posted February 17, 2014 09:35 PM            

Do any of those trines help all those squares?

posted February 17, 2014 10:00 PM            

Then I met my husband/son's dad - that relationship was crazy intense in the beginning and turned to a more love/hate theme...lots of stupid arguments, power control and now we just tolerate each other for our son's sake

Those are the only two significant relationships I have had. I really crave a love that is stable and emotionally fulfilling at this point. I'm tired. The past year I have attracted super intense "relationships" with guys that once the newness wore off they were both just wishy washy and unwilling to commit
I've been taking some time to focus on me and my son which is sooo worthwhile but as 7h sun I crave a relationship

posted February 19, 2014 09:21 AM            

Assuming they are all roughly equal orbs, I suppose your trines do help you cope with all the tension from those squares. You have really nice trines.

My moon is at the apex of a t-square with Neptune and Mars, sextile my sun, semisextile Jupiter. Maybe some other minor aspects.

I can relate to your romantic history, I was about the same way. I also have Venus conjunct Neptune (though Venus isn't square my moon, the orb's too wide.) So I was just confused for much of the time, and I stayed in my college relationship way too long.

Now I have been married almost 15 years. My husband's Saturn is conjunct my Venus, I think that's the major "glue" here, plus we have the same nodal axis (though we're far apart in age.)

Also, my moon's entire t-square hits his sun and moon in either a positive or neutral/non-aspected way, since he is a Leo sun (trine my Neptune) with a Libra moon (trine my Mars, sextile my Neptune, quincunx my moon.) I think that might really help things along: he doesn't get pulled into my moon's tension as much as someone who, say, has personal planets turning my t-square into a grand cross in synastry.

Not saying anyone should strive to duplicate my situation, but we've gone the distance so far, and I'm grateful that at least we haven't fallen into a rut of being bored with each other or totally disenchanted. We have our problems, but this relationship has never gotten stale.

Good luck~

posted February 19, 2014 09:36 PM            

With your moon tightly trine Saturn, you have lasting affections, but with the square to Venus, maybe you have a hard time seeing exactly what you want?