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Topic: Ok, I am getting major sh1t for this...
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1501
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 03:02 PM
  
and it may or may not be justified. I can live ALL my relationships through txts and emails and if possible, I would rather skip social engagements all together EXCEPT the ones that involve me dancing, alone, surrounded by people. Of course my friends and family do not understand this and try to force me to talk on phone or interact which only makes me more withdrawn. I am thinking my progressive Virgo stellium in 12H all square Neptune might cause this? Or what else can it be?? IP: Logged |
ameliamei
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: Ny, USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 03:10 PM
Charlie--
I feel the same. I'm an Aqua with a Cap Stellium. I think it has a lot to do with your current environment, like where I live-- many people here are very narrow-minded and superficial so instead of conforming, I decided to focus on my own interests, and F*ck the lot of 'em.  I don't think its anti-social, just I know what I want and I don't settle for wasting time on things I don't really enjoy doing.
I've got a Moon pluto aspect that I think makes me look for genuine, deep relationships and I'm not one of those people that constantly calls friends and tell them things, like "OMG I love you I miss you." Unless it's true. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8828
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 03:13 PM
All my friendships are maintained on snapchat
It's so funny because I send the same one to a bunch of people and they all probably think they are special getting cute stuff from me.IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1501
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 03:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ameliamei:
Charlie--
I feel the same. I'm an Aqua with a Cap Stellium. I think it has a lot to do with your current environment, like where I live-- many people here are very narrow-minded and superficial so instead of conforming, I decided to focus on my own interests, and F*ck the lot of 'em. I don't think its anti-social, just I know what I want and I don't settle for wasting time on things I don't really enjoy doing.
I've got a Moon pluto aspect that I think makes me look for genuine, deep relationships and I'm not one of those people that constantly calls friends and tell them things, like "OMG I love you I miss you." Unless it's true.
Hmmm I have a stellium in 11H opposite a Cap Moon and sun and moon are sq pluto...but that I have always had and I feel myself becoming more private and withdrawn and I think itīs because pSun is inches away from entering 12H Virgo from Leo. I might be wrong though. Itīs gotten to the point where if someone talks to me in real life and I donīt like what they are saying I will just stand there, catatonic, and stare, before walking away.
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ameliamei
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: Ny, USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 03:22 PM
I've done that. When I'm supposed to be social but don't feel that way I kind of just drift off mentally or literally walk away and busy myself somehow, onto the next thing if I tire of the conversation....I do get called out on that a lot. I also become more withdrawn or anxious if I am forced to be conversational when I don't feel like it.
I do suspect Pluto may play a part. Any Saturn aspects? IP: Logged |
ameliamei
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: Ny, USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 03:23 PM
Hahah Kerosene, I suppose that's a time saver!IP: Logged |
summerlite
Knowflake Posts: 943
From:
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 03:27 PM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Itīs gotten to the point where if someone talks to me in real life and I donīt like what they are saying I will just stand there, catatonic, and stare, before walking away.
That sounds very Aquarius. Perhaps due to your 11H. IP: Logged |
mercuryflow
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: ElvenForest
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 13, 2014 04:01 PM
i live in a great community, in which i'm really active and have a lot of friends. i like running into people and having things happen spontaneously because i hate making plans. i don't know what i will want to do in an hour from now, so let's not make plans to hang out tomorrow night. and i, like you charlie, prefer to be out dancing, surrounded, yet alone.I cannot, absolutely cannot, talk on the phone. i hate it.
i prefer all communication to happen either in person or on the net. i don't know what my progressed chart looks like, for some reason i have a blockage with learning about that.
but nataly i have 12th house gem sun, and 12th house taurus merc.
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