posted February 26, 2014 07:58 AM            

I was just wondering how you perceive this placement in a natal chart. Would you place great importance on it, and how do you feel about people with this placement?

posted February 27, 2014 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
Well that doesn't sound too bad! I have it myself, but am not that advanced at astrology so I'm just slowly moving through my aspects. When I started reading up on this one things just started making... SO MUCH MORE SENSE. There's so much conflict, but so so so much fun.

I guess it's by no means an easy aspect, but at least... Life is never ever boring?

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posted March 01, 2014 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Nope it's never gonna be "boring" but ins tread it can become like… irritating. It's indeed an aspect that makes you easily irritated too I think… it makes you lose your temper too quickly, without thinking first. And you can imagine how many problems that makes. Especially with your close friends, and that can be kinda irritating in itself… mostly you cannot go through life without conflicts with friends and loved ones, but with this aspect there is a danger that you actually lose them for real, because you don't seem to care what your saying to them, when you get angry. But it's not that you don't care, it's just that you lose your temper.
So this aspect has potential anger management, and it really has to be taken care of. You need to find out what's your outlet, and mostly that involves physical action, as doing something risky, sporty or having sex. But be careful!

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I completely relate to what you are saying, thank you so much!!

When I get angry I go on the war path... And anything that's in my way, damn it better move. My best always tells me I'm the best friend and worst enemy anyone can have.

I do have allot of conflicts in my life... Fortunately I have yet to loose a friendship over it though. Instead, I often relate to people better after a conflict, it helps me understand them... I take criticism well, so even when I huff and puff I'll usually be able to listen to what they're saying. And I have learned to be very open about my flaws in regards to my temper, so I will apologize and tell them I'll try not to do it again. Then when I do do it again I'll apologize again and tell them I mean to change, but it is hard because when you are mad you aren't thinking clearly so it is easy to fall back into the same patterns.

It's usually an adjustment period for me. I've fought with most of my friends at some point or another, but after a couple of fights it's usually enough and we are able to communicate more clearly and I learn that I can trust them. I'm more likely to fight with someone when I'm feeling insecure, I think. So my best friendships now are mostly conflict free, fortunately. I stick with my friends, so most things are usually dealt with after a few years. And then there is peace...

posted March 01, 2014 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
I completely relate to what you are saying, thank you so much!!

When I get angry I go on the war path... And anything that's in my way, damn it better move. My best always tells me I'm the best friend and worst enemy anyone can have.

I do have allot of conflicts in my life... Fortunately I have yet to loose a friendship over it though. Instead, I often relate to people better after a conflict, it helps me understand them... I take criticism well, so even when I huff and puff I'll usually be able to listen to what they're saying. And I have learned to be very open about my flaws in regards to my temper, so I will apologize and tell them I'll try not to do it again. Then when I do do it again I'll apologize again and tell them I mean to change, but it is hard because when you are mad you aren't thinking clearly so it is easy to fall back into the same patterns.

It's usually an adjustment period for me. I've fought with most of my friends at some point or another, but after a couple of fights it's usually enough and we are able to communicate more clearly and I learn that I can trust them. I'm more likely to fight with someone when I'm feeling insecure, I think. So my best friendships now are mostly conflict free, fortunately. I stick with my friends, so most things are usually dealt with after a few years. And then there is peace...

The energy is spent on putting myself in dangerous situations and extreme sports instead. And confronting people I don't know well but who **** me off. Haha. Much safer than going after one's friends. Thank God I seem to have 9 lives.

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Oh yeah this is exactly like me! It's good that you have already found out how important it is to keep challenging yourself, I think this also make some kind of inner peace that can be used in stressed out situations…

posted March 01, 2014 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Oh yeah this is exactly like me! It's good that you have already found out how important it is to keep challenging yourself, I think this also make some kind of inner peace that can be used in stressed out situations…

HAHA but I have noticed too, that it's actually a nice way to release tension with just taking the conflict with random people who seems ready to fight you… especially in traffic I meet a lot of people who seem to have moon op mars too! These people just seem to yell at you, just for the sake of it…and I always yell back, I know it's really awful, but I just think it's the best way to handle this energy in the moment… I hope with time I'll have more inner peace though!

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I don't care about peace lol, I'm having fun! I become most aggressive when I drink though... It's unfortunate sometimes... The amount of (verbal) fights I have gotten myself into... And I'm a girl and quite petite so thank God I get away with being aggressive without getting myself killed lol. I have had a couple of fists come flying at me though... But there's always some guy there to be the savior of poor little innocent me!

posted March 06, 2014 03:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:

When I get angry I go on the war path... And anything that's in my way, damn it better move.

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I lol'd to death when I read this. I most certainly can relate.

posted March 06, 2014 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:

But I also think this aspect makes a great "lust for life", adventure, drama and sex-drive is very high!

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I'm not into drama or petty nonsense AT ALL. But I definitely have a huge lust for life! I'm a true adventurer spirit...it's so much fun. As for sex, it must be passionate/intense or I am absolutely NOT interested.

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Nope it's never gonna be "boring" but ins tread it can become like… irritating. It's indeed an aspect that makes you easily irritated too I think… it makes you lose your temper too quickly, without thinking first.

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Good news is that I've mostly outgrown this! Or at least gotten it under my control. I'm quick to let things go and eager to move the hell on. If we can't resolve the issue I will simply cut you *OFF* and forget about you soon after! I don't got the time (nor the desire) to be fussing over you every day of every year GTFOH. I've got a life to live!!!

Until about 5 years ago, I did sometimes go around taking people out like a Hurricane!!! I was never cruel to people without good cause, No. But if I deemed you deserving...it was a freaking wrap for your a$$. No negotiating b*tch!

I've encountered conflict, yes. But not at an abnormal level. At least not since I've calmed down.

posted March 06, 2014 05:41 AM            

I'm thinking this could be a cheater sign.

posted March 07, 2014 07:32 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
I'm thinking this could be a cheater sign.

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posted March 07, 2014 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Until about 5 years ago, I did sometimes go around taking people out like a Hurricane!!! I was never cruel to people without good cause, No. But if I deemed you deserving...it was a freaking wrap for your a$$. No negotiating b*tch!

I've encountered conflict, yes. But not at an abnormal level. At least not since I've calmed down.

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Good to know it's possible, haha. JK. I'm not bad really. I'm mostly able to use my anger in somewhat constructive ways. When people deserve it I don't mind telling them off. Other than that I go dancing and to the gym allot. Travel often. I think the trick is to expend the energy.

posted March 09, 2014 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
Good to know it's possible, haha. JK. I'm not bad really. I'm mostly able to use my anger in somewhat constructive ways. When people deserve it I don't mind telling them off. Other than that I go dancing and to the gym allot. Travel often. I think the trick is to expend the energy.

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If you have to trick yourself then dammit do it.

I absolutely love dancing and traveling. And I don't go daily, but I do like the gym.

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Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
Do you think Moon conj.mars can make native easily irritation too ?

Thnx

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Hell yeah.

posted March 09, 2014 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
I don't know about anyone else, but this is not true for me. I'm very loyal. Could be all that cappy and aqua balancing it out though.

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