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posted March 11, 2014 11:07 AM            

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I have a friend, he is a recovering heroine addict, he's been clean four years, ever since I've known him.....last night he called me out of nowhere, we don't talk often he calls to see if I need anything or I call if I have a medical question or something like that.
When I spoke to him last night he sounded strange, like drunk maybe, slow and somewhat slurred speech.
I asked him if he was ok and he said he was, but I don't think he was!

1st...can a person with saggy Neptune opposed gemini Venus and square 12th house pisces mars, all very tight, can they love themselves and others enough to have the strength to genuinely kick a drug habit?
I know it's not my job to help him, but if he has slipped back into it...how can I help him go to the places he needs to go to in order to get help?
He is a surgeon so he has a lot to lose...this isn't something he can openly admit to if he has slipped back into it because he would lose his medical license.

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posted March 11, 2014 11:44 AM            

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I have a friend who has Pisces Mars in 12th, he's a pot addict. Your friend may have an addictive personality. Even if he kicks the drug habit, he's bound to get addicted to something else, video games, porn, girls, social-networking sites, even a friggin guitar...the list goes on. I feel it's something that needs to change from the inside.

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posted March 11, 2014 12:33 PM            

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I agree, with this t-square pointing to his 12th house pisces mars...he needs to deal with his subconscious pain and anger in order to ever find a healthy outlet for the opposition!
But try telling a taurus he needs to take up spiritual healing....lol....I can already see the look on his face as I say that, like I am completely insane!

He had massive trauma as a child and he's never acknowledged it as a part of his problems!

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posted March 11, 2014 01:30 PM            

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I think it's not about loving yourself. Once you experienced with drugs especially heroine or speed, you would go back at some point or maybe not. It all depends on the support you get from those people around you. The more support the less likely you are lured to experience that euphoria you get.

Also since 12H is involved, it's hard to put boundaries for oneself. The control has to be external.

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