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Odette
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posted January 26, 2014 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Post your closest composite aspects with the people who are or were at some stage, important in your life: close friends, family, exes, SO's.. etc.

You can do this for one or more charts - it's up to you!

Preferably, use an orb of 1'.. If there are no aspects at all, you can increase the orb to 3'.

Would you say these aspects are particularly descriptive of your relationship with the person in question? (more so than other synastry or composite aspects)

You can look up the interpretations for composite aspects on astro.com, cafeastrology.com, grupovenus.com (if you're new to astrology).. or you can interpret the aspects yourself if you like!

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Kerosene
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posted January 26, 2014 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only people I love and value their presence.

person 1 Sun trine NN

person 2 NN conjunct Uranus

person 3 NN trine asc.

Okay well they are all related to NN

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12muddy
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posted January 27, 2014 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My favourite people whom I love and care deeply about:

1. Moon oppose uranus/saturn 1', ascendant oppose mars 1'.

Sun trine mars 1'

2. Sun conjunct mercury 1', square mars/jupiter 0'

Mercury square mars 1', jupiter 0'

Mars oppose jupiter 1', trine pluto 0', trine NN 1'

Moon conjunct chiron 1'

3. Sun conjunct pluto 1'

Moon square sun/venus/pluto 1'

4. Sun trine moon 1'

Moon oppose uranus 1'

Merc conjunct ascendant, square MC 1'

Mars square chiron 1'

Jupiter oppose saturn 0'


These two aren't really my favourite lol but I love them:

1. Sun sextile moon 0'

Moon conj mars 1'

Mars trine neptune 1'

Jupiter square asc 1'

2. Sun conjunct saturn 1'

Venus oppose jupiter 0', conjunct asc 1'

Jupiter oppose asc 1'

Pluto conjunct MC 1'


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Contacts to sun, moon, mars seem like a common theme in my case.

I've looked at the interpretations on cafeastrology.com and it's pretty much hit and miss.

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next to neptune
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posted January 27, 2014 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The closest aspect between me and my boyfriend is venus square uranus!

And what can I say….smoking hot and extremely interesting!

The next two are sun square neptune and jupiter

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Xodian
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posted January 27, 2014 06:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I posted a composite chart outline between me and my wife. Oh there are just WAY too many aspects that are way too good to post on here directly do I am going to link you to the thread I made on our Synasty and Composite charts:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003628.html

As for if those aspects decribe our relationship; HELL YEAH THEY DO !

As one LL member put it perfectly:

quote:
very erotic but also sweet loving, not only is there a element passion but I think you guys are hooked on the deep emotional element within the relationship. Taking a breather from each other might be difficult lol.

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Ceridwen
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posted January 27, 2014 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1) a man who had a very significant cathartic nfluence on me, and whom I am still very infatuated with

Moon square Mars 0.15
Venus square Pluto 0.47
Venus trine IC 0.44

and

Moon trine Juno 0.34
Amor conjunct NN 0.11
Cupido conjunct NN 0.01
Cupido conjunct Amor 0.11
Moon sextile Valentine 0.41


2) my best friend, with whom I have been through thick and thin, literally, friends for 25 years or so

Moon trine Mercury 0.04
Venus trine ASC 0.26
Jupiter trine MC 0.45


Definitely makes sense. A lot of talking, especially about psychoogical or relational things (Moon in Pisces in 12t; Mercury in Scorpio in 8th).

A lot of supporting of each other`s lifepath, and have been working together cloesely at university.
(Jupiter in Aries in 2nd house)


Also as little as we see each other nowadays, when we do it is very harmonious and enjoyable (Venus in Scorpio in 9th, and actually conjunct NN but with more than a degree).

3) another friend, who started as an email friend, but we have known each other for over 10 years now, and occasionally meet up in bigger cities like London or Paris. Usually for theatre-plays. But conversation includes everything, especially personal development, including spiritual stuff

Venus square Uranus 0.10
(Venus in Cappy exactly conjunct 11th house cusp)


Pluto conjunct DESC 0.16


4) my composite with my Mom; very close relationship, though not uncomplicated at times


Moon square Uranus 0.05

Mars trine CHiron 0.01

Jupiter sextile NN 0.49
(Jupiter conj ASC with 1.19)

NN sextile ASC 0.35


5) my composite with my Dad, much less complicated relationship, very supportive (they both are, but with my Mom things can get emotionally volatile at times, my Dad feels more similiar to myself)


Mercury sextile Mars 0.18

Jupiter trine ASC 0.49

NN conjunct IC 0.24


6) with my youngest brother; when he was born I was running around telling the neighbourhood that "finally he has arrived", referring to him as a soulmate, without really knowing the term of course.
Turns out we apparently really are. LOL
Oh and it was me who picked his name; it was only many many years later that I read that in the ARthurian legends there was one knight with the same name (I hadn`t heard about that before though, just a interesting synchronicity; but he shares a lot of traits with this knight as a matter of fact).


Sun conjunct Mars 0.37
(Aquarius, 1st house, near ASC)

Mercury conjunct Jupiter 1,05
(Capricorn 12th house)

Mars square Chiron 0.31

Uranus sextile NN 0.26

Definitely fits. We discuss a lot. I mean it. A LOT.
Sometimes my mom gives indications of exhaustion when we all meet up, cause it is just so much talking, and her Scorpio-Mercury feels exhausted or annoyed by our choice of topics sometimes. My brother has Mercury in Aquarius, my Mercury is in Sagittarius, they are sextile each other. You can figure out the rest.


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Violets
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posted January 27, 2014 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto trine Venus, less than 1 degree.
Yep, that's us.

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This is hardly a casual relationship. Instead, it is destined to change your attitudes towards love and relationship, as well as your values. The need to be loyal to one another and to maintain a high level of intimacy and bonding between you is strong. Willingness to change, adapt, and make sacrifices for the relationship is notable. Passionate feelings are aroused in both of you, and you are more able than most to keep this passion alive because you take normal fluctuations of intensity in stride and don't demand more than your partner is capable of.

I've never given much thought to composite charts, but ours is interesting. And our composite Sun is conjunct our child's natal Sun.

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Ceridwen
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posted January 27, 2014 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Violets:
And our composite Sun is conjunct our child's natal Sun.

That is interesting.


my parent`s composite has a Sagittarius-Sun near my own natal Sun, though ery loosely (theirs is 19 Sag, my Sun is 26 Sag).

Their composite DESC is conjunct my natal Moon and my middle brother`S ASC

thier composite Jupiter is conjunct my chartruler Jupiter, my middle brother`s Venus and my youngest brother`s Sun.

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Violets
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posted January 27, 2014 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is interesting! I am just now only glancing at our composite (I've never paid much attention to them before), and that was the only thing that stood out for me. I did just notice that our composite Saturn is conjunct our son's Anti-Vertex.

Now I'll have to revive the Anti-Vertex thread...

Hm. Our Moon is conjunct his by a wide orb, 4 degrees.

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Lunae
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posted January 27, 2014 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Person 1(inaccurate TOB though, but I guess the aspects don't change that much..?):

Sun conjunct Mercury 1'
Venus trine Pluto 1'
Moon trine Venus 1'
Moon trine Pluto exact
Venus opposite Mars exact
Moon sextile Mars 1'
Pluto sextile Mars 1'

Based on these aspects alone, I think it's descriptive of our relationship. We feel comfortable in each other's company. Our communication is free-flowing, honest. We understand each other at a different level than anyone else. The Venus-Moon-Pluto-Mars is a kite configuration, btw. There is this natural spontaneity in our relationship and I thought I could attribute it to the energies concentrated onto mars and Venus opp uranus (not a close orb, though-- 5'.)

Person 2 (w/accurate birth time)- closest girl friend of 5 years:

There's another kite configuration here. I have this in my closest relationships so far 0.0

Sun conjunct Mars exact
Sun sextile neptune exact
NN square Asc exact
NN conjunct Uranus 1' (I think I'll have this with people my age so.. does this count?)
NN conj MC 1'
Jupiter trine Uranus 1'
Saturn trine Vx 1'
Mercury sextile Vx 2'
Chiron trine Asc 2'
Jupiter trine MC 2'
Mercury sextile Saturn 3' (stretching this since all other aspects in the kite are like 10' lol)

Other aspects in the Kite (I think it's important):

Moon trine Venus
Moon trine Saturn
Venus sextile Mercury
Moon opposite Sun, Mars and Pluto

I think it's pretty descriptive of our relationship too. She's my closest confidante. Actually both people I mentioned on here are my closest confidantes We're honest with each other and we've done almost everything together. We're inseparable haha. From school to work.. we're always together. We've had each other's backs since the first day we met in college.

Last one is with my closest sister:

Sun conjunct Uranus and Vx exact
Sun and Vx trine Mars exact
Mars trine Uranus 1'
Jupiter square NN 2'
Sun opp Venus 3'
Venus sextile Mars 3'
Venus quincunx Saturn exact

There's a yod configuration in our chart, Saturn in the apex. There's a t-square too with moon on the apex but the orb is a bit loose (4').

We share a great deal of stuff about each other's lives that's why I consider her the closest. I love listening to her insight and wisdom. We've had some hard times (Saturn at the apex of the yod, prolly) but I think we're the epitome of blood is thicker than water.

Generally speaking.. I have a thing for geometric configurations in the composite lol

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Selene
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posted January 27, 2014 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, here it is:

1) A close bond, we both really value each other as friends, and knowing him has changed my whole life, like meeting him put me on my life-path. There is feelings from my side, yet he loves somebody else. So we're just friends. Also - there is verified past life connection with this man, where we were married.

His Sun square my Uranus 0'05
His Venus square my Mars 0'27
His Venus conjunct my DSC 0'55
His Mars trine my Chiron 0'56
His Jupiter conjunct my Neptune 0'44
His Uranus trine my Moon 0'08
His Uranus sextile my Mercury 0'42
His Uranus sextile my Venus 0'52
His Uranus opposite my Mars 0'36
His Uranus square my ASC 0'08
His DSC conjunct my Neptune 0'29

I think this is pretty much telling. He seemed to be the ideal mate for me - his Venus exactly on my DSC. There is definitely really electric passion and sparks with all these exact Uranus aspects and Venus/Mars square. Yet i think he himself does not understand why he needs me in his life, which he definitely does, because he keeps me close. I think my Neptune on his DSC contributes to this. And furthermore there is an exact conjunction of his Jupiter, DSC and my Neptune (with composite Sun exactly conjunct all of this), so literally - we are good for each other in a spiritual sense as well. Maybe this was the purpose of us meeting in this life, who knows. But what first brought us together actually was our mutual interest in metaphysical things like synchronicities (which brought us to meet each other in the first place )

Oops, i thought the question was about synatry! My bad!


In composite the closest aspects are these:

Moon sextile Mars 0'03
Moon sextile Neptune 0'07
Mars trine Neptune 0'43
Neptune square NN 0'01

But the most telling is this one - Moon conjunct Pluto 3'03

Nevertheless, in my case conjunctions from the composite to the natal charts are really great.

C.Sun conjunct his N.Jupiter, N.DSC, my N.Neptune - exact
C. NN conjunct his N.Sun exact
C.ASC conjunct my N.Moon exact
C.IC conjunct my N.Sun exact

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Selene
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posted January 27, 2014 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With my mom:

Moon conjunct Uranus exact.....

You can guess it. I love her, she loves me, but i can't live with her for more than 3 consecutive days, otherwise i'll go nuts. She's very mothering and cannot understand that i've grown up, too much to take.

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AriesLilith
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posted January 27, 2014 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With my husband (together for 8 years, married for 1, lived together for 2):

The aspect that is most defining of our relationship is Venus/Mars/Juno conjunction oppose Jupiter, trine Saturn.

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LucieLemonade
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posted January 28, 2014 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
opps... i didn't read the instructions thru... These were not under 3o.

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