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Topic: love horary, need help
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pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 02:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: I am with Doux on this one. As long as you're both Rx, there's nothing clear. Hang in there hun! I think you will hear some news from a woman in around a day or so after you asked.
just an up date...no news from a woman or man or .... yet Hera ..no real changes, so can this horary be wrong? IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 13, 2014 02:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: 2 nights ago he tried to phone me after some 10 days of my silence and because i refused he turned to cruel, angry and cut all off..
Out of curiosity, why did you not want to speak to him? Regardless of the astrology aspects involved, men absolutely HATE rejection, especially as it had probably took some courage for him to break the ice. IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 02:48 AM
Jo B ...I was boozed i had some wine in my blood and did not want to speak with him like that)...also, he is a Scorpionic guy who was doing this to me in the past, not answering my messages ( always reading though), and i turned the page and treated him with his own medicine, giong silent, away, till he comes back..I hope you understandactually since i started doing the same he was doing everything went better..i mean it was more balanced then when i was running after him like crazy and he was running away after he made me running...but i guess that night it was ways too much for his ego to handle.. IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 02:57 AM
fuxx! it sounds hilarious i know but passion and being in love like crazy is hard thing to handle well..at least in the first stages. the brain is like mash potato and the heart very vulnerable and scared. IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 13, 2014 03:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: actually since i started doing the same he was doing everything went better..i mean it was more balanced then when i was running after him like crazy and he was running away after he made me running..
Well that's just a normal thing for a guy to do. lol. If you back off yourself, essentially mirroring what you feel they are doing to YOU, then chances are they will pursue you again (if of course they are genuinely into you).  I'm not great at astrology, but I sense with you you obviously have a strong pull towards each other, passionate feelings and all that. Maybe it's best (although I know it's difficult) to give each other space for a while and just let things ride for a bit. Talking astrologically, if he's a typical Scorpio he will be stubborn but somewhat loyal in his feelings - I think the sting is just a self-defence mechanism for them. I'm sort of going through that too with a Scorpio guy. All I do know is that no amount of trying to change them (or their minds) is going to have any effect whatsoever. lol. Don't worry about a second woman being involved either or you'll just drive yourself round the bend! What will be will be.  IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 03:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jo B: Well that's just a normal thing for a guy to do. lol. If you back off yourself, essentially mirroring what you feel they are doing to YOU, then chances are they will pursue you again (if of course they are genuinely into you).  I'm not great at astrology, but I sense with you you obviously have a strong pull towards each other, passionate feelings and all that. Maybe it's best (although I know it's difficult) to give each other space for a while and just let things ride for a bit. Talking astrologically, if he's a typical Scorpio he will be stubborn but somewhat loyal in his feelings - I think the sting is just a self-defence mechanism for them. I'm sort of going through that too with a Scorpio guy. All I do know is that no amount of trying to change them (or their minds) is going to have any effect whatsoever. lol. Don't worry about a second woman being involved either or you'll just drive yourself round the bend! What will be will be. 
ahaha Jo!! If you struggle with a Scorpio guy then you know exactly what I am experiencing with my Libra Sun, Scorpio rising, Venus, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio guy... I was never patient in my life but with him i made a Doctor degree! cos that was the only way for me to dont freak totally and fall bleeding on the floor..Patience made me stand proud, still with a wound though but at least with dignity they try to take so hard from the one they are involved with...you can take a look at our synastry if you want dear..I posted it in the PR forum under LOVE ah that LOVE.. I think he iced me out of everything just in attempt to get some power, he thought he lost, back...Scorpio sting auch! I hope he feels the pain also though and would regret..but forgive? I dont have a clue if he can and that drives me nuts... That thing about another possible woman did not even cross my mind before but since i heard its possible well...yeah! it freaks me big time! IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 13, 2014 04:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: If you struggle with a Scorpio guy then you know exactly what I am experiencing with my Libra Sun, Scorpio rising, Venus, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio guy...
Maybe it's your Libra sun wanting justice and balance, and he's just not giving it (or doesn't feel like giving it when he senses you are demanding it! lol). I know it's frustrating, but that's just the way Scorpios roll! haha Your Scorpio AC might mean on the surface you try to be as stubborn and retaliatory as he is, but it's not really YOU, underneath you just want everything to go smoothly (Libra sun again).  I will take a look at your charts a bit later. Must go to bed now! lol
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pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 04:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jo B: Maybe it's your Libra sun wanting justice and balance, and he's just not giving it (or doesn't feel like giving it when he senses you are demanding it! lol). I know it's frustrating, but that's just the way Scorpios roll! haha Your Scorpio AC might mean on the surface you try to be as stubborn and retaliatory as he is, but it's not really YOU, underneath you just want everything to go smoothly (Libra sun again).  I will take a look at your charts a bit later. Must go to bed now! lol
Yes, better look at the chart I am Taurus rising ( horns ) and Scorpio DC, Gemini Sun...He is Libra Sun, Scorpio rising, Venus, Mars Scorpion...My venus, Mars are in Cancer ..Good night dear Jo, sleep well and do not forget me *
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Jo B Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 13, 2014 04:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: Yes, better look at the chart I am Taurus rising ( horns ) and Scorpio DC, Gemini Sun...He is Libra Sun, Scorpio rising, Venus, Mars Scorpion...My venus, Mars are in Cancer ..Good night dear Jo, sleep well and do not forget me *
Oh I obviously misread or misunderstood, thought he was a Scorpio Sun! lol. I guess the tiredness is affecting my brain. Hey don't worry about everything, it sounds like you care very much about him despite your differences/conflicts and I'm sure he feels the same (otherwise he wouldn't have contacted you), he's probably a bit confused by you right now and obviously hurt that you dissed him. Maybe a bit further down the road you can reestablish contact. I think it's important to tell someone how their ACTIONS make you feel though rather than criticize them on a personal level.
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EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6117 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 04:58 AM
Hey Pocaloca,I did a Tarot reading asking how he feels about you now. He still has feelings for you, and right now it seems like there is a lack of interest in general (the present status of the relationship as of now). I don't see a break up and it currently doesn't even feel like a break up. I can usually pick up on it at first, and it doesn't seem to be the case here. I also do not see any other women in his surroundings. He still has feelings for you, but it seems he is stressed out. And how does travel apply to you two? He's still "going over" his feelings for you. Sometimes he feels like things between you two are a bit immature and/or childish. I see him "unblocking" you before these next 3 months, which means it can be as early as tomorrow, or as late as May (I don't think it will take this long for you two to communicate again though). It looks like you two will be on good terms again. So it can happen any day between tomorrow and before the month of May. I hope that is clear for you. Good luck xox ------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant Anaisa Pye Maitresse Erzulie Freda Ogun Balenyo San Miguel Belie Belcan Santa Marta La Dominadora LA COLORA IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 05:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Hey Pocaloca,I did a Tarot reading asking how he feels about you now. He still has feelings for you, and right now it seems like there is a lack of interest in general (the present status of the relationship as of now). I don't see a break up and it currently doesn't even feel like a break up. I can usually pick up on it at first, and it doesn't seem to be the case here. I also do not see any other women in his surroundings. He still has feelings for you, but it seems he is stressed out. And how does travel apply to you two? He's still "going over" his feelings for you. Sometimes he feels like things between you two are a bit immature and/or childish. I see him "unblocking" you before these next 3 months, which means it can be as early as tomorrow, or as late as May (I don't think it will take this long for you two to communicate again though). It looks like you two will be on good terms again. So it can happen any day between tomorrow and before the month of May. I hope that is clear for you. Good luck xox
!! YEAHHHHHH! Thank you so, so, so much! I really hope that this was a challenge we need to overcome in order to step to a next, better level... Travel?? well! He lives in another country and travels a lot in general...I actually think that he planed to come on the 14. valentines to me finally, thats why he tried to call like crazy..I guess, i thought, but i cant be sure although he mentioned february an coming to me earlier ...maybe thats why he freaked like that also... Empress and all others who try hard to help me in this difficult time, I would keep you up dated of course! and I sand you all LOVE from the bottom of my heart ** I feel a bit better now...at least some hope 
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EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6117 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 10:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: !! YEAHHHHHH!Thank you so, so, so much! I really hope that this was a challenge we need to overcome in order to step to a next, better level... Travel?? well! He lives in another country and travels a lot in general...I actually think that he planed to come on the 14. valentines to me finally, thats why he tried to call like crazy..I guess, i thought, but i cant be sure although he mentioned february an coming to me earlier ...maybe thats why he freaked like that also... Empress and all others who try hard to help me in this difficult time, I would keep you up dated of course! and I sand you all LOVE from the bottom of my heart ** I feel a bit better now...at least some hope 
------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant Anaisa Pye Maitresse Erzulie Freda Ogun Balenyo San Miguel Belie Belcan Santa Marta La Dominadora LA COLORA IP: Logged | |