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Topic: Hey VIRGOS, would love some insight on you confusing ppl lol
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luckystar25
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From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 16, 2014 11:09 PM
  
virgo men, you have to be the most confusing, hard to understand zodiak out there. My question to you is what advice can you give to me for dealing with this virgo iv been seeing for a long time..hes hot then hes cold, hes moody, and acts as if i did something,which i didnt at all, just personal issues. I am a pisces woman, totally lost, and confused. He ignores me, then sees me talking to another guy,comes over and does something cute so i pay attention to him. Biggest issue COMMUNICATION, i have no idea anymore how he feels about me..what do you guys do that shows you care, and whats with being a turtle slow poke LOLIP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted February 16, 2014 11:27 PM
I can't speak for the guys but I'd say I can be moody sometimes, maybe it's the mutable aspect of Virgo. You'd think that having Mercury as our ruler too we'd be good at communicating. Well I think we are on an intellectual level, but often not emotionally. For example recently I blew up with someone I REALLY liked (Scorpio). What with me simultaneously being confused and trying to gain clarification about the relationship, and HIM feeling like he should walk on eggshells with me, also very confused and somewhat hurt, we were getting nowhere fast! In the end I came to my senses and approached him again, all sweetness and light, if a little humbled by my drama queen outburst. I think Virgos often ruminate on things, bottling things up until they can't hold it in any longer. So I'm not surprised you're confused by him luckystar!I'd say try to remain open to communication with him but give him a bit of space to think things through. And don't criticize him when he does, Virgos are a bit sensitive to others criticizing especially as we are often hard on ourselves already. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 17, 2014 12:39 AM
If Virgo cares he will call you all the time and will give you presents. He will want to share his belongings with you. He will give you his all.
He could be worried you will reject him so he doesn't want to come on too strongly for fear you will get cold feet and tell him you need space. IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 17, 2014 12:50 AM
Im not the clingy type at all(pisces with virgo moon and aquarious rising) so i am extremely good at giving him space, and i dont critisize him at all.i just dont know the boundry with him, mayb i am giving him too much spacE out of fear of bothering him. When the moment calls for it i tell him how much i value him, and he means to me,how attractive he is but he doesnt tell me any of that stuff anymore..like i can see the love in his eyrs for me yet hes never said it..IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 17, 2014 12:54 AM
Maybe he thinks you don't want to hear it?IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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From: boston mass
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posted February 17, 2014 12:56 AM
Iv said it before in the beggining but i felt like it use to annoy him..he smokes alot of weed, even worse for communication lolIP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: Mercury
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posted February 17, 2014 01:59 AM
Pisces and virgo is a perfect match though!  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 17, 2014 05:37 AM
Your situation sounds confusing.Can you give more details? Maybe it's the weed. Maybe he's emotionally "dumb" and can't pick up on cues? Maybe he doesn't really like you that much... or he's afraid of emotional closeness. I agree with what Starlight said though.
Well, more generally I believe that if someone likes you they'll make an effort and show it to you. It should come naturally - the desire to talk to the other person, to compliment them, to be there for them... pay attention to them. Right? Unless they have a problem with relationships (which is definitely possible).
Have you tried to talk about it with him?
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Renewer
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Tucson, AZ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 18, 2014 12:20 PM
The thing to remember that is key to understanding this relationship, is that each means the same thing to the other, being placed in the sixth house in relationship to one another. That is the house of partnerships and marriage. Another thing, and what makes it so interesting and challenging is that they are diametrically opposed. Pisces is a water sign, dreamy and moody by outside appearances at least. (I guess). lol. Virgo is an earth sign, feet on the ground, solid and practical. (they say) again, lol. But Virgo is the virgin, so how do you woo a virgin? A Virgo responds to pursuit, but is not normally the pursuer. Virgos are good communicators, but not on that subject so much as you may see in other signs and come to expect, especially what you might expect from a male, being a female yourself. This may account for the typical shyness of a Virgo. Don't be afraid to express yourself, he will open up. I am a Virgo who has seen these things. This can be the finest and rewarding of relationships by simply enjoying and respecting your differences, for not only is that stimulating, but each supplies the other with the things he/she needs. He needs to learn to go with the flow, you need to know that a stationary object won't come to you. I hadn't read the entire thread, but reading it made me see something else. He needs the assurance that you won't just swim away. That is something that is hard for each to understand about the other because of their differences in the way they look at things, they are both reliable and honest, but they need to experience it from one another to be sure. Isn't that why you ask? You want to be sure? Remember, each of you feels the same towards each other. Funny about you being a Pisces with a Virgo moon. It helps me to know I am giving you the correct answer, as I am a Virgo with a Pisces moon! lol again. Cancer rising, as if that matters. But my point is, I think you will understand my answer. Best wishes!IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted February 18, 2014 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by Renewer:
But Virgo is the virgin, so how do you woo a virgin?
Does born-again Virgin count? hehe As a Virgo, this made me snicker a bit. Ahem, some of us merely give the "impression" we are virgins. Underneath we're seething hot cauldrons of passion, well, smouldering at the very least, being hot earth signs!  IP: Logged |
Renewer
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Tucson, AZ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 18, 2014 12:55 PM
to Jo B: LOL. Don't I know? The virgin part must be remembered as not meaning literal, but makes a good symbol, nevertheless. It was a useful explanation, but the virgin part really refers to a completeness. You know. Most do not know of the simmering passions of a cool, shy Virgo. Don't give us away, man. Most don't know what they may tap with a virgin, either! So, to Virgo and the renewal of virginity! May we be born again and again and... (LOL) I truly appreciate your comment. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted February 18, 2014 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by Renewer:
Most do not know of the simmering passions of a cool, shy Virgo. Don't give us away, man. Most don't know what they may tap with a virgin, either!
ok then, mouth tightly zipped! I don't know what came over me! Of course we are all untainted and somewhat prudish really, not secret firecrackers at all! And we are all related to Julie Andrews.
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Renewer
Newflake Posts: 15
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 18, 2014 01:25 PM
Jo B, you have me laughing too hard to say very much, because we are related, although I am a Virgo man, and there are distinct differences in the sexes. We may not be firecrackers for the fact that we are not a mere flash in the pan, but we stand for long-term relationships. But we still don't have to tell them that it is little known that Virgos match the passion of Scorpios who are known for their passion. So I won't tell if you won't tell. lol IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted February 18, 2014 05:33 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Pisces and virgo is a perfect match though!
I've heard that often, but it has never been good in my two experiences with Pisces men. I got to the point of hearing the word "Pisces" and wanting to run for the hills. *lol* Maybe it works better if the female is Pisces and the male is Virgo? IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted February 18, 2014 05:41 PM
Now about those Virgo men... *sigh*My uncle is one, my ex-fiancé is one and I dated one briefly. I can't figure them out. They do seem overly concerned with EVERY detail in a relationship. It seems they are difficult to get to commit because they spend too much time analyzing if the relationship is right for them or not. I'm close in age to my uncle (by marriage) and we have a good friendship. Listening to him talk about his dating woes gives me a headache. Seriously... talk about a guy trapped in his own head! I wish he could have some fun, let loose a little... something! I find those Virgo boys far too serious about everything. Now add in the substance abuse and we have a mess because Virgos cannot handle it as well as the other signs can. I've even seen prescription & OTC meds completely f*ck up a Virgo. On the other hand, I've seen other signs come to work completely high and they function like normal (Leos & Scorpios, mostly). All based purely on my own observations & experiences, of course. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted February 18, 2014 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
On the other hand, I've seen other signs come to work completely high and they function like normal (Leos & Scorpios, mostly).
Wow, what kind of place do YOU work at Geeky? Sounds like one big party! IP: Logged |
foxxyxo
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posted February 18, 2014 06:38 PM
i just posted a question about a guy with a virgo venus. from my experience their abusive, and boring. like he is the most imperfect person but expects you to be perfect. yea they seem mysterious cause their distant and moody but once you unlock the mystery theres no surprise, just thoughts of wow why did i waste my time? yawnIP: Logged |
mcmlxix
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From: Vega
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 18, 2014 07:18 PM
luckystar25:If you're Pisces, have you considered that you're just as confusing to him as he is to you? Opposites attract, but they have a hard time understanding each other. I'm a double Virgo, and I really like Pisces, but being mercurial, I can't say that you all make sense to me, but you're usually magically delightful. Supposedly we're unpredictable, Personally I don't see it, but I get told it often. It's just mutability, which Pisces shares. We're usually subtle...unless there are a lot of fire personal planets. We pick up on minute details, subtle cues, and unfortunately for some, that's all we give off too. We're thinkers...sometimes over thinkers...and need time alone to process what we're feeling. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted February 18, 2014 07:23 PM
I don't know if I count with Virgo Venus, Mars and mercury. It's just misinterpretation. It makes perfect logical sense. 
In his head you may be analyzed and tested. Pass/fail. Stupid, but it happens.
It's a relationship that is approached a little bit like a business contract. LOL Not to say it won't be wonderful after. The relationship isn't that way, but just in the decision making of If to commit. LOL And drugs.... Well I'm a Leo sun but with that Virgo. 12th house even which is supposed to watch out for drug abuse / alcoholism.
I HATE drugs! It's just hard wired in I guess. When it comes to people who I care about I get really worked up.
Alcohol, I have gotten very drunk and drank a lot. But it's not very often. I could easily go a year without a drop.
I don't particularly care for it either. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted February 18, 2014 07:51 PM
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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
i just posted a question about a guy with a virgo venus. from my experience their abusive, and boring. like he is the most imperfect person but expects you to be perfect. yea they seem mysterious cause their distant and moody but once you unlock the mystery theres no surprise, just thoughts of wow why did i waste my time? yawn
Wow, that's a bit negative, he isn't even Virgo Sun. I really hate sweeping generalizations.
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foxxyxo
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posted February 18, 2014 11:22 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 19, 2014 12:13 AM
I know from personal experience Venus in Virgo can be difficult if Venus is prominent for some reason, especially sun already weakened in the sign Libra which Venus rules.
This way you have both sun and sun ruler in fall.
They really do not possess the typical Venusian qualities at all and they are awkward and they only get worse. I am not talking just a little awkward either. Imagine someone completely lacking social graces. And their equilibrium can be really compromised, to the point they have trouble operating motor vehicles. It's just something you have to see to understand.
Nietzsche had this same combination and he seems that way, too. IP: Logged |
Renewer
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From: Tucson, AZ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 19, 2014 10:48 AM
Hey LuckyStar, I had some thoughts I would like to add if I may. Though I still hold with much of what I said yesterday, I think he may have some Pisces or Scorpio influences that cause him to be more withdrawn than I would expect. I have to agree that Virgos can be harmed by drugs, but it is downers that are the anathema to us, whether all Virgos agree or not, but weed is a natural for them, or uppers. No alcohol nor anything that brings you down. But I wasn't remembering something, and this actually brought me to this site, that currently affects all Virgos, and that is the discovery of the tenth planet. I have posted a question elsewhere requesting information as to what Linda-Goodman said about that, but as of yesterday I had heard nothing on it. Virgos are affected in different ways, but they are all affected. I wish I knew where to find the info, I think it could be key. Many have become more introspective. The tenth planet is to be the proper ruler of Virgo, and of all things, was predicted to be Vulcan! lol. This could be the explanation, for as the planets are discovered for the various signs that have shared planets in the past, it has brought changes, though perhaps temporary to some degree. I wish I knew. Oh, yes, the tenth planet has bee discovered, if you didn't know. But I would like to tell you to not call out the lifeboats. There is still high hopes, because he still sees you. I think your intuition may be the best answer, that he is scared of losing you and doesn't know what to do. This from what you said about him seeing you around other people. And if he seems to be smoking a little more, that is his response. Assure him, and it will all be fine, Im sure!IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted February 19, 2014 03:32 PM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
Wow, what kind of place do YOU work at Geeky? Sounds like one big party!
It was a former position when I was managing a restaurant. Some of my employees could handle their addictions (notably, the Leos, Scorpios & one Sag) and I didn't care what they were outside smoking on break (to be honest). I cared about if they were doing the job right (cleanliness, accuracy) and that they were showing up on time. However, I had to fire a few because they couldn't function on the job like that (two that I can remember were Virgo). I also dated a few Leos & Scorpios (YUM!) that had various dependencies, but they were high functioning individuals. Successful, in fact. I don't drink or do anything (not even normal cigs) and I am one of those Virgos that gets high on cold medicine -- without trying. *lol* When I was about 16-17, I was given a Percocet once and I slept for 17 hours. Horrible experience. Later in life, I had my two kids without any meds and had my wisdom teeth removed while awake, no meds, because of that one experience with a Percocet. I would rather suffer for a short time than be out of my mind (out of control). I hate that feeling. IP: Logged | |
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