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Topic: Which trait do you despise the most?
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Kerosene
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posted February 27, 2014 11:10 PM
 
That's funny because I find Gemini and Libra men to be the most easy to deal with.. I don't have a problem with Libra men for the most part. Gemini and Libra men usually are not quick to ignore me like other males. Gemini and Libra girls can be really vapid.
Like they really own the dumb blonde persona.. even if they are brunettes.
I can take them in small doses but Gemini girls are at least really funny.
I think for Gemini girls it's more so an act. Aquarian women are a lot more balanced and I always enjoy their company. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted February 27, 2014 11:11 PM
I'm actually pretty demanding of honesty even if it's not nice. If I KNOW someone is sugar coating something or worse, telling a "white lie", I'm not likely to associate with them too much.
I won't "buy" half the crap they tell me. Some will jump in and say that Libras do just that. Not always so. They've always been very up front with ME. The most honest outspoken woman I knew was Libra.
She put sags to shame. I don't know what was in her chart but.... I liked her honesty. I like the one Libra male I know and aqua is hit or Miss.
Buuuuuuut anyway......
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arcturiann
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posted February 27, 2014 11:39 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Gems... The males I don't care for so much. One day it seems that they care and are your friend and then they get some hair up their @$$ and suddenly you're just stupid and not even the same species as them. That's my experience.
Oh my god, this is what I hate about gems the most. It comes of as some sort of extreme moodiness, i'm like sh*t homie what did I do? Suddenly i'm super irritating to them when yesterday we were best buds, da fuq? I've learned my lesson with gems and now whenever i'm dealing with one I kind of tip toe into a convo with them and test the waters to see where their mood is at before I start acting like we're best friends again. some days I can just tell like "okay, he/she needs space, i'll leave them alone for now" and when their mood picks up I know their chatterbox ass will come find me as long as i'm within earshot. Astrology makes dealing with people soooo much easier
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darksoul18
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posted February 27, 2014 11:47 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by darksoul18:
[b] I've never had a problem with Sags bluntness either bc I know it's in good fun and just who they are, but I totally understand what you mean as far as getting upset and disagreeing with each other in certain areas. I dated a Sag and had lots of fun, but other times were nightmares and I didn't exactly understand why. Also us Gems are very moody, which I hate so much...but our minds are constantly thinking and when we are mad we usually just don't like talking because we are focused deep in thought. It really is like balancing 2 different people with us. The twins...emotional and intellectual at the same time.
What about when Sagittarius goes out of their way to say stuff they know presses your buttons? I know a Sag who does it but his soon-to-be-wife got him out of the habit. [/B][/QUOTE] If it's the truth then it doesn't bother me that they speak their mind and are honest about it, but it'd be different if they said something that was untrue which i have come across before with Sags....but i don't let it bother me.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 27, 2014 11:49 PM
My one friend with a Sagittarius stellium including sun and Neptune conjunction would harp on whatever he knew irritated people the most just to upset them until his fiancee threatened to leave this is what caused him to have an epiphany and broke him of the habit.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 27, 2014 11:56 PM
LOL I'm like that.I can be really moody, I like my space...
I choose not to respond to texts but my loved ones can really get my wrath if they bug me too much.. IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
My one friend with a Sagittarius stellium including sun and Neptune conjunction would harp on whatever he knew irritated people the most just to upset them until his fiancee threatened to leave this is what caused him to have an epiphany and broke him of the habit.
Yeah I've never come across a Sag like that fortunately.
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Barbiegirl19
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posted February 28, 2014 12:01 AM
^^ How would you feel if they did that to you? Would you care?IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
^^ How would you feel if they did that to you? Would you care?
No. I'd probably just ignore them. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted February 28, 2014 12:14 AM
That was actually directed to Kerosene lol. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 28, 2014 12:18 AM
My Gemini friend likes to have his space but if I go all day without communicating with him, he gets really mad and won't communicate hardly at all late in the day yet he acts like he wants to be left alone. I have a tough time figuring this Gemini out.
Sometimes it seems like this Gemini is surrounded by metaphorical land mines and where ever someone steps *boom*
And then sometimes he leads me in one direction and if I am too direct after I think that's what he wants, he gets moody. This Gemini is quite a challenge to figure out lol and often drives me crazy and yet we cannot break free of each other. IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 12:39 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
That was actually directed to Kerosene lol.
Oh..
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darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
My Gemini friend likes to have his space but if I go all day without communicating with him, he gets really mad and won't communicate hardly at all late in the day yet he acts like he wants to be left alone. I have a tough time figuring this Gemini out.
Sometimes it seems like this Gemini is surrounded by metaphorical land mines and where ever someone steps *boom*
And then sometimes he leads me in one direction and if I am too direct after I think that's what he wants, he gets moody. This Gemini is quite a challenge to figure out lol and often drives me crazy and yet we cannot break free of each other.
Sounds about right. XD....what is your sign? IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
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posted February 28, 2014 12:55 AM
darksoul18:
Which trait do you despise the most? (if any)Gems randomness --What's wrong with randomness? Gem's are good at keeping people on their toes! IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 01:02 AM
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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Oh my god, this is what I hate about gems the most. It comes of as some sort of extreme moodiness, i'm like sh*t homie what did I do? Suddenly i'm super irritating to them when yesterday we were best buds, da fuq? I've learned my lesson with gems and now whenever i'm dealing with one I kind of tip toe into a convo with them and test the waters to see where their mood is at before I start acting like we're best friends again. some days I can just tell like "okay, he/she needs space, i'll leave them alone for now" and when their mood picks up I know their chatterbox ass will come find me as long as i'm within earshot.Astrology makes dealing with people soooo much easier
Nah, doesn't have anything to do with you. We're just lost in thought, but we do need mental space because the twins never give us a break. It's like people who are trying to quit smoking versus people that don't smoke...the people that don't smoke don't understand why they can't just "quit' because they've never experienced it. The same thing with Aquas and Gems...if your not a Gem or Aqua...you just don't get it. The reason I'm including Aquas is because they can be hard to figure out just like Gems and I can relate so much to Aquas...we are actually pretty similar. IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 01:04 AM
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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
darksoul18:
Which trait do you despise the most? (if any)Gems randomness --What's wrong with randomness? Gem's are good at keeping people on their toes!
Well, me being a Gemini and what not...I totally agree! Lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 28, 2014 02:29 AM
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Originally posted by darksoul18:
Sounds about right. XD....what is your sign?
I am a Virgo sun which means our sun signs are square. What I can't understand is what draws us together so strongly? I didn't speak to him for a couple months now I am again after I said I was going to try not to. He contacted me again, not the other way around and he wondered if I missed him. Now I am beginning to think it is my karmic mission to give him advice about life or something. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted February 28, 2014 03:01 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
That was actually directed to Kerosene lol.
Awww SSS this Gemini MUST Like u a lottttt! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted February 28, 2014 03:14 AM
I'm confused lol I'm not a Gemini IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 28, 2014 03:19 AM
Barbiegirl is already taken, Geminigal  Concerning my Gemini - I am not sure if he really likes me. We have known each other for longer than five years now so maybe it's habit because we really do drive each other crazy. It's like a game between us. Who can make one another the most insane. I don't have the same kind of thing with my Sag friend. It's similar in some ways yet it's not so subtle or something. I can't explain it. Both of these relationships are out of the ordinary as far as their perimeters go. They are odd friendships of some kind. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted February 28, 2014 03:45 AM
Barbiegirl i quoted yr post by mistake.My bad!
Sss. As far as i know if a gemini doesnt care about u we wouldnt trouble ourself with all those mind games/going insane. My Taurus guy called me a confused soul : ( We are scared to let others know our true feelings.
I used to do it when i was a teenager. I would wait for my guy to call me .. but when he does i would behave as if it never meant anything to me. Thing is i would rather NOT be in love/be addicted to somebody/expect their phone calls etc... it is so difficult to explain this feeling. I would rather do something 'random'. Ru sure he sees u as a friend and not something more?IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 09:11 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I am a Virgo sun which means our sun signs are square. What I can't understand is what draws us together so strongly? I didn't speak to him for a couple months now I am again after I said I was going to try not to. He contacted me again, not the other way around and he wondered if I missed him. Now I am beginning to think it is my karmic mission to give him advice about life or something.
I could help you understand him probably if you help me understand Virgos lol. My dad is a Virgo and I feel like we always just love discussing cold hard facts and information , like if 2 computer hard drives were to have a conversation with each other, or 2 internet pages of the same topic got together and had a debate or discussion lol. I know Virgos have tunnel vision as far as their focus and are very analyzing. They also love sorting things out and helping people, but I'm still trying to figure my Dad out. Do you love obtaining knowledge just because you love learning and for the sake of information or is it something different? I know we are both mutable signs, but I'm still struggling to understand Virgos in depth. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 28, 2014 01:14 PM
I am more of the Pisces Virgo variety than the true Virgo so I am a bit hazier than your dad, probably, darksoul.Geminigal, I am not sure how he likes me. This is what confuses me. Sometimes he appears to like me in a way that suggests he doesn't really and it just goes downhill from there but we are always communicating regardless of how uncomfortable we both feel. It's like some drive is pushing us together, this pressurized force or something, when I think we wish to be separate. I try to figure out how to make the best of it instead of us both arguing and getting irritated which we are both guilty of. IP: Logged |
LeonisStar
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posted February 28, 2014 02:20 PM
Sag bluntness > Gemini randomness, any day of the week. I guess it depends on how you define "randomness" but yeah IP: Logged |
darksoul18
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posted February 28, 2014 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I am more of the Pisces Virgo variety than the true Virgo so I am a bit hazier than your dad, probably, darksoul.Geminigal, I am not sure how he likes me. This is what confuses me. Sometimes he appears to like me in a way that suggests he doesn't really and it just goes downhill from there but we are always communicating regardless of how uncomfortable we both feel. It's like some drive is pushing us together, this pressurized force or something, when I think we wish to be separate. I try to figure out how to make the best of it instead of us both arguing and getting irritated which we are both guilty of.
I have no idea what my Dad is but he's very analytical and definitely likes doing things his way, but so do I which is where we have got into conflicts....my Capricorn placements sometimes collide with his Virgo sun I guess. IP: Logged |
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