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Topic: Venus Opposite Mars Synastry
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LuckyStar Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Elysian Fields Registered: Oct 2013
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posted February 12, 2014 05:34 PM
Looking for some seasoned astrologers to help me understand this dynamic. Also,anyone who has experienced this first hand please tell me your story.Story goes like this...girl and guy know each other for years kind of always stealing glances- both sides. On day girl and guy become close friends. Guy overwhelms girl with pouring on the charm. Girl is very loving and a warm friend back (no sex). A year later, no fight no argument but boy and girl hate each other but want each other at the same time. Very weird feel. Girl's Venus 14 degree sag opposite boys mars Gemini 15. Boy's Venus 0 degree Gemini opposite girls mars scorpio 29. He is driving me mad! All I do is try to avoid him, when I am in his presence (which I seldom am) I am overwrought with anger. He's mad at me too but I don't know why. I am mad at him because he is mad at me. Yes, makes absolutely no sense at all....that's why I need your wisdom.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 7559 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 12, 2014 07:41 PM
Could be due to emotional/ physical frustration? Maybe you're both into each other but given that neither of you makes a move, you're both frustrated and hence, angry at each other.Venus/Mars opposition usually indicates attraction but there's definitely potential for some resentment and anger. I've seen it play out that way many times. IP: Logged |
LuckyStar Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Elysian Fields Registered: Oct 2013
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posted February 12, 2014 08:22 PM
Being a double whammy and orbs so close makes it really challenging. Any thoughts on that? I wonder if we will look at each other with anger always or will it turn back. I'm angry because we were friends and then he disappeared, so I refuse to make the first move to bring him back. The last move I made was a gift of homemade cookies at Christmas.IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1146 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 11:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Could be due to emotional/ physical frustration? Maybe you're both into each other but given that neither of you makes a move, you're both frustrated and hence, angry at each other.Venus/Mars opposition usually indicates attraction but there's definitely potential for some resentment and anger. I've seen it play out that way many times.
Doux is seriously spot on with this aspect lol. This is EXACTLY what happens all. the. time. at least in my experience. I just recently encountered someone with whom I have this aspect in the composite and I also had this in synastry before with someone else and the love/hate theme definitely comes out if you can't satisfy the physical/emotional (but mostly physical imo lol) desire this aspect creates. This aspect makes me think of a angry s*x or argue in order to have make-up s*x kind of relationship interplay. IP: Logged |