posted February 23, 2014 07:07 PM            

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The 'losing all your friends' transits

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posted February 23, 2014 07:43 PM            

Seeing as this is an astrological site, I also tend to think a transit could be at play. Regardless, while these things may be confusing and/or painful, it is good that you are recognizing these things about yourself and your needs. They are growth lessons. All anyone can do is try to go with the flow and learn from them.

- KS

posted February 23, 2014 08:15 PM            

i met my very first bff exactly when pluto entered my 11th. we were two peas in a pod for three years then he transfered to another school and we never saw each other ever again. i still miss him about a year after that all but one of my bunch of friends also transfered to where bff went. (i could have gone too but my stingey father didnt want to pay for a uniform )

i lost another bunch of bffs right in the middle of high school (i transfered this time). last group of girly girlfriends i ever had.

posted February 23, 2014 08:53 PM            

Saturn was opposing my 11th house, and Uranus in my 11th house.

It was painful to go though.

posted February 23, 2014 09:06 PM            

When Saturn transited my 11th house I had no social life. I just hanged out with only one friend who went to live abroad.

posted February 24, 2014 12:07 AM            

Lost a best friend of 2 years over a guy. Go figure the guy was a tool, and nothing much happened between us. And decided no guy is worth ruining a friendship over... but at the same time I knew the friendship ran it's course and there was a double standard. (okay if I'm single/3rd wheel...not okay if she is) And when we were "competing" for that guy. She got really nasty with me.

Made a new best friend at work, had a falling out. I felt horrible about it. She eventually forgave me. But then I began to realize she was a "fair weather friend." Once I realized that, I was so done. Ignore her when she gets in touch with me.

Yeah this transit, made me learn how to be a better friend. First time, ending close friendship on such bad terms like this. Especially the first one. Go figure we both have Scorpio moon. Yes I've had mean/shallow/fake friends before, but usually we just "drift apart".

Each time something like this would happen, I felt so discouraged to make new friends. But life happens anyways...and I'd give it a go w/ someone else again.

I became close w/ another girl...and she indirectly shut me out over something stupid. I was very hurt by it. Could kind of understand. But the situation got settled. And we hang out in a group and are pretty cool again. (after the saturn libra transit)

posted February 24, 2014 12:54 AM            

I have Pluto conjunct my Mercury in 9th and so, I understand this need to only talk of deep stuff.

In my case, I want to study more than talk(9th).

I'd also look at the ruler of the 11th house, the planet transiting it or aspects made by other planets to its ruler.

11th house denotes you chosen "family" as opposed to the one you were born into (4th). So, with this "family", you are wholly accepted and they represent you wishes, hopes and dreams.

The ruler of my 11th house is Pisces and since it is transiting my 10th house, my hopes, wishes and dreams have taken center stage in my view right now.

The need to belong to a shared ideology and have a place to call "home" (in the friendship sense) is very strong.

posted February 24, 2014 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Yeah, I suppose transiting Pluto through the 3rd house could cause that. Pluto hates superficiality, so you will lose any superficial friendships.

I didn't start losing friends until Pluto went through my 12th house for some reason.

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