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Topic: i swear it's not you or me it's the aspects
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REVOLUTION21 Knowflake Posts: 197 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 04, 2014 09:12 PM
can anyone relate to this?my sun, mercury, venus, and pluto just happens to be in my new friend's 1st house. he always avoids me though and holds back a lot because he says i make him feel stupid. he feels inferior in my presence. i don't even say much either, but he feels unworthy and that i'm always out doing him. he also says i know too much about him and even things he doesn't know yet about himself. i can see what he means tho. it's really easy for me to put him on blast, but i rarely do that. i mean, why would i? it's not my fault. it's the dang aspects! i mean, my venus is in his 1st house, that's supposed to be a good thing. i find him highly attractive, however i end up making him feel like garbage. what... IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 497 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 05, 2014 09:37 AM
Maybe he is not confident with his AC traits, and since your planets falls on his 1st house, he might see the traits he identifies with in you, but in a stronger version (specially if those energies manifests positively), so that it makes him feel inferior. If so then he might have to work with self confidence. Maybe you can help him by pointing out the strong positive traits in him so that he can see that you don't see him as inferior? Also, are there any Saturn hard aspects in your synastry?IP: Logged | |