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Topic: Attracting men with questionable intentions...
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 502
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 10, 2014 04:10 PM
  
Is this a mars opposite Neptune natal thing? Men who are attracted to me always seem vague and they never let me know their true intentions, i try and be as clear as possible, but they don't reveal much of themselves. This comes across as creepy, like they are hiding some secret. I've noticed some, had secretive abusive fantasies towards me (creepy) or even had killing fantasies but obv sane enough to not carry that out. Im also pretty easily deceived, so i have to watchout in the future. My mars trines Pluto and sun semisextile Pluto, Saturn conjunct Venus. I don't have any of the stereotypical "attracting stalkers" aspects like Venus/Neptune Pluto/Venus. I honestly have a confusing relationship with men. I'm beginning to think it is the sun/Pluto aspect? It is the strongest aspect in my chart. Anyone else feel similar? I think with mars/Neptune it's hard for me to see men clearly. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7418
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 10, 2014 04:14 PM
Beware of deception.IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 6825
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 10, 2014 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I've noticed some, had secretive abusive fantasies towards me (creepy) or even had killing fantasies but obv sane enough to not carry that out.
WTF? Did you call the police? I have Mars opposing Neptune, in a t-square with my moon. My romantic life has had some serious low points but never anything like that. If you are prone to attracting dangerous people, then please consider becoming more evasive yourself, not "as clear as possible" until they are replying clearly and earning your trust.
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babybull82
Knowflake Posts: 72
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 10, 2014 07:59 PM
I have all of this loveliness natally:
Venus square Neptune
Moon square Neptune
Mars square NeptuneTry living in my world  I think I'm just going to avoid dating any guys born in the early 80s and just stick to the mid to late 70s for my men lol
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8784
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 10, 2014 08:16 PM
Planets don't have genders lol.
I would be more worried about venus ATTRACTING deceivers.
Mars like the sun is more about ego and self.
What you do! etc
I have mars square neptune and I really see this reflected in me more than others. IP: Logged |
babybull82
Knowflake Posts: 72
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 10, 2014 10:59 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Planets don't have genders lol.
I would be more worried about venus ATTRACTING deceivers.
Mars like the sun is more about ego and self.
What you do! etc
I have mars square neptune and I really see this reflected in me more than others.
Well of course planets don't have genders, but I found that if I avoid men born around the same year or a few yrs before or after me I won't run into those pesky Neptune aspects in synastry. I'm really beginning to hate this planet. Oh and lucky me it's transiting my 7th house which just compounds it. You'd think it go a little easier on me given it's "at home" in my 7th house since it's in Pisces..but NOPE! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8784
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 10, 2014 11:21 PM
Idk but really with outer planets and personal planetsYou project yourself to a generation! Things like jealousy, bullying, etc
can all be defeated if you use retrospection. See what you are doing to attract these people?
As much as we like to think we are victims it's really a two way streak.
I've avoid jealousy and bullying because I identified my problem.
I think it's kinda beautiful to have aspects from outer planets because it's a great way to connect with your generation in a positive way too,
A lot of actors have sun or mars opp/square neptune.
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vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1659
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 10, 2014 11:25 PM
Okay from experience, if a woman has a solid ground and clear boundaries no man can be vague with her.IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 838
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 11, 2014 08:59 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Is this a mars opposite Neptune natal thing? Men who are attracted to me always seem vague and they never let me know their true intentions, i try and be as clear as possible, but they don't reveal much of themselves. This comes across as creepy, like they are hiding some secret. I've noticed some, had secretive abusive fantasies towards me (creepy) or even had killing fantasies but obv sane enough to not carry that out. Im also pretty easily deceived, so i have to watchout in the future. My mars trines Pluto and sun semisextile Pluto, Saturn conjunct Venus. I don't have any of the stereotypical "attracting stalkers" aspects like Venus/Neptune Pluto/Venus. I honestly have a confusing relationship with men. I'm beginning to think it is the sun/Pluto aspect? It is the strongest aspect in my chart. Anyone else feel similar? I think with mars/Neptune it's hard for me to see men clearly.
Mars opposite Neptune is def all about this. You may be drawn to or attract men that are not what they seem; they can be secretive, deceptive, liars and "takers". Or, on the flip side, there is also a likelihood to attract very artistic men, those who seem to create "magic" where they are and are truly magnetic. Venus conjunct Saturn may help to keep your feelings at bay and notice subtleties that are suspicious but if it's creepy men that you attract, it is likely the Mars/Neptune opposition.
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 502
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 09:39 AM
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Mars opposite Neptune is def all about this. You may be drawn to or attract men that are not what they seem; they can be secretive, deceptive, liars and "takers".Or, on the flip side, there is also a likelihood to attract very artistic men, those who seem to create "magic" where they are and are truly magnetic. Venus conjunct Saturn may help to keep your feelings at bay and notice subtleties that are suspicious but if it's creepy men that you attract, it is likely the Mars/Neptune opposition.
Yes this is definitely true, Im attracted to artistic men, I've dated musicians and men who are badboys or seen as "different" in some way, or not completely understood by society. I find scorpios and pisces with uranus placements very attractive (mars in cancer) (aqua Venus) But then they start getting creepy because I don't know what they want from me, especially if they are a water sign with keeping secrets ect. I think I'm unlucky because I always choose the wrong one and then get upset when I realise who they really are. My tastes in men are terrible, I think I'm stuck with a teenage girl mentality of choosing the tragic/handsome artist/musician who needs saving but then turns out to be a psychopath. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7418
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 11, 2014 11:40 AM
Find a philosopher/geek instead.IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1484
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 11, 2014 11:50 AM
I have Mars sq Neptune but also Venus sq Uranus so I give as good as I get. And vice versa.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8485
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2014 05:13 PM
From what i have seen (and in my own personal experience) people tend to hear what they want to hear and see what they want to see when it comes to people they are attracted to. Don't do this.... When they do or say something you dont like or doesnt feel right , take notice of it and deal with! People will tell you alot about themselves if you just listen. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8485
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2014 05:23 PM
When relationships suddenly go south you can be shocked and think "what the f*ck happened?" But 9 times out of 10 there were tons of red flags that the issues were coming , but people choose to ignore them. I used to get really angry at women who go for bad boys because they were obviously tools who were going to end up cheating or lying to the women, but then i realized this is something everyone does. It is usually obvious to everyone but the person who is smitten at the time. People need to take off their blinders when it comes to their love interest and pay attention to what they are really saying and doing. IP: Logged |
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