posted February 20, 2014 03:41 AM            

I'm just trying to decipher this person's feelings towards me.
It's all there in the astrology but this person has Saturn on their Moon/Venus.. so it's extremely hard to tell because they are obviously reserved with their true emotions. And I know the 12th house is all about keeping secrets.

But there's a part of me that is like, despite what everything is telling me.. it's like IF YOU DON'T TELL ME IN A TANGIBLE WAY I WONT EVER KNOW

So I guessing I'm asking anyone who was the PLANET person in the 12th house synastry - did you, no matter what.. did you feel it?! That spiritual, other-wordly connection? Like as a rule?
And if you hid it, what were your reasons for doing so?

And to the 12th house person in the synastry, was it ever the case that it was ONLY YOU who felt it?

I know this topic has been done to death but humour me. Anyone's experiences with 12th house synastry, I would love your insights!!

posted February 20, 2014 05:07 AM            

In my current relationship, my sun/venus/neptune/merc/uranus is in his 12th house. His neptune is in my 12th house. I sought him out first and was the first to admit my feelings - probably could have waited, but meh I prefer to start things. Natally I have saturn - moon/venus.

I do feel a certain connection. Not sure about "otherworldly" though.

Well as far as I know, that's the only romantic 12th house synastry I have. I have 12th house synastry with quite a few people, including my cousin, parents, friends..etc.. these friendships/relationships, they don't feel much different than the ones without 12th house synastry.

posted February 20, 2014 07:38 AM            

From my experience, as the planet person - I don't always feel it. Actually I almost never feel it as much as when their planet(s) fall in my 12th house. It's completely different.

The 12th house person is the one feeling the "mysticality" around the planet person, most often than not.
The planet person can be aware of the effect they have on the house person and become intrigued because of that.

There were rare cases where the planet person seemed more intrigued and affected - usually when their Sun was part of the mix.

posted February 20, 2014 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by magicspells:
But there's a part of me that is like, despite what everything is telling me.. it's like IF YOU DON'T TELL ME IN A TANGIBLE WAY I WONT EVER KNOW

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^ This.

I have Mars in my boyfriends 12th. He has Venus in my 12th - so I guess I know what it's like to be both the planet person and the house person. I think the house person feels the connection a little more but from what I notice the planet person can sometimes feel it just as deeply.

Until he and I FINALLY got together, there was always a weird unspoken undertone in our relationship/friendship...it was sooo frustrating Like we both kinda knew how the other felt but at the same time we secretly felt confused. Everything was always said with hidden meanings...I found myself picking over texts and emails trying to figure out if he really was saying what I thought he was, or if I was just kidding myself. He did everything to try and convince me that he didn't like me as more than a friend, when in reality it was painfully obvious that he did. I, on the other hand, tried to make sure he didn't know that I liked him back.

I think with so many of their planets falling in your house, the whole thing would feel pretty intense (especially pluto and venus). I remember reading that when somebody's venus falls in your 12th it can mean a relationship that could have been but never started, because either one or both parties were too shy or confused to admit their feelings. Maybe in that situation you have to take action (like just ask him outright what his feelings are, move on etc) or else nothing will ever progress.