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Topic: Should I ask for his number?
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bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 468 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:05 AM
Hello all!I am not exactly sure where I should post this thread so I just posted it here lol. Long story short, I have a crush on my chiropractor and I don't know If I should ask for his number. My guts is telling me yes, but another side of me being a girl is screaming no. I am very attracted to him and he is such a gentleman. He asked about where I live and how my weekend went, and even remember that I am still in school. He always brings a sense of warmth to me. I do not want him to think I am desperate and end up giving me his number out of pity either... What are your takes on this?? ------------------ Libra Sun Aqua Rising Cancer Moon Scorpio Venus "Love is a Universal Language" IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8931 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:24 AM
No just tell him to text you some time. I mean he probs has your number right. I never ask I just write my number on something give it to them and leave.IP: Logged |
bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 468 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:36 AM
^reminds me of what happens in the movies lol...the girl shoves a piece of paper with her number on it to the guy LOLIP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8931 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:39 AM
Exactly. I'm pretty fierce like that lol jk a lot of people do it . I may chat with give them my number if we vibe and leave cause they should make the next effort because I approached them. I've never been directly rejected in my life because I'm pretty smooth about things .if something approaches and starts flirting I may be sassy and say this is the part where you give me your number.IP: Logged |
bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 468 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:42 AM
^that makes you sound like an Aries on flames IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 944 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 20, 2014 01:44 AM
I wouldn't read too much into it. I mean you know best for your situation but my chiropractor remembers everything about me, is extremely nice and friendly. But we're both straight men who are taken. It's just a part of their job - to make you feel like you are a person, not a number or a money bag. It helps bring them business. If they just wanted you in and out like they just want the money then you may not go back. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8931 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:51 AM
Who cares just be flirty and receptive. He works with so many people just put yourself out there and he may see you in that light. It's hard for him in his proffesion IP: Logged |
bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 468 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 01:58 AM
>DeepFreeze: Hmm, that is true too. But ahh what the heck, I think I am going to ask for his number or according to Kero, give him my number LOL. I think most guys would be flattered by it and it won't make me or break me if he doesn't reciprocate. Thank you for your advice though >Kero: thank you for your response! I am gonnnnna do it, and i shall keep you all updated lol IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8931 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 02:03 AM
Yah that's a good idea he will probably be flattered and if you compliment him end it with Don't let it get to your head and stare him down lol cause unlike girls guys get so cocky. Omg I'm such hot **** and run laps IP: Logged |
bethbabe Knowflake Posts: 468 From: CA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 02:07 AM
^you so effen hilarious, hahaha you made my night! goooooooood night kero! thanks!!IP: Logged |
Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 165 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 20, 2014 03:57 PM
Yeah, you have nothing to lose. Why not? Most people would be flattered in the end like you said.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 944 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 20, 2014 09:04 PM
Come back and let us know what happens. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1554 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 21, 2014 01:56 AM
Is he single?IP: Logged |