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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012

posted February 26, 2014 12:52 AM            

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Do you reject domestic life- like settling down to focus on furthering your ambitions? Especially if your ambitions would conflict with a domestic lifestyle.

I see that Cancer SN is calling me but I'm trying really hard to reject the Universe from keeping me domesticated.
I'm sort of taking care of an infant... idk if I want it to be a permanent situation...
Like I'm helping someone out because I'm great with kids
It's not my responsibility but I care about this person but I don't want this to distract me from my ambitions but I get overly attached to children easily, which is why I had to stop babysitting strangers kids.

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From: Titan
Registered: Jun 2013

posted February 26, 2014 01:03 AM            

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In the end the result should be a balance. I've heard that with the nodes, people start out early in life closer to their SN, then rebel it and move towards their NN to an extreme, and that the resolution is to balance the two by using your SN gift towards NN accomplishments.

I know a cap NN that accomplished this by using his nurturing instinct (cancer SN) to become a professor at university (cap NN, career, accomplishments).

When it comes to settling down with a family, i see that he has but that it hasnt been fulfilling to him. almost like hes great at being a dad and great with kids, but that he might be bored of it, or is more interested in his career..

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From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013

posted February 26, 2014 01:08 AM            

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Didn't you say you had an inheritance once?

With it right on the Cusp of the Second/Eighth like that and with Fourth House Jupiter in Trine...

Yes, there are Cancer type things going on with it...

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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012

posted February 26, 2014 01:13 AM            

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I don't think I would be entirely fulfilled either,

I don't my life to be based on social obligations, that I started a family because it's expected of me.
You should have kids if you really truly want them not because you are good with children..
Though I do have a natural sense of responsibility when I see children are in a difficult situation, I have to help if I can.
Sort of like this situation.

Which is why I always thought I would probably pull a brangelina and adopt kids when I'm rolling in $$$$$$$$$. But I see that happening when I'm well into my late 40's.

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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012

posted February 26, 2014 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Didn't you say you had an inheritance once?

With it right on the Cusp of the Second/Eighth like that and with Fourth House Jupiter in Trine...

Yes, there are Cancer type things going on with it...

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Yes, property.

I forgot about Jupiter which is in Virgo too..

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posted February 26, 2014 01:21 AM            

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Meh I don't reject either. It's not easy balancing having a family and pursuing my goals, but I'd like to at least give it a try, coz I want both lol I probably won't feel fulfilled if I only have one of the two.

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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012

posted February 26, 2014 02:06 AM            

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I have cap north node conjunct saturn. For me its like i want a simple life and to remain close to family and have a wife and kids but it appears that this isn't going to work out for a variety of reasons. Its like the universe wants me to go in the opposite direction.

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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012

posted February 26, 2014 03:09 AM            

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I do. I want nothing to distract me from my future cult leader career.

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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