posted February 10, 2014 08:02 PM            

I think the whole chart plays a role in this.

It depends on:

1) how the person sees themselves (level of self-confidence, for example)
2) what they want from you
3) other factors that can alter / interfere with their decision to pursue you (or not)

So just by looking at someone's Venus or Mars sign... You'll probably only get a tiny bit of information.

From what I've noticed, generally speaking, at the beginning of a relationship, we use our Venus to charm, seduce, and attract (the Moon can be part of the process as well, especially if it's connected to the relationship houses - 5th, 7th and 8th). Then Mars comes into play and things can become very different... In this case, Venus in Scorpio can appear to be very focused on you, intensely interested and invested... and then when they actually show more of themselves and how they "operate", you'll see a more detached and "friendly' type of vibe - more easy-going or independent maybe (depending on other things of course).