posted February 03, 2014 11:57 AM
Please help me. I really need somebody's advice I'm feeling so sensitive and jealous right now. I'm going through a hard time, and it's very difficult to suppress and hide my emotions. I don't know what's causing it, but I think it's transits to my Venus, which is already afflicted (Retro Venus 12th House in Virgo, square Moon, Jupiter and Uranus).
tMercury opposite nVenus/Asc (4)
tUranus quincunx nVenus/Asc (2)
tNeptune opposite nVenus/Asc (2)
tChiron opposite nVenus/Asc (5)
I'm a Leo (Sag Moon), and in a serious relationship with a Libra Man (Cancer Moon). I have no reasons to feel jealous. He's very loving, caring, respectful, and doesn't even go out without me.
The thing that really annoyed me, happened yesterday. There is a girl in our local supermarket, who obviously fancies him. I'm very observative (is that a real word?), and I have noticed, how she always looks at him, gets shy and blushes, when she serves us. He's very nice and friendly to everyone (typical Libra), including her, but she obviously took his friendly nature a bit more seriously.
Me and my bf moved to his country, where I have to learn a new language. I'm not good yet, but I understand a lot, and can communicate during simple conversations.
One day we went to our shop. My bf was his usual "hey, how are you" (it's a local shop), etc. Then she asked him with a big disapproval tone, why don't I speak the language yet, and that I "have to learn it", etc. I just ignored it, it was actually kinda funny, how she tried to put me down in front of the man she obviously fancies.
On other day, I went shopping by myself. It was the end of the week, and one of my groceries was a bottle of wine... I got the same girl, who with a disapproval tone asked me:
-Where is your bf??
-(me) at work
-Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... (giving a dirty look at the wine bottle)
WTH? Who are you to judge me? I don't need to explain anything to anyone
Anyway, I just brushed it off. I laughed at it at home, when my bf came home, I just said something like "Your groupie didn't like me buying wine, while you are at work..."
Yesterday we were served by her again. She, as always, got very blushy, stroking her hair, flirting with him. He was just polite, nothing that would make me uncomfortable. Then she looks at me, turns back to my bf, and says: "She's so pale, you should take her to the beach". I just smiled. But what REALLY annoyed me, instead of saying something like : "I like the way she is, I think her skin is beautiful", he just started explaining himself: "Noo, I take her to the beach...".
It annoyed me so much! Not what she said. I can see, she's obviously jealous. I have a very good skin, no blemishes or spots (people often compliment me about it), while she has problematic skin. Looks, like she tried to put me down again, but it's ok, it's kinda entertaining. The fact that he didn't defend me, really annoyed me. I didn't say anything, but I was thinking all night :-/
Soooo annoying!!
Should I ignore it? Should I talk to him? I actually kinda calmed down, while typing this
And the most importantly, when the hell these transits go away? I don't like tUranus/Neptune + nVenus
Please don't quote, I'll edit it out later.