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posted February 21, 2014 03:26 PM            

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I consider myself an overall chill person but some people can really just drive me over the edge - even just with their presence

I'm sure many can relate but has anyone identified obvious aspects that cause this?

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posted February 21, 2014 05:27 PM            

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I too would like to know! *bump*

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posted February 22, 2014 06:14 AM            

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yeah sun/pluto and venus/pluto hard aspects.

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posted February 22, 2014 06:20 AM            

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I'd go with Mars/Saturn.

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posted February 22, 2014 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
yeah sun/pluto and venus/pluto hard aspects.

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Who feels driven over the edge here? The sun person or the Pluto person?

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posted February 22, 2014 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
I'd go with Mars/Saturn.

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I've experienced this and being the Saturn person it was horrible

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posted February 22, 2014 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
Who feels driven over the edge here? The sun person or the Pluto person?

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I think it's both… the pluto person might act so destructive towards the sun person, that the sun person gets enough, because the pluto person is being very unfair with them

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posted February 22, 2014 07:51 AM            

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Hmm, maybe when someones planet is making a T-square in your chart.

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posted February 22, 2014 07:53 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think it's both… the pluto person might act so destructive towards the sun person, that the sun person gets enough, because the pluto person is being very unfair with them

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posted February 22, 2014 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
I'd go with Mars/Saturn.

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This, you get frustrated with each other and nothing you/they do is ever good enough

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posted February 22, 2014 01:10 PM            

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I'm going back to a synastry chart to check for these LOL there's one person I hit it off with so well and now his very presence makes me want to bang my head against the wall

Ugh

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posted February 22, 2014 10:46 PM            

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psycho lady xx

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posted February 23, 2014 01:22 AM            

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Mars square Mars.
Mars square Saturn.
Mars/Pluto.

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posted February 23, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Mostly hard aspects to each others Mars, Saturn, or Pluto, from what I've seen. Especially true if those three are involved on both sides i.e. Mars/Mars, Saturn/Pluto, etc.

My mothers Mars is loosely square my Pluto, and her Saturn is square my Saturn, needless to say we don't get along at all

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posted February 23, 2014 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Celestica:
Mostly hard aspects to each others Mars, Saturn, or Pluto, from what I've seen. Especially true if those three are involved on both sides i.e. Mars/Mars, Saturn/Pluto, etc.

My mothers Mars is loosely square my Pluto, and her Saturn is square my Saturn, needless to say we don't get along at all

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Aw, feel sorry for you, it's you mother after all

But it's also true with the mars aspects. Besides that bad mars aspect also brings bad timing, it can make people really angry towards each make people talk so badly in an argument that everything is lost afterwards. Especially moon square mars, maybe you will have a nice time in the bedroom, but it can be hard to forgive each other after an argument simply because it was so hurtful.

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posted February 23, 2014 05:39 AM            

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Sun square sun sux.
Moon square pluto
Sun opp moon

I have these with a friend. I love him. But damn, he drives me insane. Well, we drive each other mutually insane.

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posted February 23, 2014 07:56 AM            

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I've had mars opp Saturn with someone. I was Virgo Mars. Nothing I did was right. Ever. And there were drama-lama scenes from Saturn to get my attention and projections from Saturn to the point I believed what he said.

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posted February 23, 2014 08:10 AM            

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Mars/Saturn, crazy annoying. Been both the Saturn and the Mars, and as both I felt irritated by the other, though for different reasons.

[Edit to add: It's more peaceful when I'm Saturn though, cause I keep the criticisms and negativity to myself, since I have Merc/Saturn conj, but I can not stand being the Mars person though.]

Sun/Pluto, Moon/Pluto (conj, opp, sq), although very passionate and beautiful for the first few years, it eventually breeds jealously, contention, hostility etc.

Mars/Pluto I don't have any experience as I haven't been around the persons long enough/and haven't noticed it in other couples, but I would think it would since both are combative planets.

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posted February 23, 2014 08:33 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I've had mars opp Saturn with someone. I was Virgo Mars. Nothing I did was right. Ever. And there were drama-lama scenes from Saturn to get my attention and projections from Saturn to the point I believed what he said.

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My friend and I have mars opp saturn. I'm the Mars and nothing I do is ever right. Sigh. If he gave me a compliment I think I'd fall over with a heart attack.

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posted February 23, 2014 12:26 PM            

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squares do this

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