posted February 28, 2014 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by earthypisces:
I'm a Venus in Capricorn guy...

No sex for at least a few months + required STD test (or no sex for you)!

...I'm serious.

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posted March 01, 2014 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

A red flag for this, is when a guy barely knows you says they like you. And wants to be in a relationship w/ ya right now!

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Definitely a red flag but not necessarily always tied to agenda which you suggested (Hit and Quit)

Romantic Hollywood movies teach men that they should rush to get rejected

posted March 01, 2014 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I can relate, I was a virgin until age 19.
And it was important to be with a guy that wasn't too bad in a rush to have sex.

Oh yeah, and immature guys will act like they want a relationship, just so they can have sex/hit it and quit it.
My Scorpio Moon conjunct Pluto can see through this. I've seen friends go through this.

A red flag for this, is when a guy barely knows you says they like you. And wants to be in a relationship w/ ya right now!

This is because they are immature, and see that certain women don't come across as "loose." So their logic is, she would only have sex if she was in a relationship/was in love. Or force being "in love" (fakeness) and say it. Kind of like "see, we love each other, so that means we can have sex now! (gee about time, it's been 3 days!)"

When I was a Virgin, I could not stand guys attempts of peer pressure. If I really gave in to peer pressure ya think I'd still be a virgin?! Was what I should of said at the time.
Like every time you're alone with them they put the moves on you. It's like I am trying to get to know the person, to see if this is someone I should loose my Vcard too. And the dude not wanting to get to know me, treating me like I'm an object make me realize, it's no.

Anyways, I wish you the best Solar_Leo_Queen, I know how hard it can be.

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posted March 01, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:

Romantic Hollywood movies teach men that they should rush to get rejected

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posted March 01, 2014 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What.

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Yeah
For example, let's look at the Great Gatsby (Spoiler alert)
As soon as Gatsby meets Daisy, he showers her with flowers and gifts
The movie seems to express that such 'nice guy' act is romantic, well at least it is often perceived that way.
And I've discussed the movie with many male friends and I was shocked that not too many guys paid attention to the part where Gatsby actually gets rejected later and daisy goes back to the husband.
Many female friends who I've discussed the movie with seems to hate Daisy, but you can't really blame daisy for going back to husband nor leading Gatsby on for a little. Any rational human being would have weighed their options before making their decisions.
And her husband was cheating too so Daisy's action is justified in regards to the loyalty issue in this case

Notebook is another movie that suggests that men should aggressively chase women to earn their love. The movie is very romantic but the problem is, watchers tend to forget just how rare such romantic tales can be in real life.

Also, in twilight, Edward spills his guts out to Bella by exposing his vampire secret pretty early. But in real life, if you were told such huge secret by your date in very early stages of relationship, you'd find it cute at the moment but when you go home to talk to your girlfriends about it, you'd realize you are turned off