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Gemberri
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posted February 04, 2014 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemberri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone,

This may be a half-beaten horse but I don't know where else to turn to... I believe that I am finally feeling the effects of Moon-pluto contacts in a synastry.

He and I met online. We met in person about two weeks after and hit it off right away. We went on a few dates over the span of 2 months. Our last date was dinner and then back to his place to watch a movie. Things got hot and heavy, but I wasn't ready to take it to the next level. He was upset but respected my wishes. He ended the night by saying we will talk next week. But that was 1 1/2 weeks ago. Since then he has done the opposite of what he promised, he has cut off all communications. I initially left him alone thinking that he probably needed space. I did break down and texted him once last Friday and it's been 4 days and still... Nothing...

In synastry, we have a Moon-Pluto double whammy. His moon in Cancer trines my Pluto in Scorpio. My moon in Capricorn sextiles his Pluto in Scorpio. Our moons are opposite.

In composite, the pluto, sun, moon, mercury, venus and chiron are all involved in a Yod/Boomerang. Pluto is at the vertex, quincunx sun-moon-mercury sterillium in Aries in one leg. The Pluto quincunx chiron in the other leg. It also opposites venus in Taurus as the Boomerang.

Things were going really well up until that last date. When we were together, I felt like we could talk about anything... it does feel very karmic, like I've known him before. And his gaze... no man has ever looked at me like that before! I turn into mush when he gazes into my eyes, I get butterflies when he touches me, even innocently.

Now, all my friends are telling me to forget him. They think he's scum and only wanted sex, and he doesn't even have the decency to properly end things. I initially thought so as well. But no matter how hard I tried, I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I literally think about him all the time, from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed I think about the "good times" and it is just so hard to accept that he could just ignore me like this... really thought we had a connection. Or maybe I am the obsessed one in this Moon-Pluto mess?

Should I reach out again? We were planning to go to a concert this Friday. I was supposed to send him more info as I got the tickets in advance. Should I give it one more try? Or should I toss this fish (he's a pisces) back to the sea?

Anyways, this was my Moon-Pluto experience so far, not a very positive one, it turns out I was just hoping if anyone could give me any insight or try to put things in perspective for me? I don't really know what to do... don't really know how to break out of this spell

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Doux Rêve
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posted February 04, 2014 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, Gemberri,

Welcome to LL.

Sorry to hear about your situation, that's tough.

I obviously don't know the guy, but if he keeps ignoring you like that, it's not a good sign. You're only at the beginning of a (potential) relationship and yet he's already acting shady. Uh-oh. Not good.

Moon/Pluto easy aspects (trine & sextile) wouldn't necessarily have that effect.

It must be his natal, and your natal charts.
In the composite, if I got it right, there's a Venus/Pluto opposition? That can point to an unrequited love, a love triangle, or overall psychological / emotional issues getting in the way of a healthy relationship.

Should you give it one more try?
Yes, I think you should. Be honest and calm - reach out to him one last time, make yourself clear and see how he reacts.

Observe carefully and make a rational decision. Don't "follow your heart" if the guy's acting like douche. You deserve all the love in the world, so don't settle for less.

Best of luck ~

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Venusian Moon
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posted February 04, 2014 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would definitely give it one more try because of the concert thing. If he doesn't respond then he is just an idiot who was only after one thing.

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Gemmy
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posted February 04, 2014 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now that I think about it,I went through the same thing with my "ex".We met on fb,we were fine the first week we began to talk,we even met up twice.After that week,he disappeared on me.Two weeks later he finally contacted me and were constantly exchanging texts.It never went further than that.
We had the same Moon/Pluto aspects.But we also had a ton of Neptune/12th house going on.I blame that.

Hope everything works out for you.I'm sorry I can't give you solid advice.I'm in the same boat as you at the moment.

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Gemberri
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posted February 05, 2014 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemberri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you everyone for your welcome and advice.
I did email him and finally got my closure.
I actually feel much better
Thank you all for your help!

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ScorpieScorp
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posted February 08, 2014 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpieScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I had this with my ex. The soul connection we had was indescribable....we have both moved on--but I think of him almost every day. I feel like I lost a piece of my soul...

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lalalinda
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posted February 09, 2014 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Gemberri! welcome to LL

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