posted February 10, 2014 05:05 PM            

In the last 3 relationships I've had, I noticed the day we broke-up, had a fight and then broke up, I was having some Mars-Pluto transit. The first one was my ex of 6 almost 7yrs, the father of my children. My Pluto was squaring mars, I mean there were other factors too, but I think that day I had just had enough of his $h*t talking and bit back thus starting an argument. He threatened me loud enough for the neighbors to hear him and they called the cops & he went to jail. For me that was the day we were officially through.

The second one was last April, my Pluto was opposing mars (also opposing my sun as well). I'd say that one was the worst because I got physically violent and of course he responded in kind. Needless to say we were done as soon as the door hit his butt as he was leaving.

The third one which just happened on Saturday my Pluto is conjuncting Mars. I'm finding this ending was the more tamer of the two. I got angry and said some harsh words, but no screaming and definitely no hitting or any of that mess.

I know that the negative aspects of Mars/Pluto transits for women represent a power struggle with the men in their life. I mean so every time this transit pops up and it's an harsh aspect am I just always doomed to break up and have fights with the men in my life? My theory is that since my Mars is in Libra speaking up about the way things are in the relationship that irritate me is next to impossible normally. But perhaps during one of these transits I feel the courage to speak up?