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Topic: Synastry and sexual chemistry in astrology?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 910
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 16, 2014 11:30 AM
  
Do you think it's possible to have a well-functioning, transforming and stimulating sexual chemistry with your partner if you lack some important mars-aspect in synastry?What if you got all those other nice aspect to your venus like venus-moon, venus-sun and venus-mercury but lack aspect between mars and the personal (and sexual planets) like sun, moon, venus, pluto and jupiter? In our synastry with my guy, we have all the "good" aspects, and we also got venus-mars but I'm mars. And then we have his mars trine my mercury, and my mars conjunction his mercury. But that's about it. No other mars aspect do we got  And while I'm extremely attracted to him sexually and I also think he is with me right NOW, then what happens in the future?
Wouldn't the lack of mars aspect cause some boredom in the bedroom maybe? IP: Logged |
arcturiann
Knowflake Posts: 150
From: Titan
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted February 16, 2014 07:38 PM
Have you checked eachothers lilith in synastry? I mean I guess you would already know if there was attraction at least on your end, but when it comes to sexual chemistry i feel like the only way you will know for sure is to do the deed  . I think the moon-mars quintile is a good sign though.IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 181
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 16, 2014 08:41 PM
I know that If your planets fall in his water or earth houses then he will be very emotionally attached. That could probably indicate longevity. Have you checked if you have any aspects between his 8th and 5th house ruler with your planets? I honestly don't think that because you lack mars aspects with him it will be the end of all passion. Synastry is so complex that a lot of times I have found that with the people I did have passionate aspects with, I sometimes did not feel anything for them. Or if I did feel some passion, it lacked substance because of the lack of sun, moon and venus aspects. So I don't think that one particular aspect is a "one size fits all" sort of thing. At least not all the time. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 910
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 11:00 AM
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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Have you checked eachothers lilith in synastry? I mean I guess you would already know if there was attraction at least on your end, but when it comes to sexual chemistry i feel like the only way you will know for sure is to do the deed . I think the moon-mars quintile is a good sign though.
His lilith in scorpio is sextile my virgo sun with less than a degree, and though it's not listed on astrotheme my libra lilith is conjunct his libra sun with only 3 degrees, so I guess we have plenty of lilith:P I also think we have my lilith trine his gemini mars with only 1 degree, and his lilith sextile my virgo mars with 5 degrees, but I don't know if that counts? It's not that we don't feel attracted to each other right ATM, but I was just thinking about later on... IP: Logged |
jjj
Knowflake Posts: 258
From:
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 17, 2014 03:59 PM
I think that with Lilith conjunctions and oppositions are more important than trines squares etc? Or do these count as well? Orbs must be tight, I think...
Any experiences with Lilith synastry? I am very interested in this one because I experience a very strong pull for someone (my lilith opposes their Sun and conjuncts their mars and their Lilith opposes my Mars).IP: Logged |
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