posted March 22, 2014 03:29 PM            

I explained exactly what it was, a report I was interested in a little while ago of my friendship with our friend Paul.

Is this report even worth getting that stab of jealousy over?:

Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Paul's Sun in Aries and Taylar's Sun in Leo

Both of you are independent, self-motivated individuals, very much concerned with your own creative work and interests. Paul, however, often acts in a manner that is socially inappropriate while Taylar is more aware of appearances and is more concerned with the response of others. Paul is somewhat indifferent to other people's opinions, while Taylar craves approval and affirmation from others.

You are both immensely proud and neither of you wants to take the back seat in any relationship. There is a great deal of harmony between you, but being two spirited and somewhat volatile people, when you clash your fights are likely to be dramatic and boisterous.

Paul's Moon in Saggitarius and Taylar's Moon in Taurus

You have very different, and often conflicting, needs and drives. Paul is expansive, craves adventure, and wants to be where the energy and action is. Paul's curiosity and quest for growth, knowledge, or new experiences creates a strong urge for travel or changes in residence. Taylar, on the other hand, is very attached to the familiar, and prefers a steady routine, domestic peace and stability. Taylar may feel that Paul is unreliable and not to be depended upon.

Also, Paul is an idealist with great hopes and plans for the future, while Taylar lives primarily in the present and is more involved with immediate, tangible concerns. Paul may feel that Taylar doesn't understand or appreciate Paul's dreams, and that Taylar stifles Paul's enthusiasm with an insistence on realism and practicality.

Taylar may feel that Paul lives in an unreal world, ignores the facts at hand, and leaves others to take care of the work and business of day to day life.

However, you both have an essentially generous, live-and- let-live attitude which may enable you to overlook the differences between you.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Paul's Mercury conjunct Taylar's Moon orb 2° 26'

You enjoy long conversations, confiding in each other, sharing your inner feelings and thoughts. You enjoy 'psychoanalyzing' each other and others as well. At worst, this can degrade into gossip and at best it can provide a depth of mutual understanding and self-discovery that is enlightening, nourishing, and refreshing.

Paul's Uranus opposition Taylar's Sun orb 2° 41'

If the two of you depend on each other to perform tasks and meet responsibilities (such as in a business relationship), you will find that it is often difficult to coordinate your schedules or focus on practical details. You do work together well on creative and innovative projects, however, when you do get together. You are likely to pop in and out of each other's lives at unexpected times.

Paul's Sun square Taylar's Mercury orb 2° 44'

The two of you do not always see eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for Taylar to become critical of Paul. Compounding the problem is Paul's tendency to be very sensitive to criticism from Taylar and consequently react defensively to this criticism. This need not be a serious problem however; a little tolerance for each other's right to disagree and respect for individual differences is all it takes to make personal differences interesting rather than annoying.

Paul's Sun sextile Taylar's Mars orb 1° 20'

You work together very well on projects, and you make an excellent partnership in any joint venture, sport, or business activity.

Paul's Sun square Taylar's Neptune orb 1° 52'

You must guard against mutual deception and misunderstandings. Paul tends to have an unrealistic view of Taylar, and Taylar has a tendency to unconsciously capitalize on Paul's imaginative and often simply erroneous perceptions. The tendency to be dishonest, hide things from each other, exaggerate, and spur each other to unrealistic hopes and dreams is very strong. Both of you must be able to distinguish fantasy from fact, and utilize the increased sensitivity and heightened imagination that you inspire in each other, without letting it cloud your ability to clearly and realistically see other and understand each other.

Paul's Venus sextile Taylar's Sun orb 1° 39'

This is a warm, friendly, open relationship with much mutual appreciation and respect. You enjoy each other's company and put each other in a good mood.

Paul's Uranus square Taylar's Moon orb 0° 23'

The two of you can be eccentric and zany together. You snap each other out of your usual habits and you act spontaneously and creatively. Many times it is difficult for the two of you to focus on practical, mundane affairs together - you would rather spend your time together doing something more exciting and original. This relationship follows an unpredictable course and you are likely to come together and then drift apart frequently and unexpectedly.

Paul's Mercury sextile Taylar's Ascendant orb 1° 29'

Harmonious, open, and clear communication is so ingrained in your relationship that you probably take it for granted. You enjoy long talks and it seems that no matter how well you know each other, you continue to enjoy having time for long discussions.

Paul's Ascendant trine Taylar's Moon orb 2° 7'

posted March 23, 2014 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Eh, I'd say just explain it to him, but honestly if I found something like that, I'd probably be a little p'd off at first, too.

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posted March 23, 2014 09:35 PM            

Works with friends too, I have a good friend who's aquarius and we're literally like a duo when we're together. My dad is aquarius and we get along very well. These seem to be one of the two most compatible partner signs of them all. Most opposites I know hate each other except maybe scorpio and taurus.

posted March 24, 2014 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Leorpio:
I've definitely gotten along with just about every single Aquarius I've ever met. I also noticed Aquarian girls just love me and are all over me when they meet me. This one cute aquarian filipina girl in particular would get elated every time she saw me.

Works with friends too, I have a good friend who's aquarius and we're literally like a duo when we're together. My dad is aquarius and we get along very well. These seem to be one of the two most compatible partner signs of them all. Most opposites I know hate each other except maybe scorpio and taurus.

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I agree, for us being opposites its really nice that we balance each other out. My boyfriend's bestfriend is a Scoripo and his girlfriend is a Taurus. I find them a good match for being opposites as well. Although I notice and as does my Aquarius what aspects in their relationship they should compromise in to make them more harmonious.

posted March 24, 2014 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Polyhemnia:
I agree, for us being opposites its really nice that we balance each other out. My boyfriend's bestfriend is a Scoripo and his girlfriend is a Taurus. I find them a good match for being opposites as well. Although I notice and as does my Aquarius what aspects in their relationship they should compromise in to make them more harmonious.

I notice your moon is in Scorpio. What do you notice it impacts your personality the most and how do you express it? I'm surious because my Aquarius has his moon in Scorpio.

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I always know if you have something to hide from me, especially an ulterior motive, I just might not always know what it is (but I usually do). In general it makes me suspicious of people sometimes, but luckily my other aspects usually counteract this. Very good at reading people and telling whether I'll like you or not.

One thing is that I'll always have something to hide and you'll never find out what it is, but I'll always find out your secrets. I don't even wanna go to my emotions because they're way too intense for me to express around anyone. Literally you'll be freaked out once I let loose. You'll either be scared or think I'm gonna kill myself. The psychic vibrations of a scorpio moon letting loose is a powerful thing, even for the one releasing them. I remember balling my eyes out one time and the air around me was literally thick and every cat in my house was like wtf is going on. Pretty sure I attracted spirits and angels to me when I did. It makes me really interested in the occult and supernatural and anything of that ilk.

Its a side of me I almost never show to anyone, and up until very recently, never DID show anyone. Is definitely the most secretive placement there is, even beating other scorpio placements out. Sorry to say but there are some things you will never know about him unless you marry him and till death do you part. That is if he never opens up, and with him being an Aquarius, good luck with that lol. At least my Leo side is more dominant and allows me to open up to people when I absolutely need to.

*edit* Oh and I CAN get jealous. But I control it and never let it get to me, its just like that feeling comes up out of nowhere for no reason and the thoughts start spewing. You literally have to stop it consciously otherwise it'll take over you like how rage can take over an aries.

posted March 25, 2014 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Leorpio:
I always know if you have something to hide from me, especially an ulterior motive, I just might not always know what it is (but I usually do). In general it makes me suspicious of people sometimes, but luckily my other aspects usually counteract this. Very good at reading people and telling whether I'll like you or not.

One thing is that I'll always have something to hide and you'll never find out what it is, but I'll always find out your secrets. I don't even wanna go to my emotions because they're way too intense for me to express around anyone. Literally you'll be freaked out once I let loose. You'll either be scared or think I'm gonna kill myself. The psychic vibrations of a scorpio moon letting loose is a powerful thing, even for the one releasing them. I remember balling my eyes out one time and the air around me was literally thick and every cat in my house was like wtf is going on. Pretty sure I attracted spirits and angels to me when I did. It makes me really interested in the occult and supernatural and anything of that ilk.

Its a side of me I almost never show to anyone, and up until very recently, never DID show anyone. Is definitely the most secretive placement there is, even beating other scorpio placements out. Sorry to say but there are some things you will never know about him unless you marry him and till death do you part. That is if he never opens up, and with him being an Aquarius, good luck with that lol. At least my Leo side is more dominant and allows me to open up to people when I absolutely need to.

*edit* Oh and I CAN get jealous. But I control it and never let it get to me, its just like that feeling comes up out of nowhere for no reason and the thoughts start spewing. You literally have to stop it consciously otherwise it'll take over you like how rage can take over an aries.

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Wow I can totally relate to seeing those influences in my Aquarius man. He loves to hide part of him self. He reminds me in the right moment that he has secrets and that no one knows whom he really is. However he does share with me, not a lot (at least not as much as I think is a lot; compared to what I have shared with him) so far but a good amount considering how much he does hide. I am aware that I know more about him then his Scorpio bestfriend.

He and I have a great sense of security between each other, which creates the medium of sharing. He loves to probe my secrets and I am more inclined to share with him; which I'm sure helps him feel comfortable in knowing he can open up with me. The trust between us also supports the security of sharing. I know I still have lots to learn about him and I enjoy figuring him out like a puzzle. He stimulates my mind and emotions like no other.

In regards to his emotions, I know they run deep. However with him being a Sun Aquarius and Moon Scorpio; he can place the aloof fascade that they are not worth expressing. I can feel how deep his emotions are when he tells me he loves me, the way he holds me, touches me, kisses me, and looks into my eyes.

It's as if I am the only one who can look into those eyes and see his heart and soul. He can be clumbsy with expressing his emotions so he makes light of it and typically makes it a joke. Although I truly know better. His actions express how he feels the best.

In regards to his jealousy, watch out. I have never seen a more directly/indirect aggression towards other males in a relationship. He can subtly verbalize his jealousy towards what other males have done or said towards me. Or he will flat out make remarks such as "how about I go beat him up?" when he's not much of a physical aggressor, he's more likely to intimate an other male as opposed to use his actions; unless he's pushed to his limits.

For instance a neighbour of mine was hitting on me, and I told my Aquarius and showed the evidence (notes) to which fueled him to go to that neighbour's door while I waited in the car and he intimated him to the point that the neighbour no longer talks to me, he even runs away when he sees my Aquarius' man vehicle's pull into the parking lot.

posted March 25, 2014 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
I'm a leo female also interested in an Aquarius male
Major magnetic attraction.
We have some great synastry aspects as well as some not so great ones.
I think Leo's and Aquarius's balance each other out
Opposites do attract!

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