauty. And this is always always every time from guys that are not very attractive themselves. Every. Single. Time. And I am always too much of a gentle baby to be like **** you you ugly insecure **** . If thy are joking I just get playful because wtf else am I supposed to do. I they try to find my flaws I just smile and make an excuse or just admit to it. Why am I such a wuss.

I'm not sure what aspects are causing this. I attract very domineering type of people. And I am attracted to dominant men but not the kind of insecure guys that are acting all alpha to overcompensate. "You know you want me. Girls are all over me. You're gross." And I'm just like too polite or something to just give them the truth.

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posted January 25, 2014 06:10 AM            

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The problem when neptune is aflicted and specially in aspect to mars is that people have a hard time being assertive. so they even sometimes are unaware of their own violent drives, so they find their shadow outside.

any normal human feels angry when abused, so, it is not about being violent, but being able to stand for yourself. once the aggresive, normal drive is owned, those people start vanishing.. so it is not about 'sublimating' your drives, quite the opposite, it is about adknoledging your right to stand up for youself..

hating people is just a consequense of not owning your mars needs.

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posted January 25, 2014 08:35 AM            

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^ Good posts, everyone.

Could be some kind of projection, like nordic said. I think they represent your shadow side and play out your "nasty" aspects for you.
Look into yourself to see if there's something you may be suppressing (anger? insecurity? things like that).

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