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Topic: Gemini / Gemini Influenced v/s Scorpio and Privacy
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4lifephrases
Knowflake Posts: 364
From: London, United Kingdom
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2014 07:51 PM
  
To Geminis/ Gemini influenced....What would you like to keep private and what not? To whom as well. Also how much do you like to know about others and what is the best way to tell you not to get too nosy. I am Scorpio and I do not trust Gemini (due to gossipy nature)I find the energy extremely nosy. Not to forget lots of Geminis do extremely well on Social Media and stuff. My true node is Gemini so just trying to understand as I find revealing about myself fun and bring closer to people but part which doesn't trust screams for privacy and find it exhausting. Also if any Scorpio want to talk about privacy. Why is it important to us ? Is it having power on people, situation,etc ? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8388
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 24, 2014 08:03 PM
Why not just ask one to keep a secret lol . If they still share they don't respect you or like you. You must ****** one off. I'm not gossipy because I don't spread rumors I simply share public information. I saw so and so together etc it's funny because gems know a lot of juicy secrets but only mention random or rather bland information
Depending if I like the person I may not share something that seems rather private and maybe controversial. Even though I witnessed it and have the right to tell whoever I wantIP: Logged |
4lifephrases
Knowflake Posts: 364
From: London, United Kingdom
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 24, 2014 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Why not just ask one to keep a secret lol .
I do not trust the person. Even if I tell something and ask to keep it as a secret, I am still answering and doing lot of managing with Gem which I find completely unnecessary.
They ask me can they tell to somebody else as they can not keep secret anymore. I think sometimes I do not want to share secret with anyone, simply because it is too much hassle to deal with the person who knows. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8388
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 24, 2014 08:16 PM
If don't trust someone than don't share. The sign does not really matter. Once I had a good Taurus friend out my relationship and I had so much damage control to do. I asked to keep it a secret and she even knew her self the amount issues can cause.IP: Logged |
Nicole401
Knowflake Posts: 357
From: CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted January 24, 2014 09:36 PM
I think Geminis in general would try to keep anything too personal about themselves out of the conversation and try to figure out more about the person they're talking to (which may be why they're so likeable? Because most people like talking about themselves and Geminis are very curious people)A polite way to tell them to stop asking why and stop being so nosy, in my personal opinion would be something like "it's personal", etc - they should get the hint LOL IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 7389
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 25, 2014 08:27 AM
Try having both Gem and Scorp in the natal, rofl..
Scorpio: [thinking] I shouldn't tell them about this... I'll lose my power if I'm too honest... Gotta...keep...control...
Gemini: [out loud] Oh by the way, you know what... I'm schizophrenic! Yeah... I didn't really want to tell you, but... Now you know, I guess!
Scorpio: [internally]******* dumb****!! *facepalm* *buries self underground*
Gemini: Woops... I guess that was TMI.
- I find Geminis quite private actually.
They may share some "general" info about themselves and their lives but they're quite selective when it comes to being truly open with someone and sharing feelings and emotions, and all that. But asking questions and extracting info from others... ooh yeah! I can't speak for other Scorpios but for me personally, I've realized that "hiding" things can be as detrimental as letting them out in the open. At this point I'm not sure what's the best thing to do. I guess some things should be let out in the open and some things should stay private. It probably comes down to how secure you feel about yourself - if you have some "nasty" secrets that you feel bad about, then sure, others finding out will be terrible (for you) but if you take responsibility and accept your "dark secrets", then others knowing about them is like meeeh, whatever, you won't feel bothered or upset about it. So basically, once you've embraced your dark side, there's no need or desire to keep things hidden. IMO. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 25, 2014 11:45 AM
As a Scorpio, almost all my boyfriends or close friends have had Gemini influences. I think it's because when I first meet people I might come off as too formal and kind so unless you are really curious and insist to know more about me, you can't get close to me :PIP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 25, 2014 12:46 PM
I agree with Doux reve about learning to accept your 'dark' side. I think Scorpios are also perfectionists like Virgos but we are worse because we try to hide what we think are our flaws. IP: Logged |
Lunae
Knowflake Posts: 2053
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 25, 2014 07:46 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Try having both Gem and Scorp in the natal, rofl..
[b]Scorpio: [thinking] I shouldn't tell them about this... I'll lose my power if I'm too honest... Gotta...keep...control...
Gemini: [out loud] Oh by the way, you know what... I'm schizophrenic! Yeah... I didn't really want to tell you, but... Now you know, I guess!
Scorpio: [internally]******* dumb****!! *facepalm* *buries self underground*
Gemini: Woops... I guess that was TMI.
- I find Geminis quite private actually.
They may share some "general" info about themselves and their lives but they're quite selective when it comes to being truly open with someone and sharing feelings and emotions, and all that. But asking questions and extracting info from others... ooh yeah! I can't speak for other Scorpios but for me personally, I've realized that "hiding" things can be as detrimental as letting them out in the open. At this point I'm not sure what's the best thing to do. I guess some things should be let out in the open and some things should stay private. It probably comes down to how secure you feel about yourself - if you have some "nasty" secrets that you feel bad about, then sure, others finding out will be terrible (for you) but if you take responsibility and accept your "dark secrets", then others knowing about them is like meeeh, whatever, you won't feel bothered or upset about it. So basically, once you've embraced your dark side, there's no need or desire to keep things hidden. IMO.[/B]
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