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Topic: venus retrogade break up and make ups
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nikki01 Knowflake Posts: 115 From: neptune Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 27, 2014 11:09 AM
breaking up and making up and been the theme for us.. She sees the other guy and has more trust in him. We had a major break down today i am afraid its finally over any hope once venus turns direct? Its so horribleIP: Logged |
livictori Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 27, 2014 01:24 PM
I am right there with you. My guy just stopped communication since 12/20 and then deleted my off fb. He had been liking my pics and status but I was ignoring him. Part of me feels he is manipulating me for rejection and to gain control over the situation. I even fed into it by calling him but not leaving a vm. 4 MORE DAYS------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising. IP: Logged |
nikki01 Knowflake Posts: 115 From: neptune Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 28, 2014 12:22 AM
@livictori do u think everything will be fine after venus is direct? Just 2 weeks ago she told me how much she loved me and she is being distant partly my fault its so dam crazy ...
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4610 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 28, 2014 12:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by nikki01: breaking up and making up and been the theme for us.. She sees the other guy and has more trust in him. We had a major break down today i am afraid its finally over any hope once venus turns direct? Its so horrible
Pardon me, but why are you blaming Venus retrograde if you feel that the girl you love has more trust in another guy? I keep seeing topics popping up that blames venus retrograde for break-ups. If a relationship is strong,no planet can break it, it can bring change to the relationship but if two persons really love each other and want to work things out,no planet can pull them apart.Venus retrograde helps in looking at things that were being taken for granted in a new perspective,and whether there is a proper balance between two people.It's better to be loved than to be the one who gives love all the time. It could bring a break up to liberate people who thought they were stuck in a loveless relationship. If this girl thinks she can trust someone else more than she trusts you, so may be you should meditate on the reasons why she doesn't trust YOU. IP: Logged |
nikki01 Knowflake Posts: 115 From: neptune Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 28, 2014 01:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Pardon me, but why are you blaming Venus retrograde if you feel that the girl you love has more trust in another guy? I keep seeing topics popping up that blames venus retrograde for break-ups. If a relationship is strong,no planet can break it, it can bring change to the relationship but if two persons really love each other and want to work things out,no planet can pull them apart.Venus retrograde helps in looking at things that were being taken for granted in a new perspective,and whether there is a proper balance between two people.It's better to be loved than to be the one who gives love all the time. It could bring a break up to liberate people who thought they were stuck in a loveless relationship. If this girl thinks she can trust someone else more than she trusts you, so may be you should meditate on the reasons why she doesn't trust YOU.
you have a point but its not the first time i have went through this during a venus retrogade. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4610 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 28, 2014 04:20 AM
So that would mean that Venus is prompting you to analyze your romantic relationships. If her retrograde period specifically brings you pain and heartache, you have to, may be analyze the type of partners that you seem to be attracted to.Hope things work out for you. Good luck! IP: Logged |
livictori Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 28, 2014 10:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by nikki01: @livictori do u think everything will be fine after venus is direct? Just 2 weeks ago she told me how much she loved me and she is being distant partly my fault its so dam crazy ...
I just think we all will me able to think more clearly. This has been very emotional and personal, even demanding that we look at things IP: Logged |