posted February 15, 2014 09:57 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
n he has a temper. sudden outbursts that confuses me. Im letting it slide for now.
Asc Taurus u been exceptionally helpful. can i trouble u with few questions?if u could it would help me to plan few things. if it shows in his chart what i wanna know is
1. if he were to inherit money will he use it wisely or will he throw it all away?
2.i dont see a great attachment to his dad from my sons side. He doesnt see his dad often cuz if his dads busy schedule.
3. Would he appreciate a luxurious life now or would he rather have it simple n comfortable. which would suit him better? He has already started to ask queastions like whose house is this?Who bought this? He seems very materialistic.
i know the third question is very dumb but i dont associate security with wealth. Trying to understand what life style would suit him better so he appreciates hardwork n authority.
Thank u AscTaurus for taking time n sharing your knowledge. U have helped a complete stranger esp about someone very close to heart. A BIG Thank you.
Well, to be honest, I can't say actually.
1.Will he be a wise spender? Well, the position of Venus in the 7th house suggests that would be the case, if he sought wise council when it came to these affairs.
In other words, he is likely to weigh decisions and have a sounding board before taking action.
But , I think its also worthwhile to note the ruler of the 2nd house as it may shed light into how he handles money,self worth and security.
Firstly, the sign of Gemini is on the cusp of the 2nd house. This suggests that he is likely to have more than one job or can spend his money on multiple investment ventures.He always has money on his mind.
Gemini is also a changeable sign and one of intellect. He may prefer making money through "ingenious" ways that may/may not work out.He may enthusiastically gamble with it.
Now the ruler of the second house is Mercury and it aspects Mars and Pluto by conjunction.Do you see where this leads?
It may suggest someone who gets obsessed(Pluto and Mars are conjunct) and consumed by issues related to money, self worth, spending , personal wealth, security etc.
He will quickly understand the value and worth of things and will understand the power that money has and can afford him.
2.The relationship with Dad is indicated by the Moon forming a wide square with Saturn.
In fact, I'd go as far as to say that this wide opposition influences what he thinks of authority-Saturn- and not necessarily of the individual party per se.
Saturn in Libra suggests that he is expected, by Mom/Dad or both, to behave courteously, to have manners and practice emotional restraint and be generally pleasant.
His Moon in Aries 12th,however, is anything but pleasant.It wants to freely express emotion, vent, curse, say what it feels and act in accordance to its own stimuli. He will always insist upon complete autonomy.
This is further compounded by the MC ruler squaring the Moon as well as the Moon(the ruler of the IC) squaring the IC itself!!
He may feel traditions, obeying rules, following order as an imposition to his own will. He will be resistant.
But as the Moon is in 12th, the resistance will be more passive aggressive and irregularly expressed.
Even if the Dad was present in the household, he would see his authority over him as an "imposition". There would be disagreements and resistance.
The challenge here may be to make him understand that authority is not there to "box" or frustrate him, but assist in holding boundaries. He can't achieve much if he steps on everyone toes- people that can help him achieve things he wishes to achieve.
3.Would he appreciate a luxurious life? Which child wouldn't lol.
I think the key here is to raise him to be able to understand what happiness is and how material wealth doesn't necessarily mean that happiness is guaranteed.
He has a very strong fighting spirit but can be very emotionally disconnected at times: feeling that people are getting in his way when they are really trying to protect him.
Watch for the Venus in 7th house as the chart ruler(once again). He seeks counsel often in his life.
If he doesn't develop an ability to sort the ones who wish him well from those who wish him harm, he may end up being influenced by the wrong people and associating with the wrong crowd.
Good Luck!