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Topic: Moon Synastry |4H, 8H, 12H|
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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted March 06, 2014 11:40 AM
  
Water houses are serious business for various reasons. Decided to break them down today. With synastry I know how you affect someone via overlays, depends a good deal on how they're aspects are to those houses natally.
If you've had your moon hit any or all of these houses with others, which house do you think resonates the most with a deep connection? Less tense, more transformative? Tough question!!!
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Barbiegirl19
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posted March 06, 2014 01:08 PM
My fiancé and I have it so I'd say 12th. With him being the house person and me being the moon I feel it's very transformative. We have this like secretive connection together it's a little hard to explain. It's very karmic and developed really quickly. It's like we have this secret language and are able to just look at each other without saying a single word and know what the other is feeling or about to say. We both have 12th house planets natally which for us I feel is an even bigger plus. We're very in sync with each other. Very deep on every level it seems. He's truly my best friend and the love of my life and I couldn't ask for a better person to spend the rest of my life with. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted March 06, 2014 01:08 PM
I've had it in the 12th,both ways.It's frustrating and transformative.
I've experienced all the cliche bad 12th house synastry stuff you read about.
It hard to let go.I'm hoping if I hold on long enough we'll get to experience the good side of the 12th.
But you all ways hear how the 12th house person is more affected,not true in my case.I have a lot more planets in his 12th,while he only has his moon in mine.I'm definitely more attached.
It's like I want to just let go,forget the whole thing,life would be so much easier I tell myself.Then I try and everything feels so wrong without him.IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted March 06, 2014 01:10 PM
Yep,as barbiegirl said,the connection is instant.IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted March 06, 2014 01:23 PM
Amazingly deep. I can really sense the depths of what you're saying Barbie. I've never been fortunate [to my knowledge] of affecting someone's 12H. I use fortunate lightly because I have no idea the work it takes to withstand the good and the bad with this house. Awwwww  Gemmy I read you loud and clear too. Just to see you put out there "you want to let go, but you can't" says a lot plain and simple. Any insight on how Uranus and Pluto might change things if aspected to your partner's 12H? Think it'd dampen the longing to stay with that Moon aspected there as well? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 06, 2014 01:24 PM
Yep, 12th particularly I find that there is communication and understanding that occurs on deep, hidden levels.
My best friend has his sun in my 12th also.
It's difficult to really explain. Just so much more below the surface that even those involved seem powerless to control. It either works or does not and it can't be "touched".
Even though it's her moon in my 12th I can't hide any emotion from her. Even on the phone she just knows!
4th and 8th I'm not exactly sure.
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Barbiegirl19
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posted March 06, 2014 01:28 PM
Awww well I hope one day you'll be able too. It truly is mind blowing. It still blows us away that we meet here lol. We'll be in the car going somewhere and we randomly call each other our screen names here lol and we both smile. I think a lot of it too is that his Pluto literally conjuncts everything and we have a bunch of moon aspects together so we're very deeply into each other. His mom always smiles at us when we're anywhere out as if she knows it too. It's awesome  IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted March 06, 2014 01:44 PM
Sounds SO lovely  Wow. Now I'm longing for that!
There's a guy I'm seeing [dating] who just got out of a relationship with a woman who's moon sits cozy in his 12H. While my moon just twiddles my thumb in his 8H. Knowing this [though the whole chart matters] has me so jealous lol
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Awww well I hope one day you'll be able too. It truly is mind blowing. It still blows us away that we meet here lol. We'll be in the car going somewhere and we randomly call each other our screen names here lol and we both smile. I think a lot of it too is that his Pluto literally conjuncts everything and we have a bunch of moon aspects together so we're very deeply into each other. His mom always smiles at us when we're anywhere out as if she knows it too. It's awesome
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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted March 06, 2014 01:46 PM
Hey DeepFreeze, what do you mean when you say "it can't be touched"?
Sounds very intuitive, emotionally linked (naturally) and basically an all or nothing? Works or it doesn't…
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Barbiegirl19
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posted March 06, 2014 01:49 PM
Aw don't be jealous. 8th house stuffs pretty good too. I'm curious why they broke it off. Well he's the house person so I'm sure he's fine with it but I wonder how she's handling it. Lol moon synastry imo is the best. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 06, 2014 01:55 PM
What I mean is that these hidden levels of communication are not things that you can consciously work on to improve. (not that I'm aware of)
Her and I often think the same thing at the same time. It happens a lot yet never fails to surprise us. Or how she can read my emotions. I couldn't hide them if I tried to! Whatever hidden things that the 12th brings will always be hidden in a sense. We can be aware of them but yet unable to change them. Sorry, it's very tough to explain it.  IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted March 06, 2014 01:59 PM
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summerlite
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posted March 06, 2014 01:59 PM
8H would be transformational.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 06, 2014 02:00 PM
Never mind I get lost trying to explain things. (mercury in 12th effect?) IP: Logged |
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