posted February 09, 2014 02:42 PM            

What planets do you have conjunct the DSC/in the 7H? What does Saturn do?

posted February 09, 2014 02:56 PM            

I think if it's a party there, you wouldn't want more planets in there. I'm not sure why it doesn't work. Glad you brought it up.

posted February 09, 2014 02:57 PM            

Well, I'm not sure what's the common denominator, here.

posted February 09, 2014 03:35 PM            

Then again, I have five squares to my Descendant. Then Vertex here, too, which also gets a square from my Moon and Chiron. Grew up with a mother who has a 4-planet Aries stellium falling into my 7th, plus Moon conj. Mars. Dad has Sun square Mars. Neither beats around the bush and they're both pretty impatient. I'm used to it.

Aries challenges me, but in a good way. I'm quite shy myself, so someone who makes the first move, breaking the ice suits me very well. They bring out a more feisty, spontaneous side in me and I appreciate that. I feel more sorry for the squares they get from my chart.

This is all about friends, acquaintances, family, etc. Just realized I've only been with one guy who had Aries planets. His Mars was on my DSC exact and he was a bit much for me. I had to held off and easily felt overwhelmed at first, especially with how hard he chased me at first. So, yeah, I'll report back to you when I have more experience with Aries and relationships!

posted February 09, 2014 04:18 PM            

Then with Aries, they're so obviously there I can't possibly get around them. Whether I do it in the Aries way (my rejected traits) or Libra, who will assert themselves to keep things equal, I have to deal. I'm nearly always attracted to people who square some of my planets, because my own chart is so difficult. They're not for everyone (I imagine you'd prefer some trines with your Taurus placements), but they're just my thing.

posted February 09, 2014 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I'm pretty sure I mentioned this in the other thread, but what happens with 7H synastry is that the planet person sometimes seems to embody our "shadow side" and that's where the uncomfortable / competitive feelings may come from. It's like they inherently have something we don't, or project some of our unconscious / repressed traits... which can of course be negative, or which we can envy. So it's a weird dynamic - being attracted by what we lack (or think / feel we lack) but at the same time, feeling threatened in a way, because of the subtle "I" vs. "not I" feeling.

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That was beautiful. You really nailed it there.

posted February 09, 2014 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Ah ive just read your second half- I suppose a mars-dsc dw would be intense then? I potentially have this with someone actually. Ahaha thank you- I will keep looking into it too- with cappys!

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Wow, that sounds intense. Definitely like something you'd notice! Never had this myself, so I can only guess. Do you feel more energetic around them, like just being around them gives you this boost? Or do you feel the negatives more, like... Cap is pretty to the point as well, they don't like to waste any time, maybe you're feeling that?

posted February 09, 2014 06:19 PM            

Generally, I like Aqua people, and find them witty and entertaining (although I confess that occasionally I'll come across one who's the certifiable genius-type Aqua, and they make me feel kind of inferior). But mostly I enjoy their company, and don't feel too competitive with them. Maybe a small level at first, but it goes away really quickly.

posted February 09, 2014 07:48 PM            

But I don't seem to have that issue with female Aqua Suns?

My husband's Aqua Mars is conjunct my DSC and Mercury, but then so is his North Node...so we're probably a little competitive with each other (but then, he's also a Leo Sun, and I have Leo ASC conjunct his Sun), but also really loving most of the time.