posted February 20, 2014 11:11 PM            

Also, how many aspects is enough, or signifies a significant relationship anyway? I'm wondering if our charts indicate enough attraction / longevity.

My natal chart (birth time correct)

His natal chart (birth time unknown)

Synastry

Composite

The back story -

I met a guy on holidays in Iguazu Falls in Argentina, and we were instantly attracted to each other. We spent a day sightseeing together, and parted ways at the end of the day. I thought that was it.

But - three days later, we ran into each other in Buenos Aires, more than 1000km away! It felt like we were destined to see each other again.

We started hanging out together every day, and I felt like I hadn't "liked" someone so much for a long time - I just really, really liked him and we understood each other so well, even though there is a language barrier (he is Swiss, I'm Australian, so we speak English, but his English is a bit limited).

After we both returned to our home countries, we kept in touch very sporadically, mostly just how are you, have you travelled anywhere lately, etc. A year later, I told him I was going on holidays to Europe. He immediately invited me to visit him in Switzerland. I did, and well - things were rekindled right away. We spent 12 days together like a couple in a new romance. He even took me to meet his whole family one night.

Now I'm back in Australia, and we miss each other. He tells me that he's nearly 30 now and has dated a lot of women in the past, but he thinks that I'm the kind of woman he wants to share his life with, and he wants to visit me for two months next year so we can get to know each other better.

The one thing I'm most confused about is that our symastry doesn't seem to indicate a huge amount of attraction, nor does our composite chart. I mean, they don't look awful, but I've had boyfriends in the past who have had "meatier" synastries and composites with me. But then, since I don't have his birth time, maybe there are actually significant aspects with the angles, or the moon, that I'm not seeing.

In terms of my feelings towards him - I feel like he has many qualities that I'm attracted to, and I really respect and like him. We're very similar in a lot of ways. He's really very special and we understand each other really well. Not to mention I think he's damn sexy. But I suspect that on an emotional level, we may not be compatible, because looking at both charts as a whole, our emotional natures seem to be quite different - I'm a very sensitive person with deep, complex emotions (Moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto, sextile Neptune, square Mercury) whereas he's very Mars and Uranus dominated, with no water in his chart.

posted February 21, 2014 02:30 AM            

*faints

posted February 21, 2014 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
An aquarius venus asking about love???

*faints

Just kidding. I know it sucks when u dont have a birth time for another so it will pretty much be off. U will get more replies if u post this in personal readings.

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posted February 21, 2014 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I hope somebody will help u with this. I am new to astrology.All i can say is give him those two months and see how it goes.
I think his moon in your seventh house is a biggie.
Ur sun trines his sun. Which must be a plus.
Also your venus trines his libra venus.
And his jupiter sits right on your IC.
From what i have learnt/n still trying to learn here is angle n nodal contacts are very important. Also seventh,fifth and eighth house overlays.
Maybe u wanna ask him his TOB? I posted my synastry chart in beginners forum n received a free reading : ) Ppl are very helpful here. Im sure u will get answers. All the best to you and your love interest.

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Hey thanks for your lovely reply. I did ask him what time he was born, but he just said, "I dunno when I was born...I just know that I was!"