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Mvs424
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posted February 28, 2014 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mvs424     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some help please! Charts included...
I work with a cancer, who I have really fallen for. My aries venus always seems to tell me this one is different, I Reeeeaaallly like this one. we"ll see, but as of right now hes all I can think of! He is the bartender at my job. Im a little confused by well everything about him. The more we get to know each other the more I think hes flirting with me but he does have kind of a "funny guy" personality. I don't think he flirts with any of the other girls I work with half as much as me though. Anyways, so heres a few examples.. Recently hes started to get a little touchy, like I leaning on this table and he walked by and poked my rib. Grabbed my wrist and commented on my bracelets. Everything with him is jokes though! possibly for fear of rejection? He asked me around Vday where my boyfriend was taking me out (he definitely knew I didn't have a boyfriend) asked me in a playing way when I was gonna take him out I said whenre you gonna take me out im the lady! and he said he wouldn't know where to take me, again not in a serious way though. But I feel like this cancer might be putting me through tests, maybe its the 8th house composite and synastry moon we share?? I told him I clean houses and he asked if I would ever wear a skimpy maid outfit for more money and I told him no I wouldn't compromise my morals, he even told me I should get a sugar daddy lol. I told him I wouldn't be able to fake liking someone. I always say I want to bartend and he'll say something like oh I can give you bartending lessons at my house. youll be very drunk. and asked if alcohol makes me lose my inhibitions... I said noo and he said darn it. Lol.. Im not dumb I know that's all kidding but arghhhhh I wish I could tell if he really likes me! Sometimes we make some pretty intense eye contact or we'll catch each other looking at each other. He likes pics of me on FB. Jokingly asked me to be his girlfriend and come cuddle with him at one of the booths last night. My aries in venus makes it obvious on purpose, but other than that I try to keep the aries on lock down so he doesn't get scared away. I have a lot of 4th house placements so I think ill be just fine. He has quit the joking a few times and talked to me seriously abuot personal things like what hpappened with his daughters mom and what happened with my sons dad. So we share the bod of being parents. howver I think our age difference may bug him or maybe hes just teasing me about it cause he'll make comments sometimes. Ive just started giving him subtle compliments, like when he said he wants to work out I said no don't you look perfect, things like that. Im wondering just how much his cap moon really affects all this cancer in his chart. Anyways, theres more id like to add but the main point is out there. Thanks!

His chart

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Mine
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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted February 28, 2014 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG!!!
I like someone who is a Cancer sun Cancer mercury and a Capricorn moon and I am still trying to figure out a Cap moon.
I looked at his chart and I was glad to see he has a Venus cancer. I too am a Cancer sun with cancer moon and cancer venus, I think I can give you insight on the cancer part. I wish I could explain about his Leo mars because I know a mans mars is important but I am still new here. LOL
Anyway, I know that for me having all that Cancer in my chart makes me shy and I would think that someone with those placements would kind of beat around the bush when it comes to flirting if you know what I mean. Cancers typically show obvious signs that they like someone or at least MOST of the females do. For example, if I am comfortable with a person I will begin to share my food(s) with them or cook for them. I will buy them small gifts that I think they will like. The big thing I do is playfully tease the person I am interested in which it seems like that is what this guy is doing. Plus it is a good sign that he has shared personal family things with you. Cancers are big on family and talking about family with someone is a good way to know that they are at least comfortable with you.
I have looked a little into Cap moons and I know that they want to make sure the other person is serious and not going to hurt them before they get involved. I guess the same goes for Cancers too. Caps and Cancers for that matter do "test" the other person.
From what I read about Leo in Mars men they like sex… a lot! That maybe why he is making comments about the maids outfit and stuff.
Like I said though I am not very positive about interpreting Cap moons and Leo mars I am sure someone else on here can elaborate but I can explain Cancers all day long, lol.
I hope this helped you, if you have any other questions I would be glad to help.

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charlie
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posted February 28, 2014 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm I have a cancer stellium plus Cap moon and a "fiery" Mars. And I am a player..

Just saying.


Also, when I REALLY REALLY like and want someone nothing will stop me from telling that person so. If my interest is subpar I might let person linger on to see if he can weigh the scales in either direction with most likely result NOT being in his favor.

But this is me.

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AscTaurus
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posted February 28, 2014 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a Taurus Sun, this suggests someone who has a good amount of common sense , practicality and shrewd reasoning about them.

But they are also not made of stone and their physical passions run deep; wanting someone to love and be loved is a goal for many Taurus Suns(as many people too).

The only pertinent difference between others and the Taurean is,few are likely to be as loyal and long-suffering.Not to mention physically appreciative of the ones that they love.

When a Taurean has fallen in-love, it can linger for years and it can take a catastrophic event to make that feeling go completely off.

Having Venus in Aries suggests someone who is able to call a spade a spade. As much as they may dote on someone, they are not likely to stick around should they feel the feelings are not reciprocated.

But, with the Moon in Pisces, its not always so easy for one to just walk away from a rejection.

Pisces can, like Taurus, tenaciously hang on to an ideal for a long period. Whilst Taurus may get a dose of reality knocked upside their head, Pisces may get the same knock and be indifferent.

Mars in Leo doesn't suggest this vulnerability is there though ; being a brazen flirt and loving to entertain advances for the joy of it can mask it. One can never quite tell when your are serious and when you are just "playing".

He, on the other hand, has the Sun in Cancer; which makes him made of sensitive stuff, the stuff that will pull out your heart and twist it till you hold him in your arms and promise never to let go.

This is dosed down a good deal by a hard inner shell that betrays the sweetness that is outside: He is not as clueless and gooey as he may seem. He definitely can take care of himself and can certainly outlast many.

But this does not mean that he is not romantic. He is just not that fuzzy about it. He may suffer great rejection and pain in love, but his tenacity keeps him focused on the idea that even if he doesn't meet the "one", he is fine with meeting someone who can stand him.

The Venus in Cancer hardly flirts or puts itself "out there"; rather preferring to pursue its object of desire in a sly, understated manner. He is so protective of himself that he will not let his feelings show.

Obviously , when he feels that there is no way that he can "lose" with you, he can certainly turn up the speed of courting and be so forward that even a Venus in Aries will be looking over their shoulder and wondering who stole their thunder?

This is the contradiction of Cancer; shy and reticent , then bold and daring. A move from one to the other.

And he also has his Mars in Leo which makes it hard to tell if he is like that only to you, or to everyone else?

I think you should proceed with caution. He is able to look at love from a more "practical" perspective than be "consumed" by it (per se). And your Moon in Pisces can have a long recovery period if it doesn't work out.

I know this will be hard for a Venus in Aries woman to do but try and let him come to you.

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Mvs424
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posted February 28, 2014 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mvs424     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for taking the time to reply, I sooo so appreciate it!

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