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Topic: Mars square Neptune?
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LexaS
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 20, 2014 04:37 PM
  
Does this aspect make you indecisive and stop you from going after what you want? What are your observations on this? The guy that I'm currently seeing(kinda) makes many hints that he's interested but doesn't do or say anything in a direct manner. And he happens to have this aspect, so I'm curious if this might be one of the reasons, haha. IP: Logged |
Kibriana
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: Zagreb, Croatia
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by LexaS:
Does this aspect make you indecisive and stop you from going after what you want? What are your observations on this? The guy that I'm currently seeing(kinda) makes many hints that he's interested but doesn't do or say anything in a direct manner. And he happens to have this aspect, so I'm curious if this might be one of the reasons, haha.
Yeah, you get kind of stuck with this aspect and you might lose your energy doing everything but the very thing you're supposed to be doing. Dispersion of energy, that's what it is. Daydreaming instead of action. IP: Logged |
LexaS
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 20, 2014 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by Kibriana:
Yeah, you get kind of stuck with this aspect and you might lose your energy doing everything but the very thing you're supposed to be doing. Dispersion of energy, that's what it is. Daydreaming instead of action.
Thank you for your replay!
Well, I guess I'll have the "pleasure" to get things done. 
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clovercharm
Newflake Posts: 6
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 20, 2014 11:31 PM
LexaS - from my experience, this aspect would have a lot to do with it.I had a boyfriend who has this aspect and he was the same. He really really fancied me, but never came out to say so, and never really "went for me". His actions were vague, timid, and hesitant. I had to do nearly all of the work before we got together. And whilst we were in a relationship, he was never really good at asserting what he wanted, or "going after something". He also had quite a bit of passive aggressiveness. But then again he has sun trine mars in fire signs, so on SOME occasions he was good at pursuing something. Although, Astrology isn't everything - you'd need to look at the circumstances. In my case, before we got together, we were living very far apart and he thought nothing could ever happen with us, plus he was very inexperienced with women, so those factors made him more hesitant.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8931
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 20, 2014 11:57 PM
I have this aspect..
I want the person Im seeing to also make an effort like a back and forth..
I fully capable and fierce enough to get what I want... I know exactly what I want when i see it and I have at times swooped in when I'm just looking to hook up for one night or something.
Neptune romanticized mars in a way.
I think it makes the whole act of courtship like a dance or something.So maybe these guys wanted you to make an effort too 
Maybe you should be spontaneous and plan out something special.
Theres nothing wrong with them other than being heterosexual men that are expected to do everything.. I know if Im seeing someone they they expect me to text them or to make arrangements first I tend to back off and sometimes they might feel like Im unsure but Im just waiting for them..
If they are not into it than they can just walk away because I want relationships to be like that.
I don't always want to be the aggressor making decisions. Its funny because i'm constantly calculating every time someone has initiated something with me and I'll always initiate back next time around. and if someone is not being receptive at all than maybe its not so much the aspect but we can say they're just not that into you... IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4677
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 21, 2014 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by LexaS:
Does this aspect make you indecisive and stop you from going after what you want? What are your observations on this? The guy that I'm currently seeing(kinda) makes many hints that he's interested but doesn't do or say anything in a direct manner. And he happens to have this aspect, so I'm curious if this might be one of the reasons, haha.
No I don't think an aspect alone can determine someone's indecisiveness.
Mars in cap takes like forever to decide if they want to be with someone or not,so does Mars in Taurus. There are other factors to be considered in the natal. I have mars sq neptune exact. If I want someone, I'm very focused on him and will let him know. IP: Logged |
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