posted February 22, 2014 05:58 AM            

And apparently I keep attracting gemini mars men everywhere… But I don't get it, cause I got no fire in my chart, I'm mostly earth and water (virgo sun, pisces moon, scorpio venus and virgo mars) and CANCER ascendant… not really the big gemini-attracting placement?

posted February 22, 2014 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
One thing I don't get with these people…what attracts them? What actually makes them stay with the same person?

And apparently I keep attracting gemini mars men everywhere… But I don't get it, cause I got no fire in my chart, I'm mostly earth and water (virgo sun, pisces moon, scorpio venus and virgo mars) and CANCER ascendant… not really the big gemini-attracting placement?

I'm not really talkative, and though I love small-talking I really SUCK at it!
So I just wonder if it might be coincidence, or that gemini-mars people actually like quiet and "boring" (not talkative) people?

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Hard to say if Mars is enough to cover what you're asking. For one thing - Mars is seen as an attraction factor for women - while for men - that's suppose to show from their Venus placement.

posted February 22, 2014 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I do need good conversation to get turned on and if someone doesn't talk I won't be aroused by them

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posted February 22, 2014 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I'm a gemini mars female and I don't think I do a lot of partner picking with my gemini mars...I do need good conversation to get turned on and if someone doesn't talk I won't be aroused by them.... But that's about it! I do like people with a lot of energy in order to keep up.... But I think my virgo Moon, cap IC and my saggy Sun pick my partners more than anything!

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posted February 22, 2014 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Hmmmm I don't know. I'm Gemini Mars (female though, obviously) and I have a few Gemini Mars friends. For me, it's a relief to be around someone who CAN talk as much as I do. Because I get self-conscious about the fact that I can't shut up. It's less of an issue if they are the same way.

But maybe in a relationship that would become exhausting, just talking all the time.

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Exactly! You can take a brake from friends but in a relationship - that could actually lead to a brake-up... for the sake of "silence!" With Mars in Gemini - the energy levels tend to shift from one opposite to another - it can be hard to keep a stable pace. And when they're down - one is in need of some space to charge its batteries. I'm also Gemini Sun (conjunct Mars), so - that puts an extra emphasis on that. If talks get prolonged just for the sake of conversation - i tend to get bored/uninterested and i star to feel drain (and sleepy...) from that point.

posted February 22, 2014 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have also noticed that with all the gemini mars people who were interested in me, their mars is trine my libra mercury. So maybe this is why… I activate their mars intellectually, and usually we are able to have a good long talk…but mostly they seem interested in me and asking me a lot of questions, and I just talk about myself then lol…. but apparently they enjoy it somehow:S

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posted February 22, 2014 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I'm married but...you know...historically this applies.

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posted February 22, 2014 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
With Mars in Gemini - the energy levels tend to shift from one opposite to another - it can be hard to keep a stable pace. And when they're down - one is in need of some space to charge its batteries.

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YES

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^notice the quiet, empty space here^

posted February 22, 2014 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Really at times we don't really care what kind of information it is, if it's interesting we are into it!

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posted February 22, 2014 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Omg I can't deal with them....they never stfu and super annoying drunks. Not particularly found of air mars men.

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posted February 23, 2014 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
YES

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^notice the quiet, empty space here^

*In consideration for over-talked Geminis!

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I thought that space is nom nom nom-ing some sweats. Isn't that a Gemini Mars thing too?

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posted February 23, 2014 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by mareaire:
my guy and i both have gem mars.
i think that mars in men is not about who and what they are attracted to, but how they cultivate/project/use their masculine energy. for instance, my partner likes to have multiple projects and always have something to do. he takes pride in being multi-faceted with a variety of skills to offer. he is a great conversationalist.
his venus is in aries. i think he is attracted to woman who are independent and good at initiating things in life, going for their goals. someone who he can admire.

with my mars in gemini i am attracted to people who are diverse, can entertain with dialogue, and keep it interesting and fresh. i like a man who can be many things.
with my venus in cancer, i cultivate/project/utilize my feminine energy by caring for my loved ones, filling their bellies and making a cozy home. if my mars finds you amazing, you'll be likely to be on the receiving end of my cancerian venus' attention.

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The bolded part too... i guess.

posted February 23, 2014 12:10 PM            

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Edit! And even though he's much older, his NN is conjunct mine. (Yours, too!) That helps a lot.

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posted February 23, 2014 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
The only gem mars man I know likes the fact that my aqua mercury can go on and on. He says several times that I taught him lots of things... So in guessing its similar to sag mars?

Any way, he is a scorpio and he doesn't talk a lot

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Yeah I think there is two kinds of gemini mars men. Those who talk a LOT and those who are more quiet but overly curious about everything.

My mom, my dad, two friends I used to live with, my boyfriend and many others I know got gemini mars and they are not all talking TOO much. My dad is, and my two friends maybe, but not my mom or my boyfriend. But they ask questions ALL the time, it can be a little bit annoying:P