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posted February 08, 2014 02:06 PM            

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I'm sorry Plutomerc!!! That does sound hard! Don't forget doing dumb immature things is part of the learning and growing process, so don't be to hard on yourself...making mistakes is part of growing, without them we would be perfect....perfection isn't human!
Our human experience requires mistakes so we can learn from them!
Mistakes are your friend, my friend! Lol

--I agree with this, everyone makes mistakes (dumb or otherwise) in their lives. I think the difference is some people learn not to let it bother them. I unfortunately tend to dwell on my stupid mistakes which doesn't help.

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I agree with you , I am the same , very hard on myself especially If I keep making the same mistake over and over again but we have to learn to let go.

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posted February 08, 2014 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Dumb immature things!? You called!

I did my fair share of those. Luckily I have a terrible memory. What are the aspects for a terrible memory?

Anyway, Gabby is wise. Listen to her. We all make mistakes at least you're aware of them. Some people keep making the same ones over and over.

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Ya, those are the real idiots...I make a habit of making fun of them! Lol
Playing!!
I spent the 1st nearly 30 years of my life making the same mistakes over and over again! Yes, I do make fun of myself to!
Eventually you get it, judgement is the cruelest thing you can do! If our purpose is to learn, why would you judge the process? If your baking a cake and your mixing the batter....it's not pretty, it's not a perfect cake...yet! Do you think worse of it and want to throw it out or do you realize getting to the pretty part is a process and continue on?
You will have something your proud of soon enough, if you don't beat yourself up so much that you prolong your healing by refusing to love to respect yourself!

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posted February 08, 2014 02:15 PM            

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Huh?? You talking to me?
(looks around). LOL.

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Lol!!

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posted February 08, 2014 02:22 PM            

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Am I the only one here who looks prettier when crying than smiling with teeth?

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posted February 08, 2014 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Am I the only one here who looks prettier while crying that smiling widely?

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Are you suggesting us post pictures crying? Lol
I look terrible crying!

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posted February 08, 2014 02:42 PM            

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plutomercjup20:
I agree with you , I am the same , very hard on myself especially If I keep making the same mistake over and over again but we have to learn to let go.

--Exactly, what does it accomplish keep beating ourselves up over very human mistakes. As long as we learn and stop making them then we're good.

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posted February 08, 2014 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
plutomercjup20:
I agree with you , I am the same , very hard on myself especially If I keep making the same mistake over and over again but we have to learn to let go.

--Exactly, what does it accomplish keep beating ourselves up over very human mistakes. As long as we learn and stop making them then we're good.

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Even if you do make them over and over, it's still ok! It's just showing a lesson that is getting deeper into your core, probably not an issue that was learned in this life or the last few lives...your probably dealing with an issue that goes very deep into your souls journey...could be something you've struggled with a thousand years!
That's why it's best to just let it happen without labeling or judging yourself. We are dealing with much more than what we realize on the surface, our humanity is getting closer to growing out of the need for pain to help us grow...so we are all reaching deeper and clearing out the old stubborn emotional stuff that blocks our growth and evolution!
This is a tough time for us, we know we need to get unblocked so that our purer energy can flow through us but we still are struggling with our past hurts...I think we expect to much of ourselves because we can feel or sense something big is about to happen. Being human we think in terms of human life and time...we can unconsciously get panicky sensing this and maybe fearing we won't be ready in time.
What we sense is about to happen isn't going to happen in terms of human time, 100 years or so, it's our souls time frame that needs to be respected. We have plenty of time to get it in the time/life/lives we have left to live here on earth. Plus we are all graduating together. Nobody will be left behind, if there is one that's struggling the others will invest their energy to help. As some grow and their energy vibration raises and becomes clearer it helps others because they are clearing a path that makes it easier for others to see how to clear their own energy. We are connected in that way, one person can affect many and then it's a domino affect that makes it easier for all who are following. The clearer our energy becomes the more easily we can love each other and ourselves!
That's just my opinion though......

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posted February 08, 2014 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
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It's just agony leaving my picture up. Sorry if anyone missed it, maybe next time.

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I missed it again, dammit!

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posted February 08, 2014 08:27 PM            

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Thanks for being curious, though, Violets!

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posted February 08, 2014 11:22 PM            

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i see the theme of saturnian people...

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posted February 08, 2014 11:43 PM            

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I look awful in pics...there are a few I look good but for most part hate them! I have aquarius ASC

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posted February 08, 2014 11:51 PM              

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the art of avoiding ugly candid pictures is make silly faces because you can't even say OH I LOOK UGLY cause you look stupid anyways.

LOL no that isn't me maybe in like middle school thou :P

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posted February 09, 2014 05:55 AM            

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Lol....that's a beautiful picture!
I adore the polka dot pj's in the background!!! It makes me want to curl up it bed and go to sleep! Mmmmmm, sleep!

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posted February 09, 2014 06:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

the art of avoiding ugly candid pictures is make silly faces because you can't even say OH I LOOK UGLY cause you look stupid anyways.

LOL no that isn't me maybe in like middle school thou :P

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That's an interesting technique. I make the same exact "camera" face in all my pics. I should try your suggestion next time.

I'm diggn' the girl in the backgroud's polka dotted pants!

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posted February 09, 2014 07:35 AM            

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I hate having my picture taken! I am not photogenic at all. My pics always turn out bad.. I go from slightly above average looking to ugly when my pic is taken. I have aquarius rising conjunct venus squaring pluto and taurus moon in the 3rd. I feel its related to my sun in the 12th conjunct Saturn though. Another factor is probably Aspergers Syndrome, but thats not on topic. Lol but seriously though i saw a pic thread on an autism forum and none of the people were photogenic.

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posted February 09, 2014 05:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Even if you do make them over and over, it's still ok! It's just showing a lesson that is getting deeper into your core, probably not an issue that was learned in this life or the last few lives...your probably dealing with an issue that goes very deep into your souls journey...could be something you've struggled with a thousand years!
That's why it's best to just let it happen without labeling or judging yourself. We are dealing with much more than what we realize on the surface, our humanity is getting closer to growing out of the need for pain to help us grow...so we are all reaching deeper and clearing out the old stubborn emotional stuff that blocks our growth and evolution!
This is a tough time for us, we know we need to get unblocked so that our purer energy can flow through us but we still are struggling with our past hurts...I think we expect to much of ourselves because we can feel or sense something big is about to happen. Being human we think in terms of human life and time...we can unconsciously get panicky sensing this and maybe fearing we won't be ready in time.
What we sense is about to happen isn't going to happen in terms of human time, 100 years or so, it's our souls time frame that needs to be respected. We have plenty of time to get it in the time/life/lives we have left to live here on earth. Plus we are all graduating together. Nobody will be left behind, if there is one that's struggling the others will invest their energy to help. As some grow and their energy vibration raises and becomes clearer it helps others because they are clearing a path that makes it easier for others to see how to clear their own energy. We are connected in that way, one person can affect many and then it's a domino affect that makes it easier for all who are following. The clearer our energy becomes the more easily we can love each other and ourselves!
That's just my opinion though......

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That's a really beautiful and encouraging way to look at it Gabby, thanks for writing that. Gave me goosebumps all over. Been needing a positive vision lately.
Also meant to say a couple days ago but got sidetracked, you are my friend Sheena's doppleganger haha

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posted February 14, 2014 04:39 PM            

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Gemini ASC, opposition Neptune. Virgo Moon in the 4th. I really, really, really hate having my photo taken. I can't stand seeing myself in one.

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posted February 14, 2014 05:30 PM            

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I could have SWORN I was the only one ...

Gemini ASC, conjunct Venus trine Uranus, Opposite Pluto, Semi-square Sun (if that counts hahaha)

Sagittarius Moon in 7th house

Because I think the aspects should be in Bold if you were to be able to find a pattern

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posted February 15, 2014 07:13 AM            

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I know one guy wth Scorpio rising and pluto in 1st house and he hates his picture taken lol

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posted February 15, 2014 05:44 PM            

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I'd rather be filmed than photograph. I photograph terribly. I can take decent pictures when I take them but that's bc I know I look awful awful awful in flash photography.

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posted February 15, 2014 05:44 PM            

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I'd rather be filmed than photograph. I photograph terribly. I can take decent pictures when I take them but that's bc I know I look awful awful awful in flash photography.

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