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Topic: What aspects or planets in house placements make you go "uh oh"
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 1531 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 04:30 AM
In a natal/progressed/combined chart? And not the good "uh oh" thought..and also, how many of those "uh oh's" have proven to be yet another "I knew it when I saw it"? This can be whatever you were looking for ie a looney-toon to be co-irker, cheater, liar or general psycho tendencies. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 7601 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 17, 2014 06:01 AM
Do you mean when it comes to relationships?Usually whenever the outer planets are involved you'll have an "uh-oh" moment sooner or later. Hard aspects in synastry can be really bad at this, but by transit they can create a lot of complex situations as well. With Pluto it's the stalker/ "psycho" type of uh oh; with Uranus it's the hot&cold, commitment phobic type of uh-oh and with Neptune... you can expect anything, lol. But usually with Neptune there's some type of savior/martyr dynamic going on. Those types of realizations are usually strongest at the beginning and at the end of a transit.
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1060 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 17, 2014 12:23 PM
a 5th or 7th house natal Saturn, a 12th house mercury, or a water sign in mars. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8919 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 12:25 PM
Probably saturn squares.I've never experienced one in synastry. Idk trines sextile conjunctions can add stability but the squares probably a bit too constricting I'd imagine there would need to be an aspect from uranus to balance that out. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 17, 2014 12:50 PM
Any natal personal planet in hard aspect to Uranus or Neptune But especially Uranus... Ugh!!! IP: Logged |
CatMote Knowflake Posts: 627 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 12:57 PM
a chart with strong virgo placements lol. my own chart opposes and squares virgo a lot. normally i avoid virgos. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 53 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 17, 2014 01:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: a 5th or 7th house natal Saturn, a 12th house mercury, or a water sign in mars.
Whats wrong with water mars lol? I always see people bash those water mars signs IP: Logged |
Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 372 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 17, 2014 01:43 PM
A while back, (not that long ago LOL) a friend had me look at the chart of her new boyfriend, and asked me to "evaluate" him, from the little I knew about astrology.I found Venus trine Neptune, so I explained to her that was why he was already "deeply in love with the most beautiful girl in this planet", etc etc As soon as she's about to leave I notice he has Mercury square Neptune, so i'm trying my hardest to call her back and warn her he might be a liar, but she doesn't hear me and leaves. Next day she comes to me and goes like, "He's such a liar *insert long story of a couple of lies here*". The other one was Mars in 12th and a Mars/Pluto square in the same chart. IP: Logged |
fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 17, 2014 01:58 PM
Um, my entire chart. I have a packed 8th house (sun, venus, mercury, mars, pluto, moon). Neptune in 10th house; Saturn in 7th; No planets in 5th house, Saturn square Asc; Saturn semisquare sun, moon, mercury. Capricorn in 12th house. I have some decent placements (Jupiter in 4th - but this only made my childhood good, adult life isn't so much), and Jupiter trine sun, moon, mercury. However, the bad outweighs the good. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 650 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 17, 2014 02:23 PM
Mars hard aspects to outer planets Scorpio moons - I'm wary of them. They are not bad people but I start paying more attention to what they say vs. what they do People with placements squaring my own. Arian and libra ppl are not bad. Just that we are gonna have difficulties doing things together. People with aspects squaring my mercury Natal mercury squaring several planet Pluto hard aspect with anything. I have sun and merc square pluto natally so I know haha I have noticed people with too much mutable energy tend to drop in and out of my life.IP: Logged |
meissieri Knowflake Posts: 840 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 03:37 PM
Hmm, I try to give everything a chance, even if there's a few that do make me step back a bit. What I'm definitely wary of is planets in mid-Aquarius, only because I'm worried how they'll aspect my chart. Aside from my Vertex/Antivertex, which they can sextile and trine, and Ceres (trine again), I don't have anything that can support their planets. The quincunxes to my Cancer and Virgo are the worst - I feel like there's no common ground for us, as much as I'm attracted to them. Plus, it'll square my Pluto, which has lead to power struggles, manipulation in the past. So, yeah, not trying to be mean here, it's just got everything to do with the synastry. It's a real shame - I'm sad about it because I hoped we'd get along. Early Gemini placements are 50/50 unless it's someone I'm very close to. They square my Mars, and I don't know how I do it, but I end up making them mad. And yes, again, it makes me sad I have this effect on them. IP: Logged |
dadoo Knowflake Posts: 215 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
With Pluto it's the stalker/ "psycho" type of uh oh; with Uranus it's the hot&cold, commitment phobic type of uh-oh and with Neptune... you can expect anything, lol.
loooooooooool SO TRUE IP: Logged |
Abc333 Knowflake Posts: 235 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 04:36 PM
I go Uh Oh when I see absolutely nothing or hardly anything in water and earth and everything in air.------------------ http://astrologicallyyours.com/ IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 226 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 05:16 PM
cancer sunwill never risk a venus-neptune synastry again. sooooo disappointing sun opp pluto in a natal or probably synastry IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 534 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 06:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: Whats wrong with water mars lol? I always see people bash those water mars signs
It's really not fun having a retrograde mars in cancer, a trip to the fridge is too much without breaking down in tears. It's opposite Neptune as well. Not fun. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 53 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 17, 2014 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: It's really not fun having a retrograde mars in cancer, a trip to the fridge is too much without breaking down in tears. It's opposite Neptune as well. Not fun.
Lmfao the struggle for me i cant stand knowing i have the worst planet for mars :/,well do i have any hope for when my natal mars progresses to leo? right now its at 28 degrees in my progressed chart and im 21yrs old
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Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3071 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 07:55 PM
Well actually it was a "Well that sucks" moment for me.When I first seen my natal chart, I said it about Mercury in Libra because it wasn't domicile, nor was it the same as my Sun sign, Virgo. I already disliked this placement before, but then this forum made me really hate it because a lot of people hate on it. I don't dislike it in other people, just in myself. It's quite a dud when you would like to become a scientist, opposed to having a Virgo Mercury. I also had another moment with my Leo Ascendant because all that does is make me create a competition out of everything and sub-consciously expect things from people. I also cannot take the arrogance it gives me. I really want to learn if I am not 100 percent sure on something, but my ego gets in the way and insists that I'm always right. Even when in my mind, I know I'm wrong or could be, but my ego juts takes over. (Also when my idealism's from my Libra Mercury could impact this as well - as I do not want them to be destroyed). The best part about the competition thing is that it's not even for fun, but for superiority. I'll be honest, I don't care. Because I feel like this whole world is based off of who is better. Which is true because it's survival of the fittest and natural selection. As long as the world works this way, then I will have to go with it. I wish it wasn't because then I will give it up and be happy all the time. My Ascendant with the Virgo Sun makes me feel like I have to be the best at everything and better than people. I really do not want to be like this from the bottom of my heart and just enjoy life and accept failure or losses at things, but I just can't. I can't even lose at a video game without slipping into a state of depression for awhile. I don't ever even brag, I'm quite modest. But when someone challenges me by saying they're better than me at something, then I just go of the roof, lol. As long as people around me established I am the best, then I will not bring up I'm better or anything. I don't even like when my friends boast about me or my skills. I don't want that, just an innate recognition of my superiority. I feel like I HAVE to be the best. It's do or die with me. It is seriously that bad. I don't even think getting help for it will do anything. (A lot of this might have something to do with my Scorpio Mars, though). I like my Virgo Sun, but just not with this Ascendant. I'd rather have a Virgo Ascendant or other earth sign, I don't care. As long as it's not fire or water. My chart ruler (Sun) aspects every planet besides Mercury, but it's already in a mercurian sign, lol. So it's obviously very intense for me. There, I admitted to one of my greatest flaws. Hopefully no one thinks any less of me for it. I just don't know how to control it, as it controls me. I guess I'm not strong-minded enough when it comes to that. I had an "Uh oh" and then "Oh that's why" moment with Chiron conjunct Venus. I don't really believe in the karmic crap about it, but it does make me feel like I didn't do enough or everything I could do, and that I should do more and more in romance and love. I go overboard and take it too seriously, and that messes things up for me in romance because it's not about that. I think that if I do everything certain ways or as close to perfect as possible, the girl I like will start to like me. But it doesn't work that way. I feel like I'm not "good" enough. Another aspect I had a "Well that sucks" was with Mercury square Neptune. Why would I want my logic/intellect clouded and deluded? I have trouble explaining things because of this. Even though I have a 3rd House Mercury. I understand things quite fast I think, but when it comes to explaining them, I have trouble doing it properly. This aspect is pretty much self-explanatory. It is just really bad and useless for anything meaningful. Especially for me. These aren't houses, but these were the ones I had those moments with. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 931 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 08:00 PM
It might be known as a bad placement for mars but honestly, it matters most in synastry. Barbiegirl19 has cancer mars and I love it. I don't have any issues with it whatsoever.Don't get too hard on yourselves about where it is natally, someone else may balance it out. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1473 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 11:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Abc333: I go Uh Oh when I see absolutely nothing or hardly anything in water and earth and everything in air.
Same here! Not going to be enough depth of character for me. I have a balanced chart so I like to see the same in others if they plan to get close to me. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1473 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 11:22 PM
My "uh oh" moments? When someone has...- Saturn in 7th - Venus in 3rd (I love & hate this) - Moon or Venus in Aqua - TONS of squares in their chart IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 37635 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2014 08:21 PM
Interesting comments. IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor Moderator Posts: 319 From: USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 18, 2014 10:28 PM
Yes, interesting. I'm wary of mars in 8H and packed 1st house. For combined chart, harsh Saturn aspects. IP: Logged |
micole maree Newflake Posts: 19 From: USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 19, 2014 04:31 AM
Is there anything good to be said for Saturn in the 5th? Mine is there, in Cap, conjunct my Vertex. Any thoughts?And what is bad about Venus in the 3rd? I'm pretty much a newbie, so all info is so welcome! IP: Logged |
Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 20, 2014 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Abc333: I go Uh Oh when I see absolutely nothing or hardly anything in water and earth and everything in air.
Me too. Then again, I am mostly water, and lack air. This is why this forum is so subjective. There aren't "uh oh" placements, just every chart is individual. IP: Logged |
Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 20, 2014 03:38 PM
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