posted January 27, 2014 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Panthera Leo:
kick his ass or get someone to do it for you
Or ring the police

Sorry about that earlier comment.Mercury in Aquarius is opposing my Mercury Leo.

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It's okay. I forgive you lol.

If he pops up at my apartment I will definitely call the police. For now, he's just phone stalking me lol.

I hadn't spoken with him in months...and here he is AGAIN, unchanged I might add. Tried to level with him today, and he got super defensive. I've ignored him all day today and he still sent several text messages ranting just for the hell of it. I feel pity for him & his life.

posted January 27, 2014 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
lol hes stalking you?

LOL oh scorpios.

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No! He's a triple Capricorn!!!

posted January 27, 2014 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
YOU TOLD ME HE'S A SCORPIOOO.
you said I don't like scorps or did you mean cap?
Cause I actually like caps.

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I just meant that this dude is beyond INTENSE. But you seemed to think he may be fun or interesting from those aspects listed.

So that's why I said if you don't like how serious Scorpios are, not sure why you'd like the intensity coming from this guy either.

I usually have a lot of respect for Capricorns. But this guys is just...UGH. He's just way too much to deal with.

posted January 27, 2014 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Does he berate?

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Oh definitely! And over very dumb sh*t. He doesn't even know me like that for him to feel he can act a fool and still be in my life - PLEASE.

He doesn't know how to enjoy ANYTHING it seems. He's just very hard to get to know. He's defensive, mistrustful, angry-sounding.

He'll be polite for like 2 minutes then he turns into The Hulk. Boy bye.

I could crack his shell if I wanted to - I did it once before, which he respected me for. But I simply don't enjoy him enough to bother trying to "go underneath the surface". Just go away already. LOL.

posted January 27, 2014 09:11 PM            

Lol like what do you mean by intensity?
" Exceptionally great concentration, power, or force."
That is not really reserved for scorpio..

posted January 27, 2014 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
With first house Uranus he will say what's on his mind and he will be rebellious and shocking. It's his way or the highway lol. Uranus on the ascendant - I have it. NOT EASY for other people. Very eccentric and willful.

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I have Sun trine Uranus. And apparently, multiple Aqua duads. I don't go around being an a**hole just for the hell of it. I'm very independent-minded but I also respect other points of view.

This dude is just out of his mind. No excuses lol.

posted January 27, 2014 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
The thing with scorpios is that they often play these mind games and test you because they are so paranoid about everything.
I literally have no time for that **** .. that's why I'm not a fan. The reason people are so into them is because they are all about sex and desire. That really the core of human nature.

Lol like what do you mean by intensity?
" Exceptionally great concentration, power, or force."
That is not really reserved for scorpio..

In that case I would probably be an intense person too. I really hate the word intense because It really has lost its value.
My mars is in aries... Mars is all about desire and it's at home here.
More so than scorpio.
I find a lot of people can't really handle me, there not passionate enough for me.. Even mars in scropio just sort of laid their just staring and I'm like..
WHAT IS THIS... you're just going sit there on the bed.
WHY THE BED? LOL
I can't get even get into it.
This thread will turn rated R.

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I'm fine with this thread becoming R-rated. Tell me more about this person!

I get what you mean about Scorpios. They definitely have their unsavory ways about them sometimes. The main reason I like them is because I admire their *DEPTH* of character - very important to me.

Because I have (3) planets in the Third House, intellect is also very important to me. That's why I have the best conversations with Geminis. I can be light-hearted too ya know?! It's about a balance.

Mars in Aries is most certainly passionate. I don't deny that! If a man has that placement though, I enjoy when he has a Water Moon or Venus. Passion combined w/ depth is what I seek and that isn't always easy to find in one individual.

posted January 27, 2014 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

He goes overboard in trying to appear "confident" and "strong" when he really isn't. I see through the facade and he is not used to that - it offends him that I wasn't fooled. LOL. He puts value into the wrong things.

He isn't light-hearted, free-spirited or "fun" like some here may assume. He's a rather dark soul who expects you to do whatever he says when he says it.

I'm a f*cking Aries. Dude that ain't happenin' here. Smh!

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posted January 27, 2014 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:

He reminds me of my sister. 3 t-squares!!!!
But yeah, you just have to ignore him. He might have mood swings as well. I'm sure he went through rough phrases and might still not be very well. Caps want you to respect them and I completely understand where you are coming from. Coz you just can't respect his attitude

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You're absolutely right. Read this about him...

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91 Opposition Moon - Saturn

When Moon is in hard aspect to Saturn in the natal chart, natives need to learn to trust others more. Fear keeps them from fully enjoying personal relationships, and fear is behind the occasional rigidity that they express. When they let themselves receive nurture or care from others, an inner voice cautions them that it might not be sincere, long-lasting, or enough! There can be some reluctance about becoming a parent, but once taken on, these people don't take their responsibility lightly.

Emotional reticence is the main theme of these aspects. Many people with this aspect had a lot of conditions placed on the love they received in early childhood. They tend to expect the same later in life. With hard Saturn aspects, individuals are often plagued with doubts, not only about the self but about what to expect from life itself. The problem is that expecting difficulties or negative situations creates an aura around them that perpetuates the problem. They must work hard at positive thinking and expecting more from life. Ironically, many people with hard Saturn aspects can be quite sarcastic, skeptical, and rigid in manner. This is essentially a defense mechanism designed to protect themselves from harshness in the world.

It is extremely likely that they feel neglected because they perceive it in the first place, and later expect it, to be the case. There's a vicious circle going on here that can only be broken when the patterns created by negative conditioning are broken. Adjusting one's perceptions and expectations is the key to breaking out of these negative patterns. Otherwise, natives of hard Moon-Saturn aspects will live life feeling left out--attracting circumstances that perpetuate a feeling of deep unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

Short description: He has changeable moods, a reserved character, is stubborn and lacks assurance. His relationship with his mother may have been difficult, he has may have had considerable family problems. This is the standard aspect for children who are abandoned or who lacked maternal love.

posted January 27, 2014 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I have Sun trine Uranus. And apparently, multiple Aqua duads. I don't go around being an a**hole just for the hell of it. I'm very independent-minded but I also respect other points of view.

This dude is just out of his mind. No excuses lol.

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posted January 27, 2014 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
With first house Uranus he will say what's on his mind and he will be rebellious and shocking. It's his way or the highway lol. Uranus on the ascendant - I have it. NOT EASY for other people. Very eccentric and willful.

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posted January 27, 2014 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
The main thing isn't Uranus on the Asc but uranus squaring other planets. It really sucks. I thought I liked uranus but the ppl with many uranus squares or t-squares will insist on their right to be an individual, saying it's "the way i am" even when they are completely wrong. Speaking your mind isn't wrong per se. Refusing to change because of your "uniqueness" is bad

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posted January 28, 2014 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Before I even go into *ANY* details...just look at all these aspects in his chart. Tell me your honest opinion of what he must be like.

-Sun Square Uranus
-Sun Square Ascendant
-Sun Opposition Midheaven
-Moon Square Mercury
-Moon Opposition Saturn
-Mercury Square Jupiter
-Mercury Square Saturn
-Venus Square Uranus
-Venus Square Ascendant
-Venus Opposition Midheaven
-Jupiter Opposition Saturn
-Uranus Square Midheaven

I ask you - CAN THIS MAN BE HELPED???

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Mercury square Jupiter- Exaggerates much? Likes to fog details and tells over the top , far-fetched stories?

Moon opposition Saturn- Unable to express himself. Confined by women, feels unable to get on with women. Fears women or being vulnerable or had a very oppressive mother

Venus square Uranus- Constant flux and change in relationships. The new venture excites him, interracial relations, provocative and daring. Is easily bored with complacency.

posted January 28, 2014 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL some girls always need to help guys.

MY LOVE AND BOOBIES WILL MELT IS ICY HEART.

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BEST.LINE.EVER.

posted January 28, 2014 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL some girls always need to help guys.

MY LOVE AND BOOBIES WILL MELT IS ICY HEART.

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posted January 28, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
He won't leave ME alone!!!

I don't call him, text, or anything. He keeps trying to force me to interact with him. I think he's a narcissist.

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