posted February 11, 2014 11:28 AM            

Honestly though, and this might be be the Fire in me talking, but I would just simply ask him. Now that you will live in same area tell him that you love him and that you wonīt disappear. His answer will tell you everything you need to know.

posted February 11, 2014 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by witchey:
I suspect I have my answer, if he was into me I would hear from him. ok I will do so. Thank you for your time.

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posted February 11, 2014 11:47 AM            

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......yes thank you, asking is better than wondering, I just asked him and received a reply......he intends to do business....ha, there you go.

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posted February 12, 2014 02:33 AM            

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Hello there, I am a new member here, I've read some posts here on your forum, I was actually googling for information and this forum consistently came up. I decided to join this forum in seek of information please. I am female dob July 7/64, talking to a male dob Jan 1/62, I may be off a year on his, I haven't asked, I've known this man since highschool, our paths have always crossed throughout growing up, and recently started talking in 2008, I believe he was interested in me, however I left several times when he got close, we have recently started talking again since 2008, he has contacted me in another country.......he does not say a lot, he has said he loves me and I know I love him, we haven't seen each other in 20 years, this is brief history......he just told me a day ago he is moving to the area I live, he also said not to disappear again, he doesn't say anything else.....I am left with what does this man want from me, I asked him last year he said friendship, I left again.....this year it seems he has said his most, yet I do not hear from him unless I write to him and initiate some sort of communication in which he replys right back.......my question is, does anybody know what is going on with him? Any answers or insight to us/this relationship would be greatly appreciated, I have read Cancer and Capricorn is not a great match and other readings have said polar opposites a good match. Is this appropriate to even ask of you? Clarity, just a bit of clarity with this man would be nice.......sincerely, thank you.

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I'm a Cap and your story sounds all too familiar... I was basically in love with a Cancer who I knew for many years but there were usually obstacles like we lived in different places or were seeing different people so we could only be friends. It felt meant to be but when it came down to it neither of us could open up in the right way

I think Cancers and Caps both have our ways of "testing" people to make sure a situation is stable before jumping in, and when he tried to get close and you left or disappeared it probably really hurt him and he became closed off when you asked what he wants.. Which is stupid cause in love you have to be vulnerable and take the risk of being hurt. But that's how Caps are, we take things slow and need to know we can trust someone just as much as Cancers do. It's kind of our worst fear actually for someone we're serious about to just bail with no explanation. So I always wondered... what's up with the disappearing? Did you want him to chase you? Or just be there when you came back? Cause that's understandable but Caps will interpret it totally differently...

posted February 12, 2014 07:45 AM            

It might be easier if you profess your feelings entirely to him and get the final answer and move on for good.